Smh smh@ my babys dad....

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i'm not allowed to see my kid or my baby's mother. it used to eat me up, now i don't think much of it.
 
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Your just being selfish. When your children get older they will realize this, resent you and prob still have a relationship with the father anyway. He prob, hasn't been around because he can't stand seeing you.
 
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Yes you are WRONG. I'm SMH at you if you're serious.

You're excercising power, that you arguably shouldn't have.

If he's their father, and he's sometimes there and sometimes not, that is the relationship that they have. Let them judge that however they may, keep your opinion on that to yourself. In other words, if they come to the conclusion that he's not there enough, that's fine but not you.

Mothers don't seem to realize that a child's relationship with their father does not travel through the mother (child -> mother -> father). It's directly from child to parent (child -> mother AND child -> father).

You're only talking this shit because you can but I respect the fact that you're getting an opinion from a public forum about the issue as opposed to making the decision yourself.

Let the man see his kids ...

Aquafinafloe;1321120 said:
Calling me out of the blue today just to say that he is living out of state a few hours from me and will be coming back soon and wants to see the kids...however it sounded like he's playing a game....am i wrong saying "nope u can wait until they get older.....and explain why u were to ignorant and selfish to wakeup be responsible and take care of your children"......... Am i wrong to tell him that he does not need to come in and out of his kids lives whenever he pleases causeing confusion and grief amongst them.....im not one of them crazy babys moms that are like "naw u cant see your kid cause me and you got issues.....but he does to much...smh
 
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You should never deny your child from seeing their father no matter how many issues you and him have. And like Im sure others have said when the child gets older they will blame you once the truth comes out abt it.
 
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The Jamel;1321839 said:
one that isn't ready to face adulthood.
One that is still very much a child in their mind...

I guess so. I mean, come on, humpin is some shit grade school kids do when they are curious. Shit just takes all of the valdity out of her post.

Oh and your other post up there. Love it.
 
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MEet him in a public place (Park or Chickie Cheese), have a few friends their. Let him see the kids maybe yall can talk some. IF all goes well set another one up later on. Dont let the convo swing to you and him. When its over keep it moving.
 
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as long as the relationship w/ the childs dad doesn't hurt the childs well being then you should let him see the child

if it's not in the best interest of the child then I could understand but if it's just because " you don't like him" then that's not being mature

you gotta lead by example
 
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you're telling a man he cannot see his own child? smfh you didn't create that person yourself and if the other parent wants to be in their childs life no one has the right to deny it. you're disgusting.
 
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Aquafinafloe;1321285 said:
ima boss boy!!!!

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