Russell Wilson And Ciara Are Engaged

[blackrain]

At the end of the day, as a man dating YOUR standards come first so if niggas are saying they REALLY REALLY REALLY would like to avoid a single mother than thats just wtf it is. Either you agree with that stance or you completely dont mind. Either is fine! But stop hedging. Stop riding the fence.

We know anything can happen and u never know who u fall for , but draw a damn line in the stand. Too many niggas in here playing the middle like this is whats hot:

And that man could be happy af, but just bc something CAN be done doesnt mean it is TO BE DONE or emulated.

If at all possible id really rather birth my own child and have that be the only one with that woman. Its so very simple. You either aree with that stance,or you completely dont and dont mind other women's kids. @damobb2deep the only nigga that has at least definitively said he doesn't mind bein a step dad. The rest are frontin

Not wanting to play step dad isn't a bad thing...but a lot of comments in this thread are on some "she don't deserve him" shit...that's where the confusion comes in...and something nobody has given an answer for. Got people calling Russ a coon for getting engaged...some niggas are letting their personal hurt show over this.

Its just not that serious man. People just bein honest

When somebody says 'why'd you pick her?', from a MAN's perspective, its easy for that to morph into 'damn, u saying she dont deserve to be happy' from a WOMAN'S perspective. I'd expect women to root for a chick comin up.

But yall are DUDES. Lls Hence my confusion. How are we not 100% in accordance here??? You searching for single mothers out here?

So my only possible conclusions are 1) they are sons of single mothers, 2) u a step dad yourself, 3) there's women in here. Niggas is switching up

#3 is a big one. This thread started off damn near as a Russell Wilson roast. Couple women make comnents now we have dudes comin out the woodwork playing devils advocate, championing for Ciara's right to be loved

Weak ass niggas

I'm married so I'm not searching for single mothers...that kills all 3 of your reasons right there.

Asking why you'd pick her is different from all the "she dated so and so in the past so now why she want him" that's been being said. Those are 2 completely different things being discussed. Some are asking why...but more are saying she flat out don't deserve him and how she's representing all the women who turn down so called good guys or single mothers looking for a come up, which is funny considering she ain't broke and is more likely to keep her money vs Russ because we know the stats on athletes who go broke...dudes are in here projecting and that's dominated the discussion

 

[S2J]

Doesnt negate #1 or #3. Shit, still dont negate #2. But if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

 

[blackrain]

Doesnt negate #3. And if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

It does negate it. I ain't trying to impress nobody on here. You seem to have trouble accepting not everyone thinks like you. And all you got to do is read the posts in this thread to see people saying he can do better, why he marrying her...why she wait til now to be with a "good guy"...she's been "thug fucked"...that shit reeks of the same feminine emotion you claim simply saying good for them gives off.

 

[S2J]

Doesnt negate #3. And if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

It does negate it. I ain't trying to impress nobody on here. You seem to have trouble accepting not everyone thinks like you. And all you got to do is read the posts in this thread to see people saying he can do better, why he marrying her...why she wait til now to be with a "good guy"...she's been "thug fucked"...that shit reeks of the same feminine emotion you claim simply saying good for them gives off.

Cool. Good talk.

 

[damobb2deep]

Doesnt negate #1 or #3. Shit, still dont negate #2. But if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

thing about it is... you think i dont "get" what you are saying... i actually do... i just dont agree nothing more nothing less...

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Doesnt negate #3. And if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

It does negate it. I ain't trying to impress nobody on here. You seem to have trouble accepting not everyone thinks like you. And all you got to do is read the posts in this thread to see people saying he can do better, why he marrying her...why she wait til now to be with a "good guy"...she's been "thug fucked"...that shit reeks of the same feminine emotion you claim simply saying good for them gives off.

so saying a dude can do better is a bad thing now....

its not like this chick aint out here looking like "instana-family cereal all you need is the man and mix"

they are all wrong in my book...all three of them.

but from your replies....you seem intelligent enough to understand my point. i assume you are not the type to just take whatever without doing your history before locking something down. but this thread aint bout you...

its about a nigga who finger-waves he hair stamping a meal ticket.

me personally..i seen this play out plenty of times....an i call it like i see it.

aint shit feminie about that.

this nigga daddy should even be like...nigga get a pre-nup.

just because you in love with someone dont mean they in love with you.

the more money you have the bigger the target you are

 

[2stepz_ahead]

imma just leave this here
http://community.allhiphop.com/disc...ay-your-son-just-got-a-100million-contract/p1

 

[S2J]

Doesnt negate #1 or #3. Shit, still dont negate #2. But if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

thing about it is... you think i dont "get" what you are saying... i actually do... i just dont agree nothing more nothing less...

Yea i mentioned that you genuinely disagree in plain black and white language

So you and I have nothing to debate then! Feel me?

The problem is when you have, ie, a chick who's first words are 'i personally wouldn't do what Ciara did, but....' or another nigga saying 'well, i dont disagree, BUT. ...'

When folk literaly dont disagree but still arguing. Arguing with 'tones'. "I dont disagree, but i dont like how hard yall goin, so ima take the other side". Thats what's happening

 

[damobb2deep]

Doesnt negate #3. And if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

It does negate it. I ain't trying to impress nobody on here. You seem to have trouble accepting not everyone thinks like you. And all you got to do is read the posts in this thread to see people saying he can do better, why he marrying her...why she wait til now to be with a "good guy"...she's been "thug fucked"...that shit reeks of the same feminine emotion you claim simply saying good for them gives off.

so saying a dude can do better is a bad thing now....

its not like this chick aint out here looking like "instana-family cereal all you need is the man and mix"

they are all wrong in my book...all three of them.

but from your replies....you seem intelligent enough to understand my point. i assume you are not the type to just take whatever without doing your history before locking something down. but this thread aint bout you...

its about a nigga who finger-waves he hair stamping a meal ticket.

me personally..i seen this play out plenty of times....an i call it like i see it.

aint shit feminie about that.

this nigga daddy should even be like...nigga get a pre-nup.

just because you in love with someone dont mean they in love with you.

the more money you have the bigger the target you are

you actually dont know whats going to happen though... you can only assume... btw name other notable situations like this that ended bad..

 

[LPast]

Just say you want her to die alone for dating someone like Future... Keep it simple...

 

[StillFaggyAF]

I think ppl are just laughing at Ciara fitting the fuck with bad boy and now find a good boy to take care of u and ur child stereotype. Some niggas are projecting but that's it

 

[S2J]

Just say you want her to die alone for dating someone like Future... Keep it simple...

I think ppl are just laughing at Ciara fitting the fuck with bad boy and now find a good boy to take care of u and ur child. Some niggas are projecting but that's it

Thread in a nutshell. Now which one of these is simple plausible observations and which one is the hyperbolic reach.

 

[Figo]

maybe Russell saw a R&B video of Ciara dancing and envision her being his perfect woman. an angel from above.

good luck to the future married couple

 

[blackrain]

Doesnt negate #3. And if thats the case take that up and reply to that (imaginary) specific person who said 'she doesnt deserve him'. Otherwise youre fighting ghosts

And smh @ me, just checked the reactions its literally just 4 dudes here on some other shit. This nigga, Emholla, amann, and mobb

Everybody else gets it. Good talk

It does negate it. I ain't trying to impress nobody on here. You seem to have trouble accepting not everyone thinks like you. And all you got to do is read the posts in this thread to see people saying he can do better, why he marrying her...why she wait til now to be with a "good guy"...she's been "thug fucked"...that shit reeks of the same feminine emotion you claim simply saying good for them gives off.

so saying a dude can do better is a bad thing now....

its not like this chick aint out here looking like "instana-family cereal all you need is the man and mix"

they are all wrong in my book...all three of them.

but from your replies....you seem intelligent enough to understand my point. i assume you are not the type to just take whatever without doing your history before locking something down. but this thread aint bout you...

its about a nigga who finger-waves he hair stamping a meal ticket.

me personally..i seen this play out plenty of times....an i call it like i see it.

aint shit feminie about that.

this nigga daddy should even be like...nigga get a pre-nup.

just because you in love with someone dont mean they in love with you.

the more money you have the bigger the target you are

That's just it though...you can't use call it like I see it because none of us know them. So to instantly go with the negative of she's a gold digger or some chick looking for a come up reveals more about what you see with no proof for that specific situation vs what may actually be going on. I never said there's no chance she looking for a come up...I'm just not immediately jumping to that conclusion 100% like some have based on nothing other than their feeling about other single mothers

 

[Trillfate]

Gotdamn it i saw a meme on tumblr of a photoshopped Russell eating food out of tubberware/plastic bowl and it said "i love leftovers" but i cant find it for shit now

 

[damobb2deep]

I think ppl are just laughing at Ciara fitting the fuck with bad boy and now find a good boy to take care of u and ur child stereotype. Some niggas are projecting but that's it

she dont need him though.. so why does he have to "take care" of her...

 

[D0wn]

Just say you want her to die alone for dating someone like Future... Keep it simple...

I think ppl are just laughing at Ciara fitting the fuck with bad boy and now find a good boy to take care of u and ur child stereotype. Some niggas are projecting but that's it

the funny thing is, for every chick who dates a bad boy. there's a solid well to do brotha who got a hood rat pregnant... then he meets a solid sista, who has to deal with his ratchet ass baby momma. niggas don't like talking about that tho.

they too busy in there emotions, remincing when such and such curve theyre cornball brotha asses. knowing damn well, they still ain't nobody's first option. cry slow nigga.

 

[LPast]

Just say you want her to die alone for dating someone like Future... Keep it simple...

I think ppl are just laughing at Ciara fitting the fuck with bad boy and now find a good boy to take care of u and ur child stereotype. Some niggas are projecting but that's it

the funny thing is, for every chick who dates a bad boy. there's a solid well to do brotha who got a hood rat pregnant... then he meets a solid sista, who has to deal with his ratchet ass baby momma. niggas don't like talking about that tho.

they too busy in there emotions, remincing when such and such curve theyre cornball brotha asses. knowing damn well, they still ain't nobody's first option. cry slow nigga.

@2stepz_ahead

 

[mackanaven]

I HOPE THEY DIVORCE AND LOSE ALL THEIR MONEY!

 

[jniam]

Wow.

Didn't know people were this into the relationship.

I hope the best for them and for Russell to keep his principles and faith while in the marraige.

As a Nigerian, I can't really speak to the what precedent this relationship does for the Black Community, as I'm not really part of it