1. Lol @ the notion that the standard of comparison between two neighboring states is one state's ability to keep a random citizen from befriending or having sex with a person from another state.
2. However with that said, if we actually use that logic...then the state of NC still didn't take a L.
Since to keep it 100, @SixSickSins actually 'chose' me. Nonetheless, she finally became attached to the idea of Lou flying down to NC and meeting her when she became annoyed with waiting on me (among other things after her unfortunate circumstance.)
Here's the backstory:
She initiated, by showing interest in me (merely as a poster and on a platonic level then) within months after I signed up on this site last year in after she begin reading my posts in the GnS/Social Lounge. After that, many months later she found out how I looked, she immediately wanted to talk to me offline about my relationship status (and info/personal details about my life) and wanted to meet up (movies/gun range then place to eat then my place or hers it didn't matter according to her, but she preferred my spot).
Eventually, she apparently grew tired of my laid-back, take-it-slow approach with her (one of the things she disliked about me was my natural aversion to meeting females off websites/forums I frequent and my preference for local females I've seen in person). I think she took it personal or thinks I led her on I guess, when it wasn't like that since I would've done the same to any female in that scenario - I met online/from social media. I'm type of guy that even if I joke around say things like I want to meet up or in her case say it and actually mean it, I'm going to take it slow and evaluate whether it's worth doing it.
Hopefully from her perspective I actually didn't come off as leading her on. However, I'll never be one of those cats that will attempt to bag an online female within a week of her reciprocating the interest regardless of the goofy simpish things I type to a female. I'm a chill, introvert irl so l'm fond of privacy and I'm skeptical of anything that can compromise my private info/career/offline associations and friendships (it's the reason I don't like exposures and would never expose a female or anyone for that matter.)
Lou's cool af, so out of respect for him and Six (who I still like immensely as a person) that's the last I'll say about this topic.