Submission-Should Women submit to her man?

[blacktux]

Women fall into place when in presence of a man.

Its too many girls calling themselves women and boys calling themselves men.

A person that submits "just because" is an idiot just like a person that trusts "just because." You gotta show and prove, earn that right.

 

[Will Munny]

Only if they want help rearing children, other wise no, they can do what they want.

Women have been raising children alone tho for the past 20 years or so and they haven't been doing the best job unfortunately.

:kissing_wink:

 

[Kai]

You should do what works in your relationship and not worry about other people.

But, I don't like this "let your man be a man" stuff. If you're a man, you're a man full stop. What kind of nigga need permission to man up?

maybe not permission to man up, but plenty of niggas gotta get permission before going out, staying out late, going to clubs all kinds of shit. lets not act like a lot (i'd venture to say most) of these guys are run by their girl

 

[LordZuko]

You know what...fuck it. I got time today goddammit

ok

soooo?

Well I don't want to kick it off. My posting style is to reply to much expected shit that's gonna show up,

k....on why you sint submit to cop boy?

he gotta hanfcuff you to take the pussy?

you take the dikk and the nightstick, so you have a threesome but your man won't feel threatened?

kick it off ob..let's get it. I'm tired of you!

Sidenote....speaking of....

Why this nigga get served last week for some bullshit? This guy is actually suing him for cuffing him too tight. Literally asking for monetary damages.

Oh i hope i get chose for jury duty.

 

[jono]

You should do what works in your relationship and not worry about other people.

But, I don't like this "let your man be a man" stuff. If you're a man, you're a man full stop. What kind of nigga need permission to man up?

It's not about needing permission, it's about not having to endure a power struggle at every turn.

Something wrong at that point. Some things you just don't argue over. It needs to be some context.

A woman following a man's lead doesn't mean she's a mindless follower. Communication and context matter.

To be honest though, a lot of this shit is more about ego than anything.

You should do what works in your relationship and not worry about other people.

But, I don't like this "let your man be a man" stuff. If you're a man, you're a man full stop. What kind of nigga need permission to man up?

maybe not permission to man up, but plenty of niggas gotta get permission before going out, staying out late, going to clubs all kinds of shit. lets not act like a lot (i'd venture to say most) of these guys are run by their girl

This is more about respect and communication. Disappearing for long hours should be a no-go for anyone. Its irresponsible to do shit like that.

However, it can go too far.

 

[blacktux]

You should do what works in your relationship and not worry about other people.

But, I don't like this "let your man be a man" stuff. If you're a man, you're a man full stop. What kind of nigga need permission to man up?

maybe not permission to man up, but plenty of niggas gotta get permission before going out, staying out late, going to clubs all kinds of shit. lets not act like a lot (i'd venture to say most) of these guys are run by their girl

Thats being run by your girl?

Man thats being considerate.

 

[deadeye]

Unnecessary

@Kat

I don't think I have that one in my collection Kathryn.

*newest database addition*

 

[Kat]

Unnecessary

@Kat

I don't think I have that one in my collection Kathryn.

*newest database addition*

You're extra late..shit is old.

 

[jniam]

the man should be worth submitting to.

alot of niggas aint doing they job as men and head of household.

/thread.

It's over

 

[Kai]

You should do what works in your relationship and not worry about other people.

But, I don't like this "let your man be a man" stuff. If you're a man, you're a man full stop. What kind of nigga need permission to man up?

maybe not permission to man up, but plenty of niggas gotta get permission before going out, staying out late, going to clubs all kinds of shit. lets not act like a lot (i'd venture to say most) of these guys are run by their girl

Thats being run by your girl?

Man thats being considerate.

i'm talking about the more extreme side of that shit, hence where the term hen-pecking comes from. lets not act like some guys ain't in a relationship that's like having a strict parent, ie you gotta ask permission to do anything and the answer is always no.

 

[blacktux]

Hen pecking came out in a different time. More of that "strict parent/lover" thing on both sides was going on in that time.

I dont know a single dude rocking like that. Not saying they arent out there.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Hen pecking came out in a different time. More of that "strict parent/lover" thing on both sides was going on in that time.

I dont know a single dude rocking like that. Not saying they arent out there.

you sure?

it may be more than you think.

 

[yellowtapesport]

I know cold-blooded killers that are 'ran' by their women lol

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I know cold-blooded killers that are 'ran' by their women lol

I knew a nigga who came to my cousin crib...just beat a nigga ass. cuz still laying in the street but was sent back out to go to the store.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I'm lying....lol

 

[Crude_]

If she trusts her man and the foundation is good she should trust her man enough to submit.

If the foundation isn't good and she doesn't tryst her man then she probably shouldn't be in the relationship.

Make your man feel like a king and don't be bringing all that extra attitude in his castle in turn that man should make you feel like a queen or you need to get rid of him.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

If she trusts her man and the foundation is good she should trust her man enough to submit.

If the foundation isn't good and she doesn't tryst her man then she probably shouldn't be in the relationship.

Make your man feel like a king and don't be bringing all that extra attitude in his castle in turn that man should make you feel like a queen or you need to get rid of him.

Pretty much...

At the same time ultimately it's on the man.. Hate to sound harsh.. But if you're my lady.. My word is final.. I refuse to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust my judgement. I've gotten this far in life by making sound judgements without her.. So if you can't get on board and add to the situation you can keep it pushing. That also isn't to be confused with not taking the advice of your lady either.. The Queen does protect the King..

 

[fortyacres]

no.

 

[Ol Jay's]

if you have to ask this question then ain't no chick ever submitting to you because you don't embody what it means to be a man

 

[Ol Jay's]

smh, shit got me pissed, dumb ass question

"Should a woman submit to her man", like the chick got an option