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[Madame_CJSkywalker]

Our “preferences" our standards of beauty and attraction are not shaped in a vacuum

They are shaped by cultural institutions

We associate height with strength and dominance

The assumptions of white culture about the quality of black ppl and our looks has always been that we are inferior

Judging whether or not a person is suitable date based solely on their height, weight, eye shape, etc. is superficial and short sighted

But racializing or basing ur preferences on skin color is far more problematic than saying i prefer tall men

Smh lol

 

[aneed123]

Our “preferences" our standards of beauty and attraction are not shaped in a vacuum

They are shaped by cultural institutions

We associate height with strength and dominance

The assumptions of white culture about the quality of black ppl and our looks has always been that we are inferior

Judging whether or not a person is suitable date based solely on their height, weight, eye shape, etc. is superficial and short sighted

But racializing or basing ur preferences on skin color is far more problematic than saying i prefer tall men

Smh lol

Aka we can like what we like but men cant

 

[silverfoxx]

are there any women who want this nigga forreal ?

Yes

 

[Lurkristocrat]

Ima say this fuck it if a woman can turn a man down for bein too short or too fat then lol homie can have his preference of light skinned hoes. He just too ingnant to articulate his point

How many times you done got shut down for being short and fat bruh?

 

[Madame_CJSkywalker]

Our “preferences" our standards of beauty and attraction are not shaped in a vacuum

They are shaped by cultural institutions

We associate height with strength and dominance

The assumptions of white culture about the quality of black ppl and our looks has always been that we are inferior

Judging whether or not a person is suitable date based solely on their height, weight, eye shape, etc. is superficial and short sighted

But racializing or basing ur preferences on skin color is far more problematic than saying i prefer tall men

Smh lol

Aka we can like what we like but men cant

What?

Did you miss the part about judging whether or not a person is suitable date based solely on their height as being superficial and short sighted

That said...

Date who you want

But fact is a darker skinned person, specifically a blk person, stating that he or she would not date a person their color is far more damaging to blk ppl than someone stating that they rather date someone who is tall or has a fat ass

 

[Westie]

are there any women who want this nigga forreal ?

Yes

Point them out. And define "want" outside of wanting a come up. Cuz i have a cousin who likes ugly short niggas and he's too ugly for her.

 

[Hevalisk]

Many people across the world hold the view that darker skin = unattractive. lighter skin = better

But nah, some of you think it's just a "preference."

When a black person is stating they don't like dark skin, it's not them stating a preference, there are probably some other issues going on.

When is the last time you heard a white or lighter skin Asian person have a preference for dark skin? Of course there are some out there, but compared to the number of people saying, "I need a redbone", or people just thinking light skin is better, there is a huge gap.

You often here this shit form a handful of famous/known black people, but never here the opposite it from famous white/asians

hmmm, I wonder why that is.

 

[aneed123]

Ima say this fuck it if a woman can turn a man down for bein too short or too fat then lol homie can have his preference of light skinned hoes. He just too ingnant to articulate his point

How many times you done got shut down for being short and fat bruh?

See niggas like to deflect. I had my share of being shot down that's life. I have no shortage of getting women. I'm good in that department my big. I'm neither fat or short. Unless u consider 5'9 short. Im just keeping it real bout preferences and folk getting mad. I prefer slim chicks wit gap. That's what I like. Just like kodak likes his light skins lol. i see that skin complexion tho is the only thing u can't have a preference about unless u like darker in comparison to light.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Ima say this fuck it if a woman can turn a man down for bein too short or too fat then lol homie can have his preference of light skinned hoes. He just too ingnant to articulate his point

How many times you done got shut down for being short and fat bruh?

See niggas like to deflect. I had my share of being shot down that's life. I have no shortage of getting women. I'm good in that department my big. I'm neither fat or short. Unless u consider 5'9 short. Im just keeping it real bout preferences and folk getting mad. I prefer slim chicks wit gap. That's what I like. Just like kodak likes his light skins lol. i see that skin complexion tho is the only thing u can't have a preference about unless u like darker in comparison to light.

I respect your stance an admitting to being corrected and taking losses...

but I gotta take a shot at you.....lol

nigga 5'9"?

lol

my wife is that height without heels.. lol

ok....respect my nigga.

I'll move along

 

[Copper]

I cant name a kodak black song dont ask me...

I just found out migos was 3 people last week...

And a preference is still a preference no matter how ignorant or offensive..

If this was a black woman saying she preferred white men I seriously doubt youd have a whole whopping 4 black women post in here though..they woulda just skimmed through clicked reactions and moved on

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I cant name a kodak black song dont ask me...

I just found out migos was 3 people last week...

And a preference is still a preference no matter how ignorant or offensive..

If this was a black woman saying she preferred white men I seriously doubt youd have a whole whopping 4 black women post in here though..they woulda just skimmed through clicked reactions and moved on

if she said it's because she hates her color...

same responses

 

[Westie]

I cant name a kodak black song dont ask me...

I just found out migos was 3 people last week...

And a preference is still a preference no matter how ignorant or offensive..

If this was a black woman saying she preferred white men I seriously doubt youd have a whole whopping 4 black women post in here though..they woulda just skimmed through clicked reactions and moved on

Because you lose your shit when black men only like white women??? :/

 

[BusterBreeze]

this nigga is only 19...........there's still time for someone to teach him the error of what he said and for him to learn from it.

 

[Copper]

I cant name a kodak black song dont ask me...

I just found out migos was 3 people last week...

And a preference is still a preference no matter how ignorant or offensive..

If this was a black woman saying she preferred white men I seriously doubt youd have a whole whopping 4 black women post in here though..they woulda just skimmed through clicked reactions and moved on

Because you lose your shit when black men only like white women??? :/

My thoughts on tiger woods, OJ and the new kanye are well documented.

And male posters have made entire threads about white women loving niggas on here

Check out what the robert smith thread turned into
http://community.allhiphop.com/disc...re-robert-f-smith-gets-the-cover-of-forbes/p1

Now find me a black female equivalent thread here or elsewhere

 

[BrideofKilla]

I don't think anyone really cares about his preference, but my issue is with him downing his own skin color and anyone darker than him. As a rapper, it's stupid of him to alienate his audience in that way. Especially when the majority of people buying /listening to his music are black.

I've heard his music but I never have or will ever spend money to do so. And that decision was made before this video came out. Shits trash.

But, if he was any type of real player, he would've just been vague about his preference because light skinned women don't like to be fetishized like that anyways. At least that's what my light bright friends tell me.

Colorism from either gender has always sounded regressive to me.

 

[Breezy_Kilroy]

Point is dark women are fucking beautiful. Black women period are the most beautiful group of women, period. My girl on the chocolate side and I wish she would stay in the sun for like 2 days so I can love her choclate ass some more.

More chocolate women for me! If you hate yourself "fuck em" we don't need you over here.

 

[Copper]

I cant name a kodak black song dont ask me...

I just found out migos was 3 people last week...

And a preference is still a preference no matter how ignorant or offensive..

If this was a black woman saying she preferred white men I seriously doubt youd have a whole whopping 4 black women post in here though..they woulda just skimmed through clicked reactions and moved on

if she said it's because she hates her color...

same responses

Thats what every black person is saying if they rule out thier own

 

[Shuffington]

Ima tell you the tier 1 traits that most black women look for from the Shuffington manual of

what I been noticing about black women and sh*t.

Tier 1 traits!!:

• Must be Tall (tall ass sh*t if possible)

• Must be "Considered" dark.... Not light ( this varies especially if you from like Detroit or something)

• Must have Loads of money.

If you have all 3 like Idris Ibaka chestnut ... well have your pick at any black woman in America.

Keeping her is another topic.

Now, you don't need to be all 3... but for example:

-The broker you are... The taller and darker you need to be... (these dudes live off of women)

- If you're short and lightskint like Hill Harper but rich as f*ck.. you can have as many women as you can afford...

- If you light skint being rich and tall will help with the ladies... ask Chris Brown

Every other black man has to rely on Tier 2 traits... such as personality, intellect, Status, that lucky moment, alcohol, and alley oop referral from your mans, or The Game by Neil Stauss.

 

[BusterBreeze]

there's nothing wrong with a preference its what you like and it is what it is

but there's a problem with self hatred shit black is beautiful if it wasnt why do these white folks constantly try to emulate the look

 

[Westie]

@Copper

There are only a handful of black women on here tho. the comparison isn't the same. I don't like Lipstick Alley but I'm sure I could go there and find plenty of threads like that in reverse. I know me and Kai commented on that thread about That white washed black woman that only dates white men just yesterday. nothing deep but there are comments. I ain't searching for you. You know damn well there are a lot of black women who go up for black men and will drag a female coon too.