So I Am Trying To Quit Masturbating.

[jniam]

So many people struggle with quiting that crap, but it's hella worth it once u overcome it. like once u figure out how that crap been manipulating your brain, and effecting the way you view women, it's easier to conquer it. The benefits you get from cutting out the porn by far outweigh any discomfort withdrawal or whatever along the way. You'll see, at the end of the day you get a quiet, solid confidence and good feeling that lasts way longer than any intense bustation of a nut from porn. Plus you earn more self respect. If you give in, you put all that potential at risk. Simply not worth the trade off.

This is what I've been telling people. A lot of my guys say there's nothing wrong with it but when I ask them to go a few days without it and all of a sudden there's a problem. Porn warps your view on normal sex, on women and your role as a man. I got some brothers in college that because of porn think they have to be this raging, slay all women in sight physical sexual beast.

They focus so much energy on bedding women and not making real progress.

The confidence you get from quitting is so much better than the withdrawal. I have days that I get mad boners in class and I'm just thinking about smashing everything in sight. But that is just the temporary "pain" of improving yourself. Back then I would have succumbed to the temptation by heading back to my room. Now I'll just breathe deeply, say a quick prayer and refocus my mind.

Quitting P&M is an exercise like running or lifting. It's not the first mile or the first couple reps that create progress, but the last couple miles that burn your lungs and legs as well as the last 3 reps that require all your strength to complete.

As you overcome you'll feel so much better. Keep the faith and keep striving.

 

[lethal5]

Aye you inspired me too bro. Im bout to stop for good. All that shit i was just talking about porn and i was JUST on pornhub. I gotta cut that shit out

Cuttin' off PornHub is just the first step......but whut u gonna do about them hours of porn u already got commited to memory?, lol

THAT MENTAL WEBSITES A MUTHFUCKA!...lets see how long u could go without loggin on to that.

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Nigga so many times i actidentally typed in findtubes when i was trying to get the university webpage

 

[dalyricalbandit]

I'm over a month removed and I went on a porn site just to see what's up see opened afew flicks of my fave type pressed play one at a time and watch for afew ended up x'ing them out with no fucks given

 

[Preach2Teach]

Day 4 for me now, this is the best I have ever done and it feels good, if I can do this then anybody can.

 

[TheBoyRo]

I had a bad habit of overly masterbating in my 20s. Took like a 2 year break and restarted. I'm gonna attempt to take another long break from it. I started to delete the Instagram models from my account and try not to watch porn anymore. Shits hard but necessary

 

[b1grobtheking]

if you have a girl/wife/side chick .....dont cheat yourself or her from having great sex

but yea cut down on the porn to once or twice a month.when you have sex do all the freaky shit you wanna do....let your girl sit on your face and cumm on your face,eat her ass out with some strawberry ice cream,fuck her in the ass,bust a nutt on her face,role play,have sex in random places at random times,have butt ass naked sex in the rain while its lightning and thundering,fuck her while she has starbursts candy in her pussy,then make her lick it off, make your porn tapes and watch them back,etc.i've did all this in my lifetime.you have a brain and a imagination,use it for something real....

if you have someone thats willing to let it all out,real sex is a billion times better than masterbating.

you have to have self control in everything you do....sex,masterbating,smoking weed,eating the wrong foods,spending money,being on the net,listening to dumbed down rap music,etc

sacrafice is the main key 2 $ucce$$....

i believe in you, so believe in yourself....you can do it!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Stomp Johnson]

Goat threat. I gave that shit up as well. Been about a month now I suppose. Shit just ain't healthy fellas.

I support t/s as well as anyone else breaking free of that shit.

 

[matches malone]

It's crazy how some songs can trigger sexual desires to beat the meat, I had the music on last night and had to skip a lot of tracks, Lil Kim and the 2 Live Crew are a no no.

this neegha is the type of neegha that just gets the urge to whack it when he hears the benny hill song


probably makes that same face too nh

 

[Beta]

Guess I'll be the one to say it...

I ain't giving shit up lol

 

[Preach2Teach]

Today has been easy but the thoughts have been there, was just on fakebook (something else I have been cutting down on) and on there I saw some random picture of a girl bent over in the squat position, this image brought in the thoughts to give up but I quickly got a hold of myself, I also had a great workout today, just a few more hours and day 4 will be in the bag, big up all my fellow none wankers.

 

[TheGOAT]

This thread's theme music

 

[Stiff]

Guess I'll be the one to say it...

I ain't giving shit up lol

and that's why you'll never be ALPHA

 

[BobOblah]

Guess I'll be the one to say it...

I ain't giving shit up lol

Lol I'm not buying it. Ain't nothing wrong with fapping.

Massive amounts of porn could probably warp your brain though, that seems plausible.

 

[Beta]

Guess I'll be the one to say it...

I ain't giving shit up lol

Lol I'm not buying it. Ain't nothing wrong with fapping.

Massive amounts of porn could probably warp your brain though, that seems plausible.

Sheep ass niggas like "you know what? I think ima give it up too, this thread is inspiring me"

FOH lol now niggas gonna lie and act like they gonna stop closing the blinds with the jergens on deck

T/S cool though but y'all trying too hard to fit in on the internet lol btw I'm surprised this thread has the replies it does and didn't turn into a derail or roast by page 2

 

[IceManKam]

Its a serious, serious discussion on a personal demon of OP's, of course we are going to help our brother escape from his vices. Its only natural of the IC

 

[Preach2Teach]

Feeling really weak right now, is there any point in even doing this?

 

[bossdon201]

Didn't you just say you were feeling strong 2 hours ago?? Lmao

 

[Preach2Teach]

Didn't you just say you were feeling strong 2 hours ago?? Lmao

lol I was but now it's getting tough as fuck and I wonder if this is all worth it, I liked being a perv I was good at it.

 

[Fosheezy]

Lol

Nigga the porn industry all about that PAPER and you helping fill they bank accounts. Advertising, credit cards, monthly subscriptions, DVDs. All you get out of it is a cheap thrill and a costly habit. you get lured in through your natural curiosity and desires for sex and beautiful women, and the shock value, convenience, and accessibility involved hooks you emotionally and rational thinking goes out the window. Next thing you know hours done went by, hell yo kitchen could be burning down, but u won't run to save your own house before getting that blast off. U got ya priorities in check ha? U trying to protect yo neck ha?

Then reality comes smacking you in the face. U looking around like Bruce banner after just coming off a Hulk rage like how the hell did this shyt happen.

But your imagination won't allow you to dissociate with that last scene you just saw any phat booty you come across. And your natural response is to wanna smash the chick you looking at. But of course that won't happen. ya confidence is low and you have no inspiration to approach. And the chick gonna shut you down cuz she can tell by the look in yo eye u been in the room KILLIN yo self anyway. Being a perv ain't the haps. Why risk all that hard work when you can just go home and watch porn hub, so you reason. And this the cycle continues.

If that's how you wanna live then more power to ya. Lol. As for me, if it get that bad I'll just go the bar and hunt.