So how many coons/houseniggas are there on the IC?

[manofmorehouse]

@sweetheart93 Have you ever had an issue regarding race with your husband or his family? Have you ever had to tone down your "blackness" around him? Are you cultural and, if so, does that bother the husband? I'm just curious

 

[sweetheart93]

@sweetheart93 Have you ever had an issue regarding race with your husband or his family? Have you ever had to tone down your "blackness" around him? Are you cultural and, if so, does that bother the husband? I'm just curious

Never had any race issues with my hubby. One of his uncles is racist so he's not allowed in our house and most of the family hates him anyways so that's not a problem. The rest of his family is cool tho. lol I've never had to tone down my blackness. No I'm not cultural, even if I was I doubt it would bother him.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

@sweetheart93 Have you ever had an issue regarding race with your husband or his family? Have you ever had to tone down your "blackness" around him? Are you cultural and, if so, does that bother the husband? I'm just curious

I don't really see how you can tone down your blackness. Now if you're talking about toning down the stereotypical antics associated with black people, I'm sure she doesn't do much of that anyway since she doesn't live around many black people to begin with.

 

[Ajackson17]

I still see that I piss off a lot of people. Too many emotions in here lol

 

[manofmorehouse]

@sweetheart93 Have you ever had an issue regarding race with your husband or his family? Have you ever had to tone down your "blackness" around him? Are you cultural and, if so, does that bother the husband? I'm just curious

I don't really see how you can tone down your blackness. Now if you're talking about toning down the stereotypical antics associated with black people, I'm sure she doesn't do much of that anyway since she doesn't live around many black people to begin with.

What I mean by this is embracing his cultural heritage at the expense of her own. Not the negative stereotypical crap that is prevalent nowadays. This happens frequently in interracial relationships I am around, which is why I followed that question with the one about if she is cultural

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Oh ok, well I would think that's less of a concern for black/white relationships. After all, White Americans really don't have a culture outside of Americana. So there really wouldn't be much of anything for her to adopt.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

No offense but you'd be pretty much the opposite of a reputable authority on this issue.

 

[thehonorable]

Where they at?

 

[CashmoneyDux]

Wait wait wait, if you marry someone/date someone that isnt black, youre a coon/housenigga?

 

[zombie]

You still don't get it. I don't want any of us getting with outsiders because it weakens us socially, politically and economically . white people being evil in the past is NOT THE FOUNDATION OF MY stance against race mixing , I DON'T WANT US MARRYING anyone outside the race that includes all non-blacks. However

once you put history and the current world order in perspective white people should be the last group we fall in love with, I acknowledge their historical evil and current world domination. i question the sanity of any black person who does "fall" in love with them. No complaining or bitching white people can think whatever the fuck they want i expect no love from them and they will get none from me. i want us to realize that ALL NON-BLACK PEOPLE are the enemy at worst and competition at best, that is it nothing more. kobe does not hate lebron but he wants to win. i don't believe we can win with race mixing. So in short white people being good or evil is unimportant.

kobe does not cry win the other team make a basket but when his team mate pass the ball to the other team or passes the ball out of bounds he gets pissed. Do you understand my point now.

Ummm, I don't think you understood my question. I wasn't asking about your stance on interacial mixing. I was talking about you constantly referring to every white person as if they are then enemy based largely on the fact that there are a lot of them who are the enemy.

The bold is what I'm talking about. You're acting like if someone falls in love with or befriends a white person, they are falling in love with or befriending the entire white race. In other words, you're holding every white person accountable for the actions of every other white person. As a black male, you should understand better than anyone who silly that is.

On a side note, I don't understand why you feel the only two options are enemy and competitor, as if the concepts of ally and collaborator don't exist.

I don't care if they were good or evil it makes no difference you are either with us or you are with them there is no in between. we have no friends anf no allies.

white people through no fault of their own are not black and therefore by Nature are the competition period. the purpose of having white friends to use them for profit no other reason as soon as I reach my goal I drop them

you want to know what I believe read the philosophies and opinions of Marcus Garvey and you will understand my perspective better

 

[_God_]

Wait wait wait, if you marry someone/date someone that isnt black, youre a coon/housenigga?

yes bc youdont value your ethnicity heritage culture or bloodline enough to make sure that it is continued

 

[The Lonious Monk]

You still don't get it. I don't want any of us getting with outsiders because it weakens us socially, politically and economically . white people being evil in the past is NOT THE FOUNDATION OF MY stance against race mixing , I DON'T WANT US MARRYING anyone outside the race that includes all non-blacks. However

once you put history and the current world order in perspective white people should be the last group we fall in love with, I acknowledge their historical evil and current world domination. i question the sanity of any black person who does "fall" in love with them. No complaining or bitching white people can think whatever the fuck they want i expect no love from them and they will get none from me. i want us to realize that ALL NON-BLACK PEOPLE are the enemy at worst and competition at best, that is it nothing more. kobe does not hate lebron but he wants to win. i don't believe we can win with race mixing. So in short white people being good or evil is unimportant.

kobe does not cry win the other team make a basket but when his team mate pass the ball to the other team or passes the ball out of bounds he gets pissed. Do you understand my point now.

Ummm, I don't think you understood my question. I wasn't asking about your stance on interacial mixing. I was talking about you constantly referring to every white person as if they are then enemy based largely on the fact that there are a lot of them who are the enemy.

The bold is what I'm talking about. You're acting like if someone falls in love with or befriends a white person, they are falling in love with or befriending the entire white race. In other words, you're holding every white person accountable for the actions of every other white person. As a black male, you should understand better than anyone who silly that is.

On a side note, I don't understand why you feel the only two options are enemy and competitor, as if the concepts of ally and collaborator don't exist.

I don't care if they were good or evil it makes no difference you are either with us or you are with them there is no in between. we have no friends anf no allies.

white people through no fault of their own are not black and therefore by Nature are the competition period. the purpose of having white friends to use them for profit no other reason as soon as I reach my goal I drop them

you want to know what I believe read the philosophies and opinions of Marcus Garvey and you will understand my perspective better

Well I have read the "Philosophy and Opinions of Marcus Garvey" so I do see similarities between what you say and what he said. That said, though he was against miscegenation, believed in black nationalism, and believe white oppression was something that needed to be fought, I don't remember any of his quotes stating that all people of other races were to be treated like enemies. That seems to be your own little twist.