Spin-off: Would you be OK if your kids did a background check on you without your knowledge?

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[CapitalB]

Lil niggaz gotta catch these hands offa GP

"I'm hit you so hard you gone travel back and time and see what I done did wit ya own eyes"

im dyin!!! hahahaha

 

[CapitalB]

But to answer the question...

You redirect their attention elsewhere.

Either way, they lawyered that shit and it should be encouraged... Just refocused.

Every parent has the hypocrite talk at some point in time.

The point is to be consistent in your parenting.

IE: keeping them out of grown folks business.

When they enter a room full of adults drinking and talking they need to leave

This shit stinks of a child seeing their parent as a buddy or peer.

Which again with consistent and fair parenting this is all preventable.

And to yall with records...

Be open and honest about the shit, say you made a mistake and you paid the price for it, and that one of your goals is to ensure they never suffer like you.

Cant get mad at your kids for lying when you keep secrets from them that will one day impact the dynamic between yall.

Drops mic

this aint me..

but i be feelin like one..

i got these two teenage niggas im raisin and they fuckin up in school..

i make no secret about my fuckups.. but i let them know i was raised different in a far different era..

its hard for me to get them to see the consequence in they action cause i have none.. so shit be goin in one ear out the other and i be wantin tk fuck them up..

punishin them and shit and i be feelin like a straight hypocrite. smmfh

 

[$tayRichROLLIN]

I would not be comfortable at all. My son is too young to understand my faults but as he gets older I will explain who I was too him. To teach him which way not to go down. In the process of moving out east so he does not have to grow up in LA with the stigma of being so and so son, grandson and nephew. That could be very enticing as a teenager too hear stories about your lineage .

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I would not be comfortable at all. My son is too young to understand my faults but as he gets older I will explain who I was too him. To teach him which way not to go down. In the process of moving out east so he does not have to grow up in LA with the stigma of being so and so son, grandson and nephew. That could be very enticing as a teenager too hear stories about your lineage .

not true...

my family was deep in the streets...but my dad took his time raising me...pointed out fukk shit..

I never wanted to be apart of that world....simply because it made no sense.