Submit=Doormat?

[CapitalB]

u know what i meant or cant the baby stomach steak!!?

do i have to break it down to gerber??

 

[VIBE]

Anyone ever see one of those "Wife Swap" episodes where the white wife submits to her husband fully and takes his coat off, shoes off and socks and massages him after work? That's submission.

 

[AZTG]

@Haute and @Cap B dropping gems in here.

 

[haute]

Lol that gender shit is for the birds

There are relationships where the woman has the plan and the man follows and nothing implodes

This is very simple

Someone needs to lead and one needs to submit its up to the two of you to decide what who does what and know their role

If youre not the submit type or you believe that strongly in what you do and how you live

Make sure you're with someone who believes that too

The end

 

[CapitalB]

when i think of dominant females in nature i think of black widows.. WIDOWS..

and Hyenas.. chicks wit dicks..

me bein a Lion no wonder i dont get along with the latter..

im jus sayin..

 

[haute]

You like ranch

I take balsamic

But the shit is still salad

As long as two subs or two aren't trying to make it work it's whatever

 

[CapitalB]

so which are u?? the one wit no man or the one wearin the strap-on??

and itialian!

 

[Meta_Conscious]

never met a bitch who didn't need a little guidance...

the problem with most of these bitches is that they dont want b lead but can't b leaders...

a creature with 2 heads is a monster... fuck feminism...

 

[Bookworm]

I look at it as letting the man be the man. I'm very old school that way. My husband is the head of the household.

 

[blakfyahking]

@haute been a dom for a long time tho

that's why I be shook whenever she posts

 

[Knives Amilli]

Lol that gender shit is for the birds

There are relationships where the woman has the plan and the man follows and nothing implodes

This is very simple

Someone needs to lead and one needs to submit its up to the two of you to decide what who does what and know their role

If youre not the submit type or you believe that strongly in what you do and how you live

Make sure you're with someone who believes that too

The end

True that.

My district manager is the bread winner in her household (makes about six figures), her husband retired at 38 to stay at home and watch the kids/maintain the house, and their household revolves around her and the decisions she has to make.

I kinda envy that nigga.

 

[CapitalB]

ur DM is a chick wit a dick..

a hyena..

that man tends the garden and the kids..

and so long as he is okay wit sittin down when he pees the more power to that couple averaging 5 figures..

 

[Knives Amilli]

ur DM is a chick wit a dick..

a hyena..

that man tends the garden and the kids..

and so long as he is okay wit sittin down when he pees the more power to that couple averaging 5 figures..

Ehhh....

If you say so. I mean it makes sense to me for one of them to stop working, given how much she makes and her responsibilities (District operations manager for a fortune 100 company). Either that or have a headache managing a household/family.

 

[Wild Self]

a woman that submits is only allowing herself to be lead by her man knowing that he can bring forth security, authority, protection and know how to provide. She can also be the backbone of the relationship while he's the head. Without the head, there's no backbone. She can also bring out the best in the man without stepping into his position. While the man commands and leads without treating his woman like a slave or less than him.

So a woman that plays such role has actually less to handle with, because she nurtures, provide (in a sense of the children with domestic pursuits) and it easily creates a balance in the household.

well... that's what it use to be with the majority of relationships.

The world in 2012 is upside down. Its no coincidence why there are so many dysfunctional households where people are so stubborn that everything around them suffers.

 

[haute]

I'm a sub (in most areas)

I have tell people what to do all the time at my job

So Im glad to have some else call the shots

I think with some women especially those lacking careers of their own (and adding being a minority) home becomes the only place they can have control and they OD on that shit

Making everything into a my way or no way situation

But male or female, good leaders know that the shit works when someone WANTS to follow you, now some leaders mind fuck their way into that scenario others just wait for a willing partner.

But the women you're describing often have no clue and that's when shit goes left

 

[CapitalB]

but would u not agree that to lead takes some "mind fucking"

 

[haute]

*sigh*

Oh lawd

Listen I don't want any neck snapping chick popping off talmbout ' I ain't never been mind fucked by no nigga'

Because anyone who has had to execute their vision knows what I'm about to say

When you have the vision/plan you have the ability to see most if not all of the complete picture

Many times the person/people you are leading can't see that far

So out of respect (because you don't want to be a tyrant) you mind fuck a little

But since you are an mature adult you mind fuck responsibly

 

[CapitalB]

lol okay..

no argument here...

 

[Meta_Conscious]

yo @haute is hitting u young smuts with some gems...

 

[Hypernova]

subjection, comply