Spin-off: When It Comes to Dating/Marriage, To What Extent Is Compatibility Necessary or Desirable?

[Cleveland7venty6]

Like i said "I dont know."

I think my down fall is always trying to be compatible with christian Black women even tho im more conscious than Malcolm X.

I bring up religion because while they're at church listening to a pastor who is telling them that the reason her relationship isnt working is because he isnt there in church, receiving the word, with them, while...

We're at home playing playstation/Xbox and calling it "free time."

The hustle is real.

Conscious Black Womens FTW.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i think its very necessary.

what is the point of being with someone who you are constantly fighting with. what other reason is it to be with them outside of using them for money, looks or a notch on the bedpost.

opposites attract but its still something there thats makes them compatible.

she can be a sloppy person and him can be a neat freak....both opposites...but they both enjoy cotton top movies, cruises and walks in the rain. that makes them compatible,but they also have different interests.

outsdie of a one night thing....i cant find a reason to be with someone without having something in common.

even with friendships...i need to have something in common with you

 

[2stepz_ahead]

its ok to discuss your different likes and dislikes while doing something you both enjoy

 

[the dukester]

Compatibility with this dick and stomach is all that matters......

In other words, food, sex, and silence.

(Ebonics translation) Fuck me, feed me, and shut the fuck up!!

 

[Stiff]

@Plutarch what did the old head say was the most important factor of a healthy relationship if not compatibility?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Compatibility with this dick and stomach is all that matters......

In other words, food, sex, and silence.

(Ebonics translation) Fuck me, feed me, and shut the fuck up!!

if all men dont want this....you bitch made and like drama like a chick(see troy ave, taxstone)

 

[gns]

Like i said "I dont know."

I think my down fall is always trying to be compatible with christian Black women even tho im more conscious than Malcolm X.

I bring up religion because while they're at church listening to a pastor who is telling them that the reason her relationship isnt working is because he isnt there in church, receiving the word, with them, while...

We're at home playing playstation/Xbox and calling it "free time."

The hustle is real.

Conscious Black Womens FTW.

who tf does this guy think he is

 

[AZTG]

i talked to a old head myself who was close to 70 and had been married for like 40 years. dude would act like he was still in love. call his wife everyday after work while she was on the bus and shit. and at the time I was like 2 years in with my relationship and was already getting bored.

so i asked him. I was like, how do you do it? whats the most important thing that you have in your relationship? is it love? he was like man fuck love, that shit only goes so long, you need compatability and a person that wants the relationship to work as much as you do.

 

[playmaker88]

Listening to "Old Heads" the wrong old heads has people fucked up in the game.. lol @ "NewPort wisdom"

 

[Cinco]

She gotta be able to cater to me like I like, evolve wit me. Show interest in my serious side...

My last chic-- She was bad (bout an 8). Freak. Crazy about @cinco. But missing the above. Had to cut it

 

[SolemnSauce]

The longer you're married, the more you will grow to understand how important compatibility is.

 

[Fosheezy]

If you not compatible it simply won't work

 

[Ajackson17]

This is like a staunch atheist a staunch Muslim being together. Shit ain't gonna work

 

[2stepz_ahead]

She gotta be able to cater to me like I like, evolve wit me. Show interest in my serious side...

My last chic-- She was bad (bout an 8). Freak. Crazy about @cinco. But missing the above. Had to cut it

did this nigga just @ himself

did you check your alert to see who send you a message.....

you still mah nigga bruh...lol

 

[S2J]

Bruh...what!?! :joy:

"Is it important to get along wirh someone you will spend a lot of time with?"

What am i missing here, what kind of question is this

 

[Trillfate]

Bruh...what!?! :joy:

"Is it important to get along wirh someone you will spend a lot of time with?"

What am i missing here, what kind of question is this

Nah u know what he means. A lot of ppl are together out of necessity, not love or friendship..

 

[MrMinimalist]

That's why it's so many fucked up households out here. People are only sexually compatible and that's it. When a child is born, that's when hell starts.

Weak women and men remain in unhealthy relationships trying to make it work because the compatibility wasn't there from the start or not working together.

 

[mryounggun]

Compatibility can mean a few different things. Me and my old lady are VERY different. We just have vastly different outlooks on life. Some people look at that as us not being compatible. But that's not how I define compatibility because, for the most part, her weaknesses are my strengths and vice verse. The shit that she pays not attention to at all...are usually things I pay close attention to. Etc, etc.

Also, it depends on how patient you are and how much work you're willing to put into your relationship. If you aren't very patient and aren't willing to put in the work to work out the kinks and get on the same page, being with someone you are very 'compatible' with is a necessity.

 

[zzombie]

I can't be with a bitch the eats hamhocks,neck bones and watches love &hip-hop while I eat salad and watch the history channel

 

[S2J]

Bruh...what!?! :joy:

"Is it important to get along wirh someone you will spend a lot of time with?"

What am i missing here, what kind of question is this

Nah u know what he means. A lot of ppl are together out of necessity, not love or friendship..

Man, what

A lot of people go raw in unsavory women. We wouldn't make a thrad "is it smart to go raw in unsavory women?"

Its just a dumbass question. Who's gonna say 'nah, i prefer not to be compatible'