I have been invited to go sky diving, kyaking,gun ranges,hookah bars,lounges, etc from my non white friends.
My black friends on the other hand..............hey nigga "u tryna blow"," u tryna fuk wit sum hoes","u tryna go to da club", "u tryna hoop" ,etc.
I have many interest that I find myself only being able to express with non-blacks. I can discuss the economy, healthy eating, the universe, technology,etc.
I can't even imagine going up to one of my black friends sayin "what you think about the compromise concerning the raising of the debt ceiling". "what you do you think of multiverses", "what do you think of ray kurzweil's singularity". They'd look at me like I was the fool. I can bring up these topics around others and while they may have no knowledge of the subject, they are willing to learn and research into it.