Step Kids...Keep It Real

[rockets]

To answer the original question. I don't have children but I like children. Matter a fact I was a teacher for 5 years. If I did date or marry a man with children, I would not treat them differently from my own. But I will always remember that they are my step children and that is where it stays. I would not particularly go out of my way for that child like I would my own. Most step children are not grateful of the adults that step into their lives and try to play daddy or mommy. Therefore I will not do it. You would be my step child and that is it. Nothing more or less. If I break up with the dad, I'm out of both of their lives because that is not my child. I did not birth them.

 

[Check Mate]

To answer the original question. I don't have children but I like children. Matter a fact I was a teacher for 5 years. If I did date or marry a man with children, I would not treat them differently from my own. But I will always remember that they are my step children and that is where it stays. I would not particularly go out of my way for that child like I would my own. Most step children are not grateful of the adults that step into their lives and try to play daddy or mommy. Therefore I will not do it. You would be my step child and that is it. Nothing more or less. If I break up with the dad, I'm out of both of their lives because that is not my child. I did not birth them.

But at age 6?

 

[rockets]

But at age 6?

doesnt matter what age. they still know you are not blood. therefore why treat them like they are?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Swearing doesn't always mean being angry. He's heard me swear joyously, plus bein scared of heights is way more tolerable than being scared of bugs. Niggaz die fron fallin from shit. I ain't never seen a nigga die from a mosquito bite LOL

niggas die from skeeta bites all the time bruh from shit like malaria....just not that much in america....skeetas carry blood born diseases....nigga you never seen outbreak....lol

 

[2stepz_ahead]

To answer the original question. I don't have children but I like children. Matter a fact I was a teacher for 5 years. If I did date or marry a man with children, I would not treat them differently from my own. But I will always remember that they are my step children and that is where it stays. I would not particularly go out of my way for that child like I would my own. Most step children are not grateful of the adults that step into their lives and try to play daddy or mommy. Therefore I will not do it. You would be my step child and that is it. Nothing more or less. If I break up with the dad, I'm out of both of their lives because that is not my child. I did not birth them.

how are the kids supposed to act toward a step parent at that age? the parent is supposed to reinforce the respect for the step parent and the child follows the lead. if the parent dont respect you then believe the child wont. but if you ever get with someone with children you need to look at their child as part of your life or shit will be bad for you in the long run trust me. but why even get into the situation if you aint up for it 100%.

 

[rockets]

how are the kids supposed to act toward a step parent at that age? the parent is supposed to reinforce the respect for the step parent and the child follows the lead. if the parent dont respect you then believe the child wont. but if you ever get with someone with children you need to look at their child as part of your life or shit will be bad for you in the long run trust me. but why even get into the situation if you aint up for it 100%.

you are right. that is why i try not to get involve with people that have children. i am not treating a child that i did not birth as my own.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

you are right. that is why i try not to get involve with people that have children. i am not treating a child that i did not birth as my own.

i can respect the fact that at least your honest with it and not BS someone up front....props

more people need to be honest with what they are getting themselves into and not act like the shit will magically change just for them.

 

[Check Mate]

you are right. that is why i try not to get involve with people that have children. i am not treating a child that i did not birth as my own.

Lol thats some real shit.

 

[evoljeanyes]

I feel like if you're going to be involved, you may as well treat them well. I am not necessarily saying treat them as your own, but treat them well. There is no use in being the cause of the step children developing more mental disorders because they feel as if not only doesn't their daddy love them but their step dad doesn't either.

Either love 'em or leave they fucking momma or daddy alone

 

[edwardnigma]

Yeah yeah yeah tough guy. I don't never compare the 2 boys on some real shit, like"he's" better than you or I like you better than him.

Real talk, I got out of pocket. I try to refrain from the net tough guy shit. BUt yo, the shit you doing is fucked up either way. Enough to set off a rational adult.From the post, you showed your not sincere. So just leave him alone is what people is telling you. You might not even be with his moms in 5 years when he's 11, so you would have just been a nigga who was fucking his mom and basically puttin him down and fucking with him. As a man when he become a man, thats grounds to fuck with you worse.Cause you werent helping.

 

[illestni99ainne]

cool I just ask cause I've noticed a lot of younger parents curse around their children and a lot of times they feel uncomfortable

I mean they get used to it after while, but I think you know what I mean lol

man i was around this one chick w/her kid and she called her son a stupid muthafucka to his face...hes 2 i was shocked

 

[edwardnigma]

Fuck my apology. People who say shit like I couldn't treat a kid I didn't birth as my own are below animals.

Monkeys, Dogs, Cats many animals take care of another animal as if it were there own if that animal needs it.

I don't even know what to make of that assessment yet. BUt some of you are fitting te bill.

U muthafuckas are worthless and beneath animals.

What kind of confused nigga says, I like kids, but then agrees with the notion I can't treat another child as I would my own? Wtf?

Remember, we never seen him in action. This guy might be a shitty parent to his own.....so that step child must be getting horror.

Yeah, fuck my apology, youse a fucc nigga, Fucc Boy.

 

[Check Mate]

Fuck my apology. People who say shit like I couldn't treat a kid I didn't birth as my own are below animals.

Monkeys, Dogs, Cats many animals take care of another animal as if it were there own if that animal needs it.

I don't even know what to make of that assessment yet. BUt some of you are fitting te bill.

U muthafuckas are worthless and beneath animals.

What kind of confused nigga says, I like kids, but then agrees with the notion I can't treat another child as I would my own? Wtf?

Remember, we never seen him in action. This guy might be a shitty parent to his own.....so that step child must be getting horror.

Yeah, fuck my apology, youse a fucc nigga, Fucc Boy.

Back to the tough guy talk, cock sucker? Give a fuck about you and your apology. I didn't agree wit Rockets, I just laughed and said that's real. The thread states Keep it real....Rockets did. Fuckin idiot.

 

[Gnawledgeable]

Fuck my apology. People who say shit like I couldn't treat a kid I didn't birth as my own are below animals.

Monkeys, Dogs, Cats many animals take care of another animal as if it were there own if that animal needs it.

I don't even know what to make of that assessment yet. BUt some of you are fitting te bill.

U muthafuckas are worthless and beneath animals.

What kind of confused nigga says, I like kids, but then agrees with the notion I can't treat another child as I would my own? Wtf?

Remember, we never seen him in action. This guy might be a shitty parent to his own.....so that step child must be getting horror.

Yeah, fuck my apology, youse a fucc nigga, Fucc Boy.

Just because somebody didn't accept you or your kids, don't get mad at us. People have their own preferences and reasons. Dealing with a woman is already trouble but if you don't have kids and you got to deal with her's, that's more problems.

Single mothers are only good for fuckin', not wifin' up.