Sistahs just aint feelin a brotha.Why?

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

man u gotta just be bold...u see its easy to get white chicks cause u just being black equals "bad boy" to them...but the sistas u gotta approach them like u doin them a favor...dont try to impress them...just holla at them like yo we need to talk, exchange numbers, and go from there..if u get turned down keep it moving...it's millions of black chicks out here...u will at least find 1 that is feelin u and u feelin her

i would do so if they was giving me some kind of cues. eye contact, maybe a smile. but i dont get none of that. i get the straight boo boo face. i must remind them of their ex who did them wrong. they mean mug the fuk out of me. or even worse when i pass one she immediately looks down in her phone or act like she busy.

 

[Mr. Terrific]

How about this? Just go for the 6/7 girls that most dudes are NOT checking for. Everyone can't have a Beyonce but you can have a Solange. Besides those chicks are freakier and tend to be loyal and down with you i.e. given up lunch money, doing assignment, etc. Then those are the girls that blossom after college. ~On all that's holy.

 

[a.mann]

yeah i'll admit i am a little picky. i get smiles and winks from fat and lame lookin bitches all the time. i just turn em down.

i just want a brown skin girl with a cute face, nice personality, and a fat booty. is that too much?

maybe you just need to stay in your lane

if those " allegel" fat and lames are the ones showing you love i suggest you start showing love back

once you get the ..."smell"... on you

you'll attract bigger and better cats

 

[truth spitter]

i would do so if they was giving me some kind of cues. eye contact, maybe a smile. but i dont get none of that. i get the straight boo boo face. i must remind them of their ex who did them wrong. they mean mug the fuk out of me. or even worse when i pass one she immediately looks down in her phone or act like she busy.

lol..my man is this u?

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

man u gotta just be bold...u see its easy to get white chicks cause u just being black equals "bad boy" to them...but the sistas u gotta approach them like u doin them a favor...dont try to impress them...just holla at them like yo we need to talk, exchange numbers, and go from there..if u get turned down keep it moving...it's millions of black chicks out here...u will at least find 1 that is feelin u and u feelin her

i like this right here. i might apply this technique

 

[marie addams]

just date the women that ARE attracted to you.

 

[politicalthug202]

The reason why blk woman dont really approach dudes is because blk men are so

hard on hoes,that blk girls are afraid if they too str8 forward they gonna get labeled

a hoe. white boys are not as hard on sluts so chicks feel more comfortable approaching dudes

 

[Mr. Terrific]

maybe you just need to stay in your lane

if those " allegel" fat and lames are the ones showing you love i suggest you start showing love back

once you get the ..."smell"... on you

you'll attract bigger and better cats

co sign this.

for whatever reason pussy attracts pussy.

 

[Yummy.Lix]

The reason why blk woman dont really approach dudes is because blk men are so

hard on hoes,that blk girls are afraid if they too str8 forward they gonna get labeled

a hoe. white boys are not as hard on sluts so chicks feel more comfortable approaching dudes

Ugh, no.I can assure you that's not the reason(lol).They are only "hard on

ho's," when they are online on this forum.I'm black & I don't approach guys

period because I don't have to.I'm sure a lot of women in general feel like

they don't have to.Guys approach them.& I don't like random approachings

anyway,so that would be a 2nd reason of why I don't approach random guys.

 

[Yummy.Lix]

man u gotta just be bold...u see its easy to get white chicks cause u just being black equals "bad boy" to them...but the sistas u gotta approach them like u doin them a favor...dont try to impress them...just holla at them like yo we need to talk, exchange numbers, and go from there..if u get turned down keep it moving...it's millions of black chicks out here...u will at least find 1 that is feelin u and u feelin her

Please do not do this...

"Yo, we need to talk," would send you straight to hell.

 

[JadaRoss]

i completely agree bro. my boy was down for almost 4 years and had 10 different bitches waiting on him after he got out. He have a main girl who stuck with him all the way.
cant think of too many chicks who'll stick with a brotha through 4 years of college though. thats on heard of.

never thought of that one bruh

 

[Prim-O Cla$$ic]

Stop thinking so hard about it and it'll happen.

 

[goat334]

what kinds black chicks should i be checking for? lol. fat bitches? they like everybody

just date the women that ARE attracted to you.

^^^^^^ What she said......or find some shy nerdy decent looking chick, she turn out to be one of the biggest undercover freak.

 

[JadaRoss]

like i said earlier..you aint thug enough

women love troublesome niggaz

she will have or date a man who raped a bitch or killed a nigga before she will date a nigga like you

women are dumb like that

 

[Mr. Terrific]

I'm black & I don't approach guys

period because I don't have to.I'm sure a lot of women in general feel like

they don't have to.Guys approach them.& I don't like random approachings

anyway,so that would be a 2nd reason of why I don't approach random guys.

Hold up. can you clarify this? Why don't you have to? Are you that fine? Do you have a man? A lot of these threads always tie back into one another. Especially when it comes to finding a mate. IME women can't handle rejection and feel that it is the man's place to approach her. A woman is quick to sit there with her mouth closed knowing damn well she is hungry but becuz of fear or perception of her aggressiveness she won't say shit. Also IME, women front when they are in a pack, knowing damn well that the chick who is being hit on is single but becuz the others aren't getting attention they run a dude off. Shit is disgusting.

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

^^^^^^ What she said......or find some shy nerdy decent looking chick, she turn out to be one of the biggest undercover freak.

fuk that. lifes to short to settle. im going to get me a bad nonblack chic. im going to start throwin the love back at em.

 

[politicalthug202]

Hold up. can you clarify this? Why don't you have to? Are you that fine? Do you have a man? A lot of these threads always tie back into one another. Especially when it comes to finding a mate. IME women can't handle rejection and feel that it is the man's place to approach her. A woman is quick to sit there with her mouth closed knowing damn well she is hungry but becuz of fear or perception of her aggressiveness she won't say shit. Also IME, women front when they are in a pack, knowing damn well that the chick who is being hit on is single but becuz the others aren't getting attention they run a dude off. Shit is disgusting.

traditional its always been the man its mostly nature.

yoou want see top of the line white chicks approaching dudes

either im not talking about average chicks im talking about chicks

who look like jessica alba

 

[goat334]

fuk that. lifes to short to settle. im going to get me a bad nonblack chic. im going to start throwin the love back at em.

Well either way you decide you will be settling...

 

[Chef_Taylor]

Post a pic

You might be fugly

LOL@Haute...how about u post a pic

 

[Yummy.Lix]

Hold up. can you clarify this? Why don't you have to? Are you that fine? Do you have a man? A lot of these threads always tie back into one another. Especially when it comes to finding a mate. IME women can't handle rejection and feel that it is the man's place to approach her. A woman is quick to sit there with her mouth closed knowing damn well she is hungry but becuz of fear or perception of her aggressiveness she won't say shit. Also IME, women front when they are in a pack, knowing damn well that the chick who is being hit on is single but becuz the others aren't getting attention they run a dude off. Shit is disgusting.

lol I'm not trying to come off as conceited..but that's just the way

it is.Like politicalthug said, it's the traditional way of how things are in

our society.Guys approach the girls.& I simply have no interest in talking

to random guys.& I have no interest in random guys trying to talk to me.

BUT they do it, & it's not going to stop.Guys are going to act like guys,so

it's expected. But that's just ME.There are women out there who do

approach guys.