Settling in relationships

[Colin$mackabi$h]

You know women don't wanna accept reality.

 

[HafBayked]

"he's a nice guy and treats me good" = "he's slangin wood and picks up the tab sometimes"

she aint settling or compromising....she just wasnt doin shit else at the time

 

[LPast]

Settling can be just be making a decision. Where is the line of being happy and just wanting someone start and end?

 

[Tymoney19]

I can't see myself cuffing a chick I ain't attracted 2 at all

 

[Cinco]

Women are primarily judged by looks, not men

 

[King Erauno]

she settling. cause the dude she really wanted dogged her out..or got a girl. she using ninja turtle until the first dude is free so she can be a rebound

 

[Tymoney19]

The way she was describing dude too me when they first met was foul but now that so called crusty nigga ur mans smh lol

 

[S2J]

I'm having a debate with my friend. She recently met a man who she confessed to me she wasn't attracted to that looked liked a "ninja turtle". Next thing you know her and the turtle are together now. I asked her about it and she tells me "well he's really a nice guy and treats me good. I'm 27 and don't want to end up alone". I told her she was settling and she's telling me it's compromising. I'm wondering if this is a female thing? What do y'all think IC is she settling or compromising?

 

[Kat]

Eh.

Humans are going to initially judge someone by their appearance, but a man is more likely to gradually become more attractive to a woman as he displays other attractive non-physical traits.

I don't think that's necessarily settling, just recognizing what's more important in the long run.

 

[Tymoney19]

Eh.

Humans are going to initially judge someone by their appearance, but a man is more likely to gradually become more attractive to a woman as he displays other attractive non-physical traits.

I don't think that's necessarily settling, just recognizing what's more important in the long run.

I'm not attracted to fat chicks but I would never be in a relationship with one because she cooks and treats me well. Aren't their enough people out there that you can find someone your attracted to and treats you well. IMO anything less is settling.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Eh.

Humans are going to initially judge someone by their appearance, but a man is more likely to gradually become more attractive to a woman as he displays other attractive non-physical traits.

I don't think that's necessarily settling, just recognizing what's more important in the long run.

so y'all let Kat seem like the logical one?

anyway, no one is perfect.

I don't see the scenario in the op as settling. obviously being treated nice and fear of being alone are more important to her than looks...

 

[Kat]

And there are plenty that share the same sentiment.

But not everyone is driven by the physical, some can find genuine attraction in other attributes.

 

[texas409]

its not all about looks maybe she does genuinely want a man that treats her right

 

[Kat]

Running out of time for what exactly?

 

[7figz]

I think it has ho'ish roots.

A lot of bitches can't tell the difference between attractive and "has money".

 

[MissK]

What woman want and what men want are two totally different things so someone is going to 'settle'

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Eh.

Humans are going to initially judge someone by their appearance, but a man is more likely to gradually become more attractive to a woman as he displays other attractive non-physical traits.

I don't think that's necessarily settling, just recognizing what's more important in the long run.

so y'all let Kat seem like the logical one?

anyway, no one is perfect.

I don't see the scenario in the op as settling. obviously being treated nice and fear of being alone are more important to her than looks...

I think her logic is more; 'I'm running out of time, he shall suffice'

some folks are pragmatic, bruh... this aint the movies... and its shallow as fuck to choose a mate based (solely) on looks.

 

[Tymoney19]

Running out of time for what exactly?

She's a 27 yr old single mom she thinks if she hits 30 and can't find a man she's gonna be alone forever

 

[texas409]

im turning 31 soon and in my prime im in no rush to settle for less f that

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Running out of time for what exactly?

She's a 27 yr old single mom she thinks if she hits 30 and can't find a man she's gonna be alone forever

she's right