Serious Question, Should you let people who done you wrong in the past back into your life?

[optimistic]

Of course you let them back in, if you're a glutton for punishment. I don't even fuck with people who let people back in after fuck shit.

 

[AZTG]

Depends

 

[HafBayked]

"done me wrong" and "just aint shit and carries bad vibes" are two different things

I got people I had to quit fuckin wit b/c of my change of lifestyle but Im still cool with them

aint no cool with anybody who actually fucked me over in any way.....if I let you back in, its so I can watch you while im bakin this cake up for you

 

[Trillfate]

OP sound like a Drake song

 

[2stepz_ahead]

strictly situational

 

[mrtdb]

In general? Nah.

Not without special circumstances, ties, etc

 

[konceptjones]

My ex could be homeless, 85lbs and starving, in tattered rags, missing an eye with a wooden leg and a claw hand, I'll walk around her ass like she doesn't exist or call the cops on her for being a public nuisance.

I fell out with one of my boys from back in the 90's over some business shit. Haven't spoken to dude in 18 years or so. If he were to reach out today like "Yo, Koncept, aye dawg I'm in dire straits and need help", I'll help him out. That was some business shit and we've both grown up and moved on from that point. Yeah it went down kinda foul, but fuck it; my dude needs help so I can leave that shit in the past.

Some muhfuckas don't deserve to be back in my life.

 

[CapitalB]

strictly situational

this..

its not always a bad thing..

now u got someone who will work hard to work they way back into ur good graces that they dont know they never will..

it gives u the one up..

 

[32DaysOfInfiniti]

I wouldnt say yes or no, its more like a situational thing and how much you care about that person but...

You should never get back to the point where you put them in the position to fuck you over again... You can be friends with someone and never put them in a position of trust.

And if this person is just plotting against you regardless, I dont know why they were your friend in the first place.

Also I dont think its right to place your short comings on them. Like saying when they were around I wasn't shit. I dont think that was their fault, thats a you thing. So if you are now on your feet and they are struggling, you should be in a better situation where you can help and it won't really put you in jeopardy.

Still though, sometimes we grow up and people from our past just simply no longer fit in our lives. Don't try to force it, if they are still on some petty street criminal shit and you are legit business man or whatever, theres a reason the old you wasnt successful. Use context clues.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

My ex could be homeless, 85lbs and starving, in tattered rags, missing an eye with a wooden leg and a claw hand, I'll walk around her ass like she doesn't exist or call the cops on her for being a public nuisance.

I fell out with one of my boys from back in the 90's over some business shit. Haven't spoken to dude in 18 years or so. If he were to reach out today like "Yo, Koncept, aye dawg I'm in dire straits and need help", I'll help him out. That was some business shit and we've both grown up and moved on from that point. Yeah it went down kinda foul, but fuck it; my dude needs help so I can leave that shit in the past.

Some muhfuckas don't deserve to be back in my life.

:joy: That reminded me of 50 Cent saying if his babymama got hit by the Q11 bus and it dragged her, he would get out his Bentley and ride that shit for 2 stops

 

[VulcanRaven]

I got a cousin that I don't deal with because she ignorant and don't show respect. Her brother and mother act the same and they always been that way but I am not going to put up with it just because that's the way they are. I'm too old for that bullshit so I don't want to be around them.

 

[blackgod813]

Shake ya ass make ya baby dady mad

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Depends...like if you were on some wack shit when we were 18 and you come back around at 22....under the right circumstances I'll give you the benefit of the doubt cuz maybe you've matured since then.

But what was done to me and was it intentional? Did I deserve it? How long have we known each other? How close were we? What was going on in your life when we fell out?

All need to be taken into account before I have you around me again.

 

[Koltrain]

The timing of this thread is impeccable... just found out today that one of my exes interviewed for a position at my job smh..not only that, the posting is in a department I work closely with.

 

[onetoughmiracle]

 

[TayGettem]

If u do me wrong and i let u back in it's just so i can beat yo ass unexpectedly

 

[numbaz...80's baby]

Nah

 

[playboy buddy rose]

It depends on the severity of the treachery