Submit=Doormat?

[God-I_Am_Ether]

Are you considered as having game when you usually deal with weak people?

 

[CapitalB]

no tangent.. jus logic..

but uhhh

common sense aint common..

 

[Kat]

it was real tho....

Real black and white.

I can't say I disagree though...completely.

 

[SlickestR]

women that are independent, domineering and feisty usually end up with men that are cool, reserved, and nonchalant, but it doesn't always mean that the man is submissive, and it could be the same vice versa.

 

[Lurker6]

Spoiler

@icecoldstew should of posted the gif with dude slamming her face into the bed

 

[Kat]

Good post @kai

Do you think people frequently confuse one for the other?

 

[Bawse D.Lox]

@Bawse dont speak when the professor is teachin..

wasnt u jus askin for game a week or so ago!!?

nigga ask me if i even feed my own dog!!?

ask u 4 game? naw nigga, i asked u 4 ya profession.

from the tales u kick, u claim u caking, so i wanna cake too, yet u never answered that Question.

 

[CapitalB]

so u was askin for game!!? smffh

maybe u should listen more and talk less.. shit is there for the takin.. so if u aint got it by now maybe it isnt for u..

jus sayin..

 

[alvarez_313]

My wife happily submits to me as the man of the household and head of the marriage.. It in no way relegates her to being less important in the relationship and honestly her ability to submit puts more pressure on me to stay on top of my shit.. She respects my ability and decision making skills enough to place her well being and the well being of our children and household in my hands so I give her the utmost respect and honor for that. Usually people hear the word submit and instantly conjure visions of being someones slave or indentured servant, unfortunately there are those that will take advantage of that and ruin it for others.

 

[CapitalB]

but @Bawse i gettit..

i didnt jus hand it over to u so now ur bitter and this is ur way of lashing out..

its gonna be okay bruh..

 

[CapitalB]

real shit @Alvarez..

heavy is the head that wears the crown.. all the pressure is on the leader.. the one submitting has it easy. lol

 

[blackjack2012]

My wife happily submits to me as the man of the household and head of the marriage.. It in no way relegates her to being less important in the relationship and honestly her ability to submit puts more pressure on me to stay on top of my shit.. She respects my ability and decision making skills enough to place her well being and the well being of our children and household in my hands so I give her the utmost respect and honor for that. Usually people hear the word submit and instantly conjure visions of being someones slave or indentured servant, unfortunately there are those that will take advantage of that and ruin it for others.

What country is your wife from?...American women don't know how to submit.

 

[twinzmom]

There was a thread similar to this years ago. I remember some of the women saying submitting wasn't there thing. But I think with a good man, it will be automatic.

 

[twinzmom]

My wife happily submits to me as the man of the household and head of the marriage.. It in no way relegates her to being less important in the relationship and honestly her ability to submit puts more pressure on me to stay on top of my shit.. She respects my ability and decision making skills enough to place her well being and the well being of our children and household in my hands so I give her the utmost respect and honor for that. Usually people hear the word submit and instantly conjure visions of being someones slave or indentured servant, unfortunately there are those that will take advantage of that and ruin it for others.

What country is your wife from?...American women don't know how to submit.

Some of us do.

 

[CapitalB]

hahahaha @blackjack ud be surprised.. some do.. others want to but dont want their single girlfriends to view them as bein weak..

misery sure does love company i tell u what..

 

[caddo man]

There was a thread similar to this years ago. I remember some of the women saying submitting wasn't there thing. But I think with a good man, it will be automatic.

I was going to reference that thread also. I also remember women admitting that if their S/O didnt show he was worthy they wouldnt. My first thought is why are you with him if that is the case.

@twinzmom were you deployed again?

 

[AZTG]

My girl is has the strongest will I've ever seen in a female, she's prideful to a fault sometimes, extremely independent, but she submits to my wants and wills. Shit just didn't happen, but I made her understand that I'm the man in the relationship and unless I'm being extremely disrespectful, what i say goes. she accepted. If she doesn't agree with what I said, she argues her point, but ends up doing what I asked her to do. That's how our relationships work.

It also goes without saying that even though my lady submits to me, I never take advantage of it and disrespect her in anyway. I respect her wants needs and beliefs and provide all I can to make her happy, but if we don't agree, and I'm not asking for some outlandish shit, my way goes, and that to me is submitting.

 

[blackjack2012]

I tell you this the stereotype of white women being more submissive than black women isn't true .

 

[Bawse D.Lox]

so u was askin for game!!? smffh

maybe u should listen more and talk less.. shit is there for the takin.. so if u aint got it by now maybe it isnt for u..

jus sayin..

game, play-station, Nintendo, yet the question remains unanswered . ain't nobody bitter fam, it was just a joke you can put the hankercheif away.

u out here hoping out of private trains, to get in 2 ya private jets. then parachute out the jet, to ya private yacht. then hop out the yacht to swim to ya private island.

i'm like what major do a nigga need to get in that field???

 

[NothingButTheTruth]

All I know is my S/O would have to be someone who thinks she's on an equal level with me. None of us will be the dominate one in the relationship. We will discuss important situations like intelligent adults and if we disagree on a particular subject, we will use our problem solving skills to come up with a compromise.

A female who submits and lets the man make all the decisions is a HUGE turnoff for me. She must be independent thinking and confident in her own abilities to make valid decisions.