blackrain;8846152 said:
S2J;8845927 said:
This is not about single mothers.
Its about ratchet women aka poor decision making adult women
Not all single mothers are ratchet, not all ratchet women are single mothers
If you meet a woman with a newborn, that is the lowest of the low. You cant say its her 'past' bc it aint even been a year. Thats an immediate lifetime decision that deteriorated immediately. Second red flag is a woman who talks shit about that same dude who just a year before she was willing to seed her up.
Thats before we even get into the other women this dude seeded up who you still let seed you up. You signed up to the the 6th BM.
Thats 3 red flags that are seperate from her simply being a single mother
None of ya'll know if any of the "She don't deserve to be loved" shit ya'l talking actually applies to her outside of having a kid w/ a dude who just a month or so ago ya'll were calling a loving, caring father when she hit him with that lawsuit. Now he's just a nigga w/ 6 baby mommas? All the shit ya'll talk about women needing to make better decisions about the men they date, a woman makes a good decision and you niggas turn to "She don't deserve a good dude like him. How dare she think she's worthy of a good guy after she's dated *insert here* in the past"...Ya'll can't have it both ways.
Whoa. Thats quite suspect to look at this thru the female's lens .
I couldnt care less and haven't said 1 word about how this works from Ciara's viewpoint bc....im not a chick. I am a man Damon, as such we look at it this as MEN, and from that standpoint---25, 100mill contract, chick JUST left her dude with his kid---eh, seems off playa. Not wise. Good luck. Its quite simple.
You tryin too hard goin thread to thread tuggin at my laces n its got u lookin crazy out here. Bc as a MAN, wheres the argument? This should not be a mans reaction to this engagement
Get some rest champ