Should he have to endure her time of the month ?

[twinzmom]

Curious as to what this means but commends you on meeting your man half way, a term some people don't understand. It's either a man is supposed to pretend to have a period or be pregnant too or he's some sort of selfish woman-abuser.

I would describe it but its not the point. Anyway I think if you satisfy your man enough during the month he should be alright for a couple days, if you are not up to oral or anal. Some women have an increase in sexual drive during their cycle, i know i do. So that time of the month won't be a problem for some men.

From a religious stand point:

Who ever has the highest sex drive you should meet thier desire for sex, so they won't be tempted.

 

[thekillingjoke]

I was about to post that upon reflection, even a simp's opinion is welcome in this thread but I see by your simp post above, you already know.

I really don't care if you find me morally repulsive, this is the net after all but I doubt every nigga will agree with you. It's not like the bitch just got shot and she's bleeding and a nigga is tryin' to fuck. We're talking about a natural occurence here that is different between men and women hence there needs to be some form of compromise. It was a simple question and you bitched up and got personal as a response - contributing nothing to the discussion.

You're the one taking it personal. Other posters disagree with you and you take the time out to reply back defending your stance. If you were half-joking or totally kidding, you wouldn't even bother responding. But the fact that you ARE responding and justifying your viewpoint and actions, it means to me that you think a woman should just give you pussy because you want it, even if she's on a period. That is what makes you morally repulsive.

 

[7figz]

There are some birth control that reduces the amount of periods a woman has..

But periods can't be avoided unless we're pregnant, had a hysterectomy or went through menopause so if you want to be with her, you're going to have to learn to suppress your urges until it passes. It's not that big of a deal and some women don't have them for that long. Mine doesn't last longer than three days.

I think you already said that you meet your man half way so it doesn't really apply for you. But saying alone that a man should have to suppress something is kind of fucked up.

 

[HafBayked]

i dont want that shit no way....im good for a week mane it aint that serious

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

There are some birth control that reduces the amount of periods a woman has..

But periods can't be avoided unless we're pregnant, had a hysterectomy or went through menopause so if you want to be with her, you're to have to learn to suppress your urges until it passes. It's not that big of a deal and some women don't have them for that long. Mine doesn't last longer than three days.

As a woman, I would never promote any form of birth control that causes you to only have 3-4 periods a year.

"Newly graduated med student with a medical degree was about to start her career as a doctor. She was recently flown to a nearby hospital because she passed out.
They found a blood clot in her neck and immediately took her to the ER by helicopter to operate. By the time they removed the right half of her skull to relieve the pressure on her brain; the clot spread to her brain causing severe damage. For a week she was battling, the induced her into a coma to stop the blood flow and operated 3 times. Finally they said there was nothing left that they could do, they found multiple clots in the left side of her brain, the swelling wouldn't stop and she was on life support. She died leaving behind a husband and 2 year old son.
Cause of death-they found was a birth control she was taking that allows you to only have your period 3 times a year which interrupts life's menstrual cycle, and although FDA approved, it shouldn't be."

The side effects and possible long term damage are ones I would never toy with.

 

[raevanaa]

yeah, head is pretty much necessary during your period. I don't mind it. It gives me a break from fucking but he's still satisfied.

 

[MissLeading]

I think you already said that you meet your man half way so it doesn't really apply for you. But saying alone that a man should have to suppress something is kind of fucked up.

The woman has to suppress hers too.. If I were in a relationship, I would have no problem meeting him half way though.

 

[raevanaa]

As a woman, I would never promote any form of birth control that causes you to only have 3-4 periods a year.

"Newly graduated med student with a medical degree was about to start her career as a doctor. She was recently flown to a nearby hospital because she passed out.

They found a blood clot in her neck and immediately took her to the ER by helicopter to operate. By the time they removed the right half of her skull to relieve the pressure on her brain; the clot spread to her brain causing severe damage. For a week she was battling, the induced her into a coma to stop the blood flow and operated 3 times. Finally they said there was nothing left that they could do, they found multiple clots in the left side of her brain, the swelling wouldn't stop and she was on life support. She died leaving behind a husband and 2 year old son.

Cause of death-they found was a birth control she was taking that allows you to only have your period 3 times a year which interrupts life's menstrual cycle, and although FDA approved, it shouldn't be."

The side effects and possible long term damage are ones I would never toy with.

Depo Provera is even worse. You don't have periods AT ALL.

 

[MissLeading]

As a woman, I would never promote any form of birth control that causes you to only have 3-4 periods a year.

"Newly graduated med student with a medical degree was about to start her career as a doctor. She was recently flown to a nearby hospital because she passed out.
They found a blood clot in her neck and immediately took her to the ER by helicopter to operate. By the time they removed the right half of her skull to relieve the pressure on her brain; the clot spread to her brain causing severe damage. For a week she was battling, the induced her into a coma to stop the blood flow and operated 3 times. Finally they said there was nothing left that they could do, they found multiple clots in the left side of her brain, the
swelling wouldn't stop and she was on life support. She died leaving behind a husband and 2 year old son.
Cause of death-they found was a birth control she was taking that allows you to only have your period 3 times a year which interrupts life's menstrual cycle, and although FDA approved, it shouldn't be."

The side effects and possible long term damage are ones I would never toy with.

Well damn... I always thought there was something not right about having only 3 periods a year but I didn't think it would be that severe.

 

[7figz]

You're the one taking it personal. Other posters disagree with you and you take the time out to reply back defending your stance. If you were half-joking or totally kidding, you wouldn't even bother responding. But the fact that you ARE responding and justifying your viewpoint and actions, it means to me that you think a woman should just give you pussy because you want it, even if she's on a period. That is what makes you morally repulsive.

Dude what ? I don't (and never have) fucked a chick on her period. Where do you get your material ?

All it is discussing an issue that arises in a relationship.... a simple discussion. Still can't see the point in the personal attack. As you can see, there were other people who talked about what they do in that situation so it's not like I pulled it out of thin air.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Depo Provera is even worse. You don't have periods AT ALL.

Yup, at the most you get spotting now and then.
Any form of contraception which disrupts the natural menstrual cycle of a woman is a reallly bad idea. Sure, it's less of a hassle but is it really that much of a burden to play with your life? Never, I am so good on that.

 

[7figz]

You have your priorities and men have theirs but this right here is where your opinion becomes null and void.
See, fortunately I only experience pain the first day of my cycle but some women have more serious conditions to the point where they cannot function and have to be prescribed pills. I have a family member who has been taking meds since she was a young teenager due to the severity of her period.

Until you are a woman that experiences the possibly grueling pain that can very well come with a period, keep your opinions on something you will never experience to yourself.

Do you understand what it's like to be a man - no. So why would I need to have a period to be able to address this topic ? It's a topic that any reasonable, responsible, considerate, mature person who has been in a relationship can address. It's not about the period per se, but more about the rammifications and compromise in a relationship.

 

[Westie]

Do you understand what it's like to be a man - no. So why would I need to have a period to be able to address this topic ? It's a topic that any responsible, considerate, mature person who has been in a relationship can address. It's not about the period per se, but more about the rammifications and compromise in a relationship.

If it's about the relationship, and the fact that she won't compromise, then why would the solution be to have multiple relationships, or whatever? If your partner won't meet your needs and you NEED to have sex every single day, you need to either be single and get all the free-flowing pussy you want or find someone who's compatible. A woman having a PERIOD shouldn't be an automatic reason to cheat.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Do you understand what it's like to be a man - no. So why would I need to have a period to be able to address this topic ? It's a topic that any reasonable, responsible, considerate, mature person who has been in a relationship can address. It's not about the period per se, but more about the rammifications and compromise in a relationship.

I won't even touch on the underlined but as for the highlighted- Then why are you speaking on how you assume a woman's period causes her to feel?
I specifically highlighted the part I was referring to which was only in reference to your presumption of women and their periods and here you go to the left of the field. All of us very well understand what you are saying over and over yet you are continuously repeating yourself while completely overlooking what anyone in here is saying.

 

[makaveli03]

lol ole hawny ass nigga

 

[blackrain]

Not a personal thread, just a general question.

I mean 7 days a month = 84 days a year = xxxx days of your life... LOL, it adds up.

Also, the whole PMS thing - maybe this is one of the reasons why polygamy came about. Having another chick for when ya' chick is "off."

here's a nice little piece of information...women who spend a certain amount of time around each other somehow often end up with their cycle's somehow linking up and they'll happen at the same time...so no...and if you can't go 7 days in between pussy w/o feeling the urge to go fuck somebody else you don't need to ever try being committed to anyone but yourself

 

[bignorm73]

Are dudes chicks not toppin em off during they monthly or something?

that has more to do with yall than the chicks. Man up and just whip it out on em.

 

[7figz]

i don't mind giving him oral during that week, but wtf are you talking about, hallpass my ass. should i get a hallpass when he's out of town for a week, using your logic i should. it's not that serious, it's just a week, and he can go w/o pussy for a week. some of you men must have lost your ever loving mind

That was only for a female who wasn't willing to meet him half way. But yea, call me when hubby's out of town and if I'm not busy... yadda yadda

 

[texas409]

Is this for real?

So now we're cheating on chicks just for bleeding once a month?

Smh.

ive cheated for far less.....

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

umm, all birth control, regardless of whether it's the period restricting kind or not, put you at an increased risk for blood clots, especially if you are a smoker. her getting a blood clot had nothing to do with the type of birth control she was taking. if she was taking the regular kind, or the nuva ring, or the patch, or any type of hormonal birth control she could have still got a blood clot.

the birth control that gives you only 3 or 4 periods a year is no different than the regular birth control.

I really don't care either way, it still isn't natural. To each their own, but these products like depo provera haven't been around like some of our older methods of BC so they really don't have enough to go on to sit here and assure me that yup, everything is A ok with not getting your period and 20 years from now there will be no long term side effects. It can be FDA approved and doctors can say what they will but it just seems like messing with nature more than what I am comfortable with.