Submit=Doormat?

[SlickestR]

SixSickSins don't give a fuck haha. she'd be the type to say "fuck you nigga, i'm in this relationship too, so i can also make decisions"

 

[CapitalB]

i refrain from engaging wonder women..

then She-Ra Man haters..

i jus sit back and enjoy the movie..

i jus love comedy and tragedies...

*insert popcorn gif*

 

[VIBE]

How the fuck can decisions be made 50/50 yo? someone school me on this. do you guys think about the shit y'all post. Check this scenario out. Let's say I get home and I'm tired and wanna chill in front of the TV while my girl wants to go out. How can a 50/50 decision be made? either one or the other has to happen. Either I submit to my girls will and go out or she submits to mine and we stay home. In my relationship, majority of the time she submits cause that's how I have it. If you feel like the dude should submit then get a bitch made dude to submit to you, but that 50/50 shit? cut that shit out.

Funny ass people yo

If I wanna kick back and watch tv and she wants to roll out, I stay home and watch tv and she rolls out. None of us are obligated to do what the other does every time.

 

[SlickestR]

How the fuck can decisions be made 50/50 yo? someone school me on this. do you guys think about the shit y'all post. Check this scenario out. Let's say I get home and I'm tired and wanna chill in front of the TV while my girl wants to go out. How can a 50/50 decision be made? either one or the other has to happen. Either I submit to my girls will and go out or she submits to mine and we stay home. In my relationship, majority of the time she submits cause that's how I have it. If you feel like the dude should submit then get a bitch made dude to submit to you, but that 50/50 shit? cut that shit out.

Funny ass people yo

some bitches will say you gotta compromise.

 

[AZTG]

@vibe no brah. you proved my point with that one. your girl wanted to go out with you, but you decided to stay home so she left by herself. That's you not submitting and forcing her to submit since she wanted to go out with you but you stayed in front of the TV. Exactly what I mean. You can't call that 50/50. that's what I mean.

 

[MOBLiveLife]

It never fails to amaze me that some women will let a man be her "head" or "boss" simply because he has a dick between his legs. Or better yet, an old book written for men, by men says so.

Haven't done it, don't do it, won't do it. Ever.

Call me a radical feminist or new age pepsi drinker all you want but it ain't happenin'. I've never had an unhappy relationship due to not submitting.

Making decisions and all other relation-y type shit should be 50/50.

you still young tho babes

you prob still date lil niggaz wearing capris and think that shit is normal

but you'll learn eventually tho

Naw, she probably won't..

 

[VIBE]

You said "either one or the other can happen..", "either I submit to her (we go out) or she submits to me (she stays).."

That's submission and not a 50/50 decision.

 

[SixSickSins]

How the fuck can decisions be made 50/50 yo? someone school me on this. do you guys think about the shit y'all post. Check this scenario out. Let's say I get home and I'm tired and wanna chill in front of the TV while my girl wants to go out. How can a 50/50 decision be made? either one or the other has to happen. Either I submit to my girls will and go out or she submits to mine and we stay home. In my relationship, majority of the time she submits cause that's how I have it. If you feel like the dude should submit then get a bitch made dude to submit to you, but that 50/50 shit? cut that shit out.

Funny ass people yo

Did you not see the option to compromise you selective reading, Turkish prostate massager?! Find a common ground. Stop being a whiny, gotta-have-it-my-way ass bitch. Man up, pleighboi.

"Funny ass people, yo"

uh huh.

 

[AZTG]

@slickestR Compromise is a form of submitting anyway. Girl says come on I wanna go to the bar, you say listen I'll hit the liquor store, get a movie, and we just drink at home. some people will call that compromise but really you just got her to submit to your want and not go out. depending how you run your relationship you might be the one submitting or get her to submit.

I'm just saying, let's be real. in a relationship everyone is submitting to someone. You can call it compromise, you can call it some other shit, you might even say my relationship is 50/50, but truth is truth.

 

[alvarez_313]

It never fails to amaze me that some women will let a man be her "head" or "boss" simply because he has a dick between his legs. Or better yet, an old book written for men, by men says so.

Haven't done it, don't do it, won't do it. Ever.

Call me a radical feminist or new age pepsi drinker all you want but it ain't happenin'. I've never had an unhappy relationship due to not submitting.

Making decisions and all other relation-y type shit should be 50/50.

A man worthy of submitting too will prove it by his works and actions.. It's not like the dude kicks in the door and goes "bitch I got a dick so submit to me".. It's kinda like when women say they love a man that knows how to step up and take control of situations.. My wife definitely has a say in what goes on but she is comfortable with the final decision being mine once she's expressed her opinion.. It's cool to be radical and all that but there's also a natural state of existence under which life itself flows much smoother and beneficial to all involved. At the same time just being a man doesn't mean you are worthy nor ready to be the head.. That's where a lot of people fuck up, submitting to dudes that haven't proven the ability to handle the situation. To each his\her own though..

 

[loch121]

makes you a whore mat

 

[AZTG]

@vibe come on man. your smarter then that. your girl asked you to go out, how does her going out alone and you staying home become a compromise.

@sicksixsins I read the post about you being young and didn't pay mind to it but seeing your response to my post I guess it was true. Either say some intelligent thought provoking shit providing your opinion to be valid or shut the fuck up when grown folk talking. or at least come up with a funnier response so that I can laugh if thats the route you chose to go. that Turkish prostate messager shit was corny as fuck.

 

[blakfyahking]

It never fails to amaze me that some women will let a man be her "head" or "boss" simply because he has a dick between his legs. Or better yet, an old book written for men, by men says so.

Haven't done it, don't do it, won't do it. Ever.

Call me a radical feminist or new age pepsi drinker all you want but it ain't happenin'. I've never had an unhappy relationship due to not submitting.

Making decisions and all other relation-y type shit should be 50/50.

you still young tho babes

you prob still date lil niggaz wearing capris and think that shit is normal

but you'll learn eventually tho

Naw, she probably won't..

nah, she will

it's just whether she will finally get in a relationship that lasts

or ends up one of them old chicks who can't keep a man...............

it's funny cause all these feminists don't see how they support ideals that are actually diminishing their chances of finding the great relationship they seek

 

[SlickestR]

@slickestR Compromise is a form of submitting anyway. Girl says come on I wanna go to the bar, you say listen I'll hit the liquor store, get a movie, and we just drink at home. some people will call that compromise but really you just got her to submit to your want and not go out. depending how you run your relationship you might be the one submitting or get her to submit.

I'm just saying, let's be real. in a relationship everyone is submitting to someone. You can call it compromise, you can call it some other shit, you might even say my relationship is 50/50, but truth is truth.

you have a point, because in actuality it is submitting. I guess the whole act of compromise is kinda of paradoxical in itself. The intention is to make it fair, but it ends up being unfair to the person who didn't receive what they intended to do, but still did what they wanted to do

 

[haute]

Submission just means that you allow your self to be lead

And as long as your not a dingbat who doesn't have the ability to see the difference between a responsible adult with a plan and an asshole

Being submissive puts you in position to create something really special with someone

 

[ceothachosen1]

how about submitting to someone who dont treat u like a doormat

 

[haute]

how about submitting to someone who dont treat u like a doormat

^^^gets it

 

[Shuffington]

I find it funny when a dude saids.. "Submission doesn't equal weakness..."

that would mean that the same dude doesn't have a problem submitting to his woman.

But typically these arguments are always one sided stipulating that a woman should always defer to her man for the final word.

Shyt is kinda silly though because relationships aren't as linear as we would ideally like them to be.

 

[CapitalB]

but submission DOESNT equal weakness..

and what i look like submittin to someone not as strong as i!??

and if she is stronger then i what does that say about her even dealin with me??

that to me is a woman to weak to submit and will settle for less..

im jus sayin..

 

[Shuffington]

but submission DOESNT equal weakness..

and what i look like submittin to someone not as strong as i!??

and if she is stronger then i what does that say about her even dealin with me??

that to me is a woman to weak to submit and will settle for less..

im jus sayin..

What does this shyt even mean? haha

This aint the gym Nygga .... lol