The Most FUKKED UP Ways you/witnessed someone got rejected?

[bdbdbd]

Haha said a man, but yeah, I did fix it.

Face it men are physically strong and emotionally weak. Women are emotionally strong and physically weak. The best observation I've made in the short month of being a member of this all male forum is that you men are nothing more than women with dicks...and what I mean by that is your more fueled by your emotions than anything. To say your actions are logical is an insult to logic. Alot of these burn stories are from the highschool and college era. Seems like most of ya'll were under 21 when you had your life altering heartbreaks...the problem with that is it was during your puppy love phase. You got men out here in their late twenties and older mad at women and putting all of them in the same category as a young girl from highschool who did you wrong who was just having fun and doing her and prob not mentally mature enough or ready to handle a real relationship, yet she is the standard for all women the rest of your lives?! That lil girl??? Nothing logical about that bruh. Nothing at all. Thats all emotion.

At least women rationalize the situation and can chalk ill treatment up to adolescence and ignorance on the man's part, allowing us to heal and move on not hold that one loser as the standard for all men for life. Thats why women can sometimes continue relationships with guys who did us wrong from highschool and early college...bc we've HEALED, something men don't do.

booooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

either drop a story or shut the fuck up and get the fuck out

*mumbles* messing up a perfectly good thread

 

[peacetothereal1]

booooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
either drop a story or shut the fuck up and get the fuck out

*mumbles* messing up a perfectly good thread

Sometimes when I think of the L's I've taken I just stare off into space... and shake my head. All of them aren't story worthy, but I'm trying to remember some more that are. I may have blocked some out...damn.

 

[brocktonpatriot]

Haha said a man, but yeah, I did fix it.

Face it men are physically strong and emotionally weak. Women are emotionally strong and physically weak. The best observation I've made in the short month of being a member of this all male forum is that you men are nothing more than women with dicks...and what I mean by that is your more fueled by your emotions than anything. To say your actions are logical is an insult to logic. Alot of these burn stories are from the highschool and college era. Seems like most of ya'll were under 21 when you had your life altering heartbreaks...the problem with that is it was during your puppy love phase. You got men out here in their late twenties and older mad at women and putting all of them in the same category as a young girl from highschool who did you wrong who was just having fun and doing her and prob not mentally mature enough or ready to handle a real relationship, yet she is the standard for all women the rest of your lives?! That lil girl??? Nothing logical about that bruh. Nothing at all. Thats all emotion.

At least women rationalize the situation and can chalk ill treatment up to adolescence and ignorance on the man's part, allowing us to heal and move on not hold that one loser as the standard for all men for life. Thats why women can sometimes continue relationships with guys who did us wrong from highschool and early college...bc we've HEALED, something men don't do.

I will be simping you...

 

[Hendrix]

Haha said a man, but yeah, I did fix it.

Face it men are physically strong and emotionally weak. Women are emotionally strong and physically weak. The best observation I've made in the short month of being a member of this all male forum is that you men are nothing more than women with dicks...and what I mean by that is your more fueled by your emotions than anything. To say your actions are logical is an insult to logic. Alot of these burn stories are from the highschool and college era. Seems like most of ya'll were under 21 when you had your life altering heartbreaks...the problem with that is it was during your puppy love phase. You got men out here in their late twenties and older mad at women and putting all of them in the same category as a young girl from highschool who did you wrong who was just having fun and doing her and prob not mentally mature enough or ready to handle a real relationship, yet she is the standard for all women the rest of your lives?! That lil girl??? Nothing logical about that bruh. Nothing at all. Thats all emotion.

At least women rationalize the situation and can chalk ill treatment up to adolescence and ignorance on the man's part, allowing us to heal and move on not hold that one loser as the standard for all men for life. Thats why women can sometimes continue relationships with guys who did us wrong from highschool and early college...bc we've HEALED, something men don't do.

Hilarious. Men use this forum to express themselves emotionally because its not acceptable for us to do so in real life. Its a form of venting done in private. We don't do it publicly because its never acceptable for men to be weak or emotionally vulnerable. And women definitely don't rationalize the situation better than men. You don't hear about too many men slashing tires and crying in public over a woman.

I disagree. A female is not more bitter. She puts herself out there in hopes that the guy is honest enough to handle what she's saying and be upfront about his intentions. Women move on. You men hold grudges. Men in this very thread have said and keep repeating that all it takes is for one woman to screw him over whereas a woman can take multiple rejections and disappointments before she decides to be cold and unforgiving. Why is it diff bc I said it?

Maybe because men logically understand the risk involved with getting emotionally attached to someone after being hurt? It doesn't make sense to constantly make yourself vulnerable unless you fully trust someone, and that takes time. Plus, its easier for women to move on. They are the ones getting approached more regularly than men (yes, men get approached but not nearly as often).

 

[Hendrix]

I don't want this thread to get derailed but it looks like it already has. Fuck.

 

[Copper]

lol @ that chick saying women think logically

 

[SoutCity]

Here is another one. Back in 2006 this chick moves to our hood. So one of my little home boys(lets call him Dee) was in love with her. So they hit it off and this nigga was spending all his spear time with this girl. This nigga was a virgin an I swore this he was fucking for the amount of time he was spending with her. So one day I come home from school and this nigga sitting on my pouch tooking mad as fuck.

Me: Wa happen to you deman
Him: Deman da modaskunt grimy like fuck men and he suppose to be my boy too.
Me: Fuck you talking about

Then that nigga just went quiet. So we sitting there and we see the same bitch come out our other home boys house. At this point I am trying not to laugh and this nigga sitting next to me furious as fuck. So later that night I confront the other nigga and was like "Fuck you have to do that the my nigga" He was like men fuck this nigga, the bitch wanted to get fucked and this nigga here playing Mr nice guy. So I ask Dee if he was fucking this bitch and he said na. We clowned that nigga for the rest of the week. I swear this nigga went home and cry.

 

[peacetothereal1]

I'll never forget this one cat I was cool wit my freshman year in college let this broad ruin his whole year. Yo, when I first me this nigga he was cool as hell, full of life, always making jokes, freestylin wit niggas, he drove a fly ass ride, and then the nigga wifed a bussa. I was out there on the yard when he first start talkin to her. You could tell the broad was a bussa but the nigga was damn near in love at first sight. Well about a month goes by and these too are ALWAYS with one another. My dude had a roommate and his roommate used to complain because shorty damn near lived in the dorm room. You never saw this dude after they got together, well report cards came out and his brother is tellin niggas that my man got straight F's. Now we're all like....what? Nah. Yeah, straight F's in everything. So at this point it's intervention time and we all sit down and talk with the nigga and tell him he's spending too much time and all that, but he assures us he's not going to get kicked out and he's going to somehow get straight A's the next semester and not wind up getting booted. Wrong, the nigga stayed simping this broad. Well, eventually they started coming out to parties and this broad would get slapped and dance with every nigga at the party. I'm lookin at her dance with this nigga who was rumored to be fuckin her kiss her in the middle of the damn party. We told this nigga and he flipped out on us, said he was good and he would handle it himself. Man, this nigga was straight depressed for the rest of the year and wound up flunking out of school. When he was gone this broad started giving everybody the pussy. Not a rejection but I thought I'd share it anyway.

 

[bignorm73]

I'll never forget this one cat I was cool wit my freshman year in college let this broad ruin his whole year. Yo, when I first me this nigga he was cool as hell, full of life, always making jokes, freestylin wit niggas, he drove a fly ass ride, and then the nigga wifed a bussa. I was out there on the yard when he first start talkin to her. You could tell the broad was a bussa but the nigga was damn near in love at first sight. Well about a month goes by and these too are ALWAYS with one another. My dude had a roommate and his roommate used to complain because shorty damn near lived in the dorm room. You never saw this dude after they got together, well report cards came out and his brother is tellin niggas that my man got straight F's. Now we're all like....what? Nah. Yeah, straight F's in everything. So at this point it's intervention time and we all sit down and talk with the nigga and tell him he's spending too much time and all that, but he assures us he's not going to get kicked out and he's going to somehow get straight A's the next semester and not wind up getting booted. Wrong, the nigga stayed simping this broad. Well, eventually they started coming out to parties and this broad would get slapped and dance with every nigga at the party. I'm lookin at her dance with this nigga who was rumored to be fuckin her kiss her in the middle of the damn party. We told this nigga and he flipped out on us, said he was good and he would handle it himself. Man, this nigga was straight depressed for the rest of the year and wound up flunking out of school. When he was gone this broad started giving everybody the pussy. Not a rejection but I thought I'd share it anyway.

Saddest story in here, cuz his boys tried to tell him what was up

 

[Ms Eudoxie]

Hilarious. Men use this forum to express themselves emotionally because its not acceptable for us to do so in real life. Its a form of venting done in private. We don't do it publicly because its never acceptable for men to be weak or emotionally vulnerable. And women definitely don't rationalize the situation better than men. You don't hear about too many men slashing tires and crying in public over a woman.

Men may not slash tires, but they'll surely beat the hell out of the chick, stalk her, or harass her and try to make her life difficult and do countless other petty antics for revenge. Stop acting like men handle L's with class. Visit any female board and start up a discussion. This board loves to shout out BHM and LSA (female boards). Women make MORE sense. Even the men who participate on female boards have better discussions at times. Female boards do tend to get a little too politically correct but you can distinguish the substance in what they're saying from the fiction. What ya'll do on here seems like its 95% kicks and giggles and 5% real. Nothing wrong with having an outlet, but some really release alot of ignorance and vents based solely on emotions, thats cool too, but when you have mofos coming in cosigning the negativity of ones emotions w/o saying "Hey bruh, you may be upset but you got it wrong" theres a problem. Leads me to believe you all see no problem in acting out of your emotions which never makes anything better irl. Don't mean to go back to this example, but did you not see the thread where some guy said a girl told him "Not now" and refused to date him at the time he wanted..and when the girl initiated contact with him at a time she probably had her issues dealt with the whole board was like "Fuck her"?! After that thread, I began to notice that one thing you men do on here is cosign each others ignorance. And only ignorant women look at showing emotion as weak. They live in a fairly tale where men are macho and brolic at all times. Showing emotion is healthy for men and women as long as you don't wallow in pity.

Maybe because men logically understand the risk involved with getting emotionally attached to someone after being hurt? It doesn't make sense to constantly make yourself vulnerable unless you fully trust someone, and that takes time. Plus, its easier for women to move on. They are the ones getting approached more regularly than men (yes, men get approached but not nearly as often).

True that does take time, but is that how you really feel or is that just what your telling me? This board has in enstilled in their brain that all it takes is for one immature wreckless female to wrong them and that one woman represents all females. And not all women move on fast. I personally stayed single for two years between breakups. I'm not one to rush into relationships but some people do feel the need to constantly have a partner (male and female).

I won't take up anymore of this thread space, but I was reading from a perspective of how men irl approach women in relationships and the mindset they have. You men are saying very similar things to what I hear daily and its all emotional based. Logic to ya'll is whatever takes the hurt off what you feel. Thats not solving logically, its emotional. Nothing wrong with having your guard up, but if you can't somehow trust the new chick bc the old one was a waste, you haven't healed from the last relationship. Give the new girl time to show herself. The barriers might not be neccessary ...... unless you just don't know how to pick'em. =)

Tis all.

 

[BigBallsNoWorries]

I'll never forget this one cat I was cool wit my freshman year in college let this broad ruin his whole year. Yo, when I first me this nigga he was cool as hell, full of life, always making jokes, freestylin wit niggas, he drove a fly ass ride, and then the nigga wifed a bussa. I was out there on the yard when he first start talkin to her. You could tell the broad was a bussa but the nigga was damn near in love at first sight. Well about a month goes by and these too are ALWAYS with one another. My dude had a roommate and his roommate used to complain because shorty damn near lived in the dorm room. You never saw this dude after they got together, well report cards came out and his brother is tellin niggas that my man got straight F's. Now we're all like....what? Nah. Yeah, straight F's in everything. So at this point it's intervention time and we all sit down and talk with the nigga and tell him he's spending too much time and all that, but he assures us he's not going to get kicked out and he's going to somehow get straight A's the next semester and not wind up getting booted. Wrong, the nigga stayed simping this broad. Well, eventually they started coming out to parties and this broad would get slapped and dance with every nigga at the party. I'm lookin at her dance with this nigga who was rumored to be fuckin her kiss her in the middle of the damn party. We told this nigga and he flipped out on us, said he was good and he would handle it himself. Man, this nigga was straight depressed for the rest of the year and wound up flunking out of school. When he was gone this broad started giving everybody the pussy. Not a rejection but I thought I'd share it anyway.

nah that aint rejection necessarily but it sure is ETHER, tha bitch fucked his life up, damn he should have just keep grinding and hit it and quit it

 

[DanknDrank]

the ether them hoes put on yall is fucking hilarious, almost burns my soul...damn im hurting for yall lmao

 

[Copper]

why the hell females in here trying to change the subject and talk about how men are emotional....FOH all humans are emotional we just been trained not to show it....stop trying to derail the thread....

 

[Hendrix]

True that does take time, but is that how you really feel or is that just what your telling me? This board has in enstilled in their brain that all it takes is for one immature wreckless female to wrong them and that one woman represents all females. And not all women move on fast. I personally stayed single for two years between breakups. I'm not one to rush into relationships but some people do feel the need to constantly have a partner (male and female).

I won't take up anymore of this thread space, but I was reading from a perspective of how men irl approach women in relationships and the mindset they have. You men are saying very similar things to what I hear daily and its all emotional based. Logic to ya'll is whatever takes the hurt off what you feel. Thats not solving logically, its emotional. Nothing wrong with having your guard up, but if you can't somehow trust the new chick bc the old one was a waste, you haven't healed from the last relationship. Give the new girl time to show herself. The barriers might not be neccessary ...... unless you just don't know how to pick'em. =)

Tis all.

Men doing petty stuff for revenge isn’t as common as women overreacting emotionally. When a dude gets rejected, his boys are most likely going to tell him to move on, find another girl, etc. I’ve never heard dudes in real life co-signing other men for taking ignorant/overly emotional actions. Guys get clowned by other guys when they react that way. You said yourself much of the comments on here from men aren’t to be taken seriously, so you can’t really use that as support. Dudes are just on here to clown around and let off steam that they can’t do in real life. You said you’ve only been here for a little while. You will realize which posters are being serious eventually and you will notice that plenty of dudes basically say “you got it wrong” when someone makes a mistake.

I’ve been on that BHM board before and the women over there tend to base their arguments on emotions/feelings when it comes to things like cheating on a guy or breaking up. They say things like “follow your heart” or “do what feels right” when someone has problems. Men just don’t say things like that, because what feels right isn’t always the right thing to do.

You must not have seen the whole story when it came to that thread about that girl saying she didn’t want a relationship (there was more than one thread). She was stringing him along and I’m pretty sure she rejected him.

Yes, that’s how I feel about taking your time until you fully trust someone. I don’t say things that I don’t mean. Logically, the best actions to take with regard to relationships are whatever will minimize pain. It makes sense to keep your guard up to protect yourself.

We will probably just have to agree to disagree because I don’t feel like going back and forth anymore.

 

[Rey Negro]

why the hell females in here trying to change the subject and talk about how men are emotional....FOH all humans are emotional we just been trained not to show it....stop trying to derail the thread....

shit is sad smh....attention whoring. this the last time imma comment on it though. back to the thread.

 

[SoutCity]

True that does take time, but is that how you really feel or is that just what your telling me? This board has in enstilled in their brain that all it takes is for one immature wreckless female to wrong them and that one woman represents all females. And not all women move on fast. I personally stayed single for two years between breakups. I'm not one to rush into relationships but some people do feel the need to constantly have a partner (male and female).

I won't take up anymore of this thread space, but I was reading from a perspective of how men irl approach women in relationships and the mindset they have. You men are saying very similar things to what I hear daily and its all emotional based. Logic to ya'll is whatever takes the hurt off what you feel. Thats not solving logically, its emotional. Nothing wrong with having your guard up, but if you can't somehow trust the new chick bc the old one was a waste, you haven't healed from the last relationship. Give the new girl time to show herself. The barriers might not be neccessary ...... unless you just don't know how to pick'em. =)

Tis all.

Bitch get the fuck out and go make your own thread.

 

[ms.jones]

*sigh*.....

I experienced a large amount of ether from one particular fellow over the course of 4 years....many stories which will stay forever written in my mind.....but the end result of our relationship was me getting a running start from the neighbor's backyard, all the way up to his front door, to which I did a full on kung-fu kick, complete with both feet being off the ground, and me flying in the air...I busted in that bitch like Wonder Woman.

 

[bignorm73]

Damn lol. Why you did that Ms. Jones?

 

[shawnbrown]

*sigh*.....

I experienced a large amount of ether from one particular fellow over the course of 4 years....many stories which will stay forever written in my mind.....but the end result of our relationship was me getting a running start from the neighbor's backyard, all the way up to his front door, to which I did a full on kung-fu kick, complete with both feet being off the ground, and me flying in the air...I busted in that bitch like Wonder Woman.

lmao... ms jones is the man

 

[ms.jones]

Damn lol. Why you did that Ms. Jones?

I just got tired of that nigga fuckin' with me, and my head....I know, I know, people only do shit to you if you let them....but it's always that one muthafuckin' that will make you kill. That one bitch that will test your fuckin' gangsta, and make you lose your fuckin' mind.