I love it when cats say, "well when black folks say it comes across as self hate"...smh, thats not even the case dummy.
Yea there's a maphucking difference between the er and the a. Only white folks or white washed black folks get caught up in the idea of spelling...shit is about meaning.
When a brother says to me "what up my nigga" thats a term of endearment...I don't hear slavery in his voice, prejudice, hatred or the need to destroy my whole race...I hear someone who is running the same race with the same pitfalls in place as I
But when I hear a white dude say it, I hear either a perpetration or hatred...either or shouldn't come out of his mouth
And shut da fuck up Persian Gangsta...your response made no sense. Gays people don't like the term faggot and prefer you not use the word in their circle.
I know a chick from NY, she hates that word n will smash your grill on principle for saying that word...it is what it is...she don't like it she don't like it
It's no different than with family...you can joke around and play with your fam all day, but an outsider doesn't have that pass
Point. Blank. Period.
So all in all...if you aren't black, you shouldn't be using it.
It's not self hate...you don't walk in our shoes...
On da real T/S, fuck explaining it to these whities...they will neve undastand and being a member on a hip hop site won't get em closer either...
just don't say that shit...around the wrong niggas...(not niggers) will get your shit pushed on