Should a man ever regularly pay the bills of his gf

[-Vincenzo-]

Naw, imma firm believer n a woman submitting to her man. Yo patnah situation tho is not only submitting. Thats a father/daughter relationship as well. "you betta listen to me or imma cut off yo allowance." Lol, wtf? To each its own tho. It jus seems like he gettn pussy from his child.

of course he doesnt say it like that, but practically it is like that...if you living off someone, at the end it all boils down to this. this is why you should think twice about gettin into a relationship of dependency, even though it might look appealing at first you might end up dancing to someones pipe.

 

[Prim-O Cla$$ic]

Naaaaaah. They don't appreciate it.

 

[powerman 5000]

the point in time when a man considers a woman his girlfriend is invaluable. There's a lot of subtle changes that take place as well as certain situations that require the mans full attention. How the female handles her bills is one of these situations. If she asks with the intent of paying you back, and she actually does, she may be a keeper. If she knows the water bill is do and all of a sudden she lets you but it in her butt then 2 weeks later ask for some money, it was obviously a ploy and the man should run as quick as his legs can take him.

 

[dirtyrodney]

So what does she do with her money?

Spend it on niggas like me!!! Like some other people said, if you going through a rough patch I'll do what I can for you but Im not paying all of nobody bills. In 2011 the independent woman movement been going on in case ya'll didnt get the memo. If she cant regularly pay her own bills, she wouldn't be qualified to be my wifey. Its love and all but not that much love. And yeah I will hit ya chick and let her spend ya hard own coin on me. "Shrugs"

 

[Aristo_V300]

No... no, just no.

 

[lighthearted25]

Never be dependent on a man. If he wants to pay your bills thats all good and dandy, just make sure you have your own money too saved up somewhere.

 

[Westie]

Never be dependent on a man. If he wants to pay your bills thats all good and dandy, just make sure you have your own money too saved up somewhere.

This ^^^^^^^^

 

[bignorm73]

this and I do

Thats my girl, regardless if we ever get married or not

as long as we living under the same roof, bills on me (no Khalifa)

This used to be a rule i lived by.

It had disaterous results.

Do not do this.

I do it now, becasue i am married. But dont do it when single.

Trust me.

 

[CapitalC]

Questions like this make me feel like 23 is really really young....

Is that what's popping when I turn 30? I don't see myself with a girl i gotta regularly support...

I'd rather be loved than needed...

 

[kat2180]

Tho my girl hates when I say this, we married in every aspect exccept by American law, so this is why it works for me

Why don't you just marry her then?

And I didn't think that about you btw, I knew you had some substance when you said you teach.

 

[wilmamiller32]

a girlfriend, maybe not. your wife hell yeah

 

[NYCeeCee]

I don't see myself with a girl i gotta regularly support...

I'd rather be loved than needed...

LOL, just because a man financially supports his woman, that doesn't mean she "needs" him. Some men actually do it because they WANT to.

 

[Lege|\|dary]

of his gf??

not to sure about that

It would have to be some serious circumstances

I believe she should be going to other people first before me if we're just dating

If I was her husband I would understand

 

[goat334]

It cost to live!!!

 

[powerman 5000]

How about the inverse? Should a woman regularly pay the bills of her bf? Depends on the sucka in question.

 

[Shuffington]

She's waiting on someone to scoop in and save her. But it wont be me. She sexy though but Im sure the other 2 guys who now pay her child support felt the same way.

status update

I've been sitting at my kitchen table for 2 hours scratching my head, storming my brains out to figure some shit out and paying bills! Uuuuggghhhh !!!! Story of my life. I need a damn man to freaking pay my bills cause I can't do it anymore!!!!! Lol

Shes waiting fellas

 

[mindright]

I don't pay bills unless it's a bill we both had a hand in...

other than that, no...I don't do that.

 

[CapitalC]

LOL, just because a man financially supports his woman, that doesn't mean she "needs" him. Some men actually do it because they WANT to.

Why would somebody WANT to support a chick financially?'

If I fall in love as an adult i think the most i would say is I wouldn't mind paying her bill if I had to...

 

[NYCeeCee]

Why would somebody WANT to support a chick financially?'

If I fall in love as an adult i think the most i would say is I wouldn't mind paying her bill if I had to...

People are going to do a lot of things that you may not understand....just as you will do a lot of things that other people won't understand.

I'm just speaking from personal experience, but I find that men who take care of their woman financially also take care of everyone else. They're genuinely generous to everyone....not just b/c she's a woman. Some people feel like if they're good, then everyone around them is good. If it so happens to be a woman, what's the problem. Every woman ain't out to stick a man for his money, just like every man ain't out to just get pu**y and bounce.

A few months ago my man told me that he GAVE (not lent) his friend a significant amount of money b/c he was in a bind. My first thought was: "Do you know what we could've done wit that $$" and I was pissed. I expressed my concern and he said "well, just like you think I'm crazy for giving him that $$, somebody told me I was crazy for telling you you don't have to go back to work once your contract is up". I shut up. LOL!

Everyone's reality ain't the same.

 

[CapitalC]

That makes sense, my best friend is like that...

You seem reasonable, intelligent, and mature...what you doing on the IC?