SMH at men trippin' when they girl goes to the club without them

[The BAPHOMET]

if she on that bulshit at the club, she on that bullshit whenever you ain't around....

thats not true cuz................

There is no loyalty in a bottom of a plastic cup or beer bottle, alcohol is the ultimate equalizer and i know mfs ain't sober in no club.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

If my girl goes to the club without written consent from me then there's gonna be prollems. PROLLEMS BRUH.

He said "written consent." Lmbao! Word, these conditions should move to be part of any prenup as well.

 

[The BAPHOMET]

But if your girl is loyal to you, then it doesn't matter how many grimey thristy niggaz she meets. She's gonna brush them off and keep it movin.

you acting like a when a female gets in a relationship, any attraction to another nigga is impossible, plus add alcohol & some dutty wining

shit muthafuckas get weak and cheat for less

and this just aint a nigga should be on point when his lady go out thang either, hell females need be on point also

 

[Iheart~Cali]

you acting like a when a female gets in a relationship, any attraction to another nigga is impossible, plus add alcohol & some dutty wining

shit muthafuckas get weak and cheat for less

and this just aint a nigga should be on point when his lady go out thang either, hell females need be on point also

I've gone out w/o my man and I'm pretty sure you know my love of liquor. I can find a man attractive without being tempted to cheat.

 

[Will Munny]

Bein drunk is just a fools excuse, but only a fool doesn't think his girl could act up when she in the club.

 

[ms.jones]

I had a boyfriend that would pay for me and my friends to go out...he'd let me drive the Benz Truck, pick up my girls, and give me spending money so we could have fun. Guess he knew that I wasn't going to be on some stupid shit. *shrugs*

 

[The BAPHOMET]

I've gone out w/o my man and I'm pretty sure you know my love of liquor. I can find a man attractive without being tempted to cheat.

yeah but let that attractive nigga keep you sipping and show you the best time you have ever had

anything is possible after that point

when I go out my intentions is not to cheat but when I'm in a vulnerable state anything is possible

scaldly dressed women being all aggressive walking up grabbing my dick and shit, naw I couldn't be 100% sure something wouldn't tempt me, but I'd try my damniest to not do anything fucked up

thats why I chose to only go out with my lady, she can go out with whomever- whenever, cheating don't affect me much, she still gone my lady

 

[nex gin]

Bein drunk is just a fools excuse, but only a fool doesn't think his girl could act up when she in the club.

I've been hella drunk in my time, but I've never been "THAT" drunk to where I don't know the difference between right & wrong. People who use the drunk argument are just making excuses for their actions IMO. Not saying that liquor cannot impair your judgement but let's be real....is the judgement really that impaired that you don't know you're fucking somebody who isn't your s/o?

 

[Iheart~Cali]

yeah but let that attractive nigga keep you sipping and show you the best time you have ever had

anything is possible after that point

when I go out my intentions is not to cheat but when I'm in a vulnerable state anything is possible

scaldly dressed women being all aggressive walking up grabbing my dick and shit, naw I couldn't be 100% sure something wouldn't tempt me, but I'd try my damniest to not do anything fucked up

thats why I chose to only go out with my lady, she can go out with whomever- whenever, cheating don't affect me much, she still gone my lady

Sounds like you and me are two different people. I've been to many clubs, in a relationship and single, and I've yet to have sex with someone other than my s/o.

And by sex I mean any sexual act.

 

[The BAPHOMET]

Bein drunk is just a fools excuse, but only a fool doesn't think his girl could act up when she in the club.

basically thats all I'm saying, the elements of going out is set for them to do some fucked up shit

from the sexy outfit, to the thought that men are to buy women drinks, the effects of liqour, and the music

damn near every song played got a line in it about niggas fucking other niggas chick or encouraging niggas to fuck chicks

so.....

 

[The BAPHOMET]

Sounds like you and me are two different people. I've been to many clubs, in a relationship and single, and I've yet to have sex with someone other than my s/o.

And by sex I mean any sexual act.

not far from, I've been with just my lady for the last 11 years, have no complaints

but like I said the elements are there for self-destruction

I mean if its a once in awhile thing, shit the odds are less likely

but if its a frequent thing, shit hey "Shit Happens"

 

[Iheart~Cali]

K well we will just have to disagree on it

 

Bottom line: Niggas who bug about their girl going out just don't trust her ass. If you do, what's the problem? And I don't wanna hear that 'Na, I trust her. Just be a bunch of thirsty niggas that I don't trust!' bullshit. Unless they rape her, it don't matter how thirsty they is. If she don't want them niggas then they won't have her. Plain and simple.

this is so true .....

 

[nex gin]

Sounds like you and me are two different people. I've been to many clubs, in a relationship and single, and I've yet to have sex with someone other than my s/o. And by sex I mean any sexual act.

c/s. It's not that hard. IMO, if a person cheats, it's because they wanted to plain and simple. When you let others and your surroundings influence "your" actions what does that really say about you as a person?

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Bein drunk is just a fools excuse, but only a fool doesn't think his girl could act up when she in the club.

True.

basically thats all I'm saying, the elements of going out is set for them to do some fucked up shit

from the sexy outfit, to the thought that men are to buy women drinks, the effects of liqour, and the music

damn near every song played got a line in it about niggas fucking other niggas chick or encouraging niggas to fuck chicks

so.....

False.
It really isn't the setting but the person themselves. It isn't about what happens (man tries to holla at a woman which happens in all settings) but how exactly the situation is handled (her reaction.) Now, if they can't even trust themselves then you would have a more solid case.

 

[The BAPHOMET]

False.

It really isn't the setting but the person themselves. It isn't about what happens (man tries to holla at a woman which happens in all settings) but how exactly the situation is handled (her reaction.) Now, if they can't even trust themselves then you would have a more solid case.

No wonder women get cheated on more often then niggas

all that shit yall talking would work, in a perfect world

but in this fucked up shit we live in, as adults, we gotta not put ourselves in situations where temptation has a better chance of winning

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

No wonder women get cheated on more often then niggas

all that shit yall talking would work, in a perfect world

but in this fucked up shit we live in, as adults, we gotta not put ourselves in situations where temptation has a better chance of winning

That is what I basically just said. It's the person themselves and their own discretion, NOT the setting in particular as temptation can arise anywhere. And if the individual knows themselves and is aware of that temptation and how subjecting themselves to it can be avoided be it certain environments or even certain people then yes, they should know better to go onto remove themselves from certain scenarios rather than playing with fire when they very well know the possibility of getting burned by their very own doing.

My point also is that not everyone can be tempted by anything that has been mentioned in this thread.