SEX: WHY IS IT SO D@@@ COMPLICATED

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

ladies, what's more important to you? making sure you get YOUR nut? or makin sure he gets his?

his.

I like to make sure he is pleased before i get pleased. It makes me happy to make him happy.

I thought everyone was like that :-/

You would think that, but not every chick shares that same view. Especially for the reason I l mentioned

 

[Matt-]

but thats why it works more when one of the parties is an out of towner and even better if she's with a small group of her friends. that she likely trusts or is looking to smash something themselves... they don't have to worry about people talkin.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

but thats why it works more when one of the parties is an out of towner and even better if she's with a small group of her friends. that she likely trusts or is looking to smash something themselves... they don't have to worry about people talkin.

Ahh I had that. That exchange was lovely. She just wanted sex, and so did i. Met up at a location that was even distance for us, and just handled bizness

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

A lot of niggas ruin it for some, they run their mouths like bitches talking about how quick they fucked instead of saying nothing plus they'll throw it back in a female's face or look down on her.

 

[LUClEN]

ladies, what's more important to you? making sure you get YOUR nut? or makin sure he gets his?

his.

I like to make sure he is pleased before i get pleased. It makes me happy to make him happy.

I thought everyone was like that :-/

Lol fuck no.

If i dont care for her no effort will be made to get her off

Fuck i look like pleasing insignificant ppl

 

[King Erauno]

Oxytocin

That's what makes it so damn hard. Its more to the "I don't want people in my biz" line than you think.

I dont know what that is

when you make a bitch bust a nut, its a hormone that makes them like you /love you more. thats why when a nigga is puttin it down on his girl...he could be the worst nigga on earth attitude wise...she wont leave

 

[Bookworm]

ladies, what's more important to you? making sure you get YOUR nut? or makin sure he gets his?

Him. I've always had trouble having orgasms, no matter how good it feels. I hear its common for women though.

 

[unRealLady1]

I never had a one night stand, I’m just the type that people like to spread rumors on because they think I’m stuck up and concieted. Or some niggas believe Iam gay or bisexual, because I turned down the opportunity to have sex with them.

 

[S2J]

This seems like either a young ngga/college thread, or a small town thread

I meet/know a very small percentage of the chicks my homies mess with

As far as it bein difficult, now i aint single anymore but it's like the old saying in sales: each opportunity a sale will be made. Either you sell them a reason to buy, or they sell you a reason why they not buyin.

Judging from this thread, whatever chick(s) you talkin about have sold YOU lol

 

[Huruma]

Oxytocin

That's what makes it so damn hard.

How does oxytocin make it hard?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix.

I thought the concept of 'whoring' around included one night stands.

So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

They might.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

This seems like either a young ngga/college thread, or a small town thread

I meet/know a very small percentage of the chicks my homies mess with

As far as it bein difficult, now i aint single anymore but it's like the old saying in sales: each opportunity a sale will be made. Either you sell them a reason to buy, or they sell you a reason why they not buyin.

Judging from this thread, whatever chick(s) you talkin about have sold YOU lol

*scratches head*

Umm ok. Sure. Lol.

Ok ladies, for who haven't gotten an orgasm...WHY???

 

[Louis Cipher]

What's your thoughts about it?

For example, if a woman knows she's hornt as all hell, then what's wrong wit wanting a one night stand, booty call, or quickie?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix. So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

how old are you bruh? seriously....

sex is rarely complicated for men...we can have sex and not have any feelings involved what so ever...

most women cant/wont do that...they like to have some connection to whoever they sleep with

thats not to say a woman wont do casual sex tho...im sure a lot of them have at one time or another...their just not like us...we could live our whole lives just doing casual (well most of us could)

 

[Louis Cipher]

What's your thoughts about it?

For example, if a woman knows she's hornt as all hell, then what's wrong wit wanting a one night stand, booty call, or quickie?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix. So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

how old are you bruh? seriously....

sex is rarely complicated for men...we can have sex and not have any feelings involved what so ever...

most women cant/wont do that...they like to have some connection to whoever they sleep with

thats not to say a woman wont do casual sex tho...im sure a lot of them have at one time or another...their just not like us...we could live our whole lives just doing casual (well most of us could)

The problem, though, is that.... I have never had except like one one night stand... and i didn't realize it was going to be like that at the time. Anyway, a lot of dudes seem to think they gotta trick me into sex. Which really fucks with my mind. I am okay with casual sex. But I've never had it because dudes trick me into thinking we're going to be into a long-term relationship and fuck me a few times then it's over.

If they made it clear in the beginning that they didn't want a relationship and this was all about sex--didn't date me or any of that BS, then I would be fine with it. You don't have to be slick and shit, be up front. Jesus Christ.

That's what the last dude did to me.

That's what makes me angry.

the problem is...that a lot of women arent cool with casual sex...men know this...so instead of being honest...we lie and pretend to be your man to get sex...

we arent gonna mess up possible sex by being honest

 

[MissK]

That's what makes me angry.

the problem is...that a lot of women arent cool with casual sex...men know this...so instead of being honest...we lie and pretend to be your man to get sex...

we arent gonna mess up possible sex by being honest

close thread

appreciates the honesty

 

[BigBallsNoWorries]

yo it all depends on who im fucking and how much i "care" for that ho

its like if im fucking this bitch i just picked up from the club, and she like a decent 7.5, then fuck nah i dont care about laying it right

im trying to get sucked like a binky and roll out in the morning

if she a 8 and she goes to my school, then i kinda half to put in some effort, cant have that bitch go around campus talking bout deion aint laying it right

but if she a 9 or a "dime", then yea im putting in that wrk, clocking in that pussy and not clocking out until shes

shaking like shes having a seizure

im fucking her brainless, find them shits on the ground and put em back in her head and fuck em out again

but to answer the thread, yes sex is complicated at times, when it can all be soo simple

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

What's your thoughts about it?

For example, if a woman knows she's hornt as all hell, then what's wrong wit wanting a one night stand, booty call, or quickie?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix. So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

how old are you bruh? seriously....

sex is rarely complicated for men...we can have sex and not have any feelings involved what so ever...

most women cant/wont do that...they like to have some connection to whoever they sleep with

thats not to say a woman wont do casual sex tho...im sure a lot of them have at one time or another...their just not like us...we could live our whole lives just doing casual (well most of us could)

Didn't realize there was an age limit when it comes to asking questions about sex. My apologies all knowing one. Lol.

I wanted to hear from a WOMAN'S perspective regarding that question.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

 

[Louis Cipher]

What's your thoughts about it?

For example, if a woman knows she's hornt as all hell, then what's wrong wit wanting a one night stand, booty call, or quickie?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix. So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

how old are you bruh? seriously....

sex is rarely complicated for men...we can have sex and not have any feelings involved what so ever...

most women cant/wont do that...they like to have some connection to whoever they sleep with

thats not to say a woman wont do casual sex tho...im sure a lot of them have at one time or another...their just not like us...we could live our whole lives just doing casual (well most of us could)

Didn't realize there was an age limit when it comes to asking questions about sex. My apologies all knowing one. Lol.

I wanted to hear from a WOMAN'S perspective regarding that question.

no...theres no age limit...but most men learn early on that women tend to have emotional ties to sex...

i have to remember who im talking to here....

apologies..

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

What's your thoughts about it?

For example, if a woman knows she's horny as all hell, then what's wrong wit wanting a one night stand, booty call, or quickie?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix. So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

how old are you bruh? seriously....

sex is rarely complicated for men...we can have sex and not have any feelings involved what so ever...

most women cant/wont do that...they like to have some connection to whoever they sleep with

thats not to say a woman wont do casual sex tho...im sure a lot of them have at one time or another...their just not like us...we could live our whole lives just doing casual (well most of us could)

Didn't realize there was an age limit when it comes to asking questions about sex. My apologies all knowing one. Lol.

I wanted to hear from a WOMAN'S perspective regarding that question.

no...theres no age limit...but most men learn early on that women tend to have emotional ties to sex...

i have to remember who im talking to here....

apologies..

again, MY apologies all knowing one of women. its not that serious bruh lol. again, wanted to get the perspective a woman. smh.

 

[VIBE]

What's your thoughts about it?

For example, if a woman knows she's hornt as all hell, then what's wrong wit wanting a one night stand, booty call, or quickie?

If you're not out there hoeing around, then I don't see nothin wrong wit wanting a quick fix. So why does a woman feel like the world will know her bizness of she engages such activity?

I think you mean, "why are one night stands so hard to pull off". Because sex isn't complicated like that.

I would assume that a good chick won't just sleep with a dude to get off because of self-respect. Women, all the ones I know and met, want some connection with that one person. Hoes just do it to do it, women with self respect think about the outcome. Men just can't keep their mouths shut, sex for a man is a must tell all my boys thing. When you do that, they spread the word, then they try to hit because they think she's a whore.