Poly-life or nah...

[MoneyPowerRespect]

I don't get why you had a kid and all of a sudden he doesn't want to have sex with you. You find that kind of odd did you gain weight or something no diss

Sex isn't high on his list.

It's in my top 5.

 

[Max.]

I don't get why you had a kid and all of a sudden he doesn't want to have sex with you. You find that kind of odd did you gain weight or something no diss

Sex isn't high on his list.

It's in my top 5.

Whats in ur top 5

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Or maybe you need @DoUwant2go2Heaven in your life girl.

she needs @LordZuko

Mmm nah. I don't fwb under 5'7". I might accidentally skeet in her. Can't be having short kids.

OhMyGawd

 

[Max.]

Imagine living in a house with four women and their kids man. That should just sounds bad

Body bag

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Wait how sick is he?

How many kids u got by how many dudes

Detroit?

Man yo life sound awful g

3x3...9, 4, 3mo

THAT nigga moved up there.

I actually want him to move back, tbh. It'd be better for everyone.

Not awful.

Just not what I envisioned.

Believe me..it could be a LOT worse.

 

[AZTG]

And also, that polygamy is cool on paper, but by law a man can only have one wife. Now you might think who cares about marriage, its only a piece of paper, but it goes way deeper than that.

A wife has legal rights a gf does not. Im talking providing health care for you, tax breaks for you, getting whatever is his if there is a tragic accident, or even worse case, getting half if shit dont work out, plus way more.

Im not saying he should marry you, if he doesnt marry either one of yall its cool, but if he gets married to her, and you just the gf, you taking the short end of that stick and would be stupid to put yourself in such a disadvantageous situation.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

And also, that polygamy is cool on paper, but by law a man can only have one wife. Now you might think who cares about marriage, its only a piece of paper, but it goes way deeper than that.

A wife has legal rights a gf does not. Im talking providing health care for you, tax breaks for you, getting whatever is his if there is a tragic accident, or even worse case, getting half if shit dont work out, plus way more.

Im not saying he should marry you, if he doesnt marry either one of yall its cool, but if he gets married to her, and you just the gf, you taking the short end of that stick and would be stupid to put yourself in such a disadvantageous situation.

Oh..I get it. Even though I'm not an advocate for marriage, I'd do it to ensure myself.

 

[Max.]

Wait how sick is he?

How many kids u got by how many dudes

Detroit?

Man yo life sound awful g

3x3...9, 4, 3mo

THAT nigga moved up there.

I actually want him to move back, tbh. It'd be better for everyone.

Not awful.

Just not what I envisioned.

Believe me..it could be a LOT worse.

Y he sick

 

[D. Morgan]

why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.

I actually want him to get another woman, but he doesn't think that she'll go for it.

Besides, who gets jealous over a nigga who plays the game all the time???

The fact that he feels that way plays a part in you not finding him attractive anymore subconsciously I'm sure. Now I see why you labeled him a "nice guy". He's at a point in life where he's always afraid to try. Wouldn't be surprised if people pleasing is a priority to him in life and it never should be.

He needs to work on himself cause it sounds like he's got self confidence/self love issues. If he doesn't nip it in the bud that will affect his love life and everything else for the rest of his days. No matter what until that is done every woman he encounters will want to be ghost and as far away from him as possible after a while just like you right now.

I don't believe that some men want to be monogamous.

I'd respect a man more for telling me what he is and isn't built for.

And he's not built for poly-life.

I wouldn't call it 'people-pleasing' but some of our problems stem from the fact that he doesn't want to have an argument. For me, that's an issue.

 

[Busta Carmichael]

Wait how sick is he?

How many kids u got by how many dudes

Detroit?

Man yo life sound awful g

3x3...9, 4, 3mo

THAT nigga moved up there.

I actually want him to move back, tbh. It'd be better for everyone.

Not awful.

Just not what I envisioned.

Believe me..it could be a LOT worse.

What does this mean?

 

[AZTG]

And also, that polygamy is cool on paper, but by law a man can only have one wife. Now you might think who cares about marriage, its only a piece of paper, but it goes way deeper than that.

A wife has legal rights a gf does not. Im talking providing health care for you, tax breaks for you, getting whatever is his if there is a tragic accident, or even worse case, getting half if shit dont work out, plus way more.

Im not saying he should marry you, if he doesnt marry either one of yall its cool, but if he gets married to her, and you just the gf, you taking the short end of that stick and would be stupid to put yourself in such a disadvantageous situation.

Oh..I get it. Even though I'm not an advocate for marriage, I'd do it to ensure myself.

Fuck marriage. Im not saying marriage is good. But you cant put yourself im a polygamous relationship where chick A is getting all the benefits.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

I don't get why you had a kid and all of a sudden he doesn't want to have sex with you. You find that kind of odd did you gain weight or something no diss

Sex isn't high on his list.

It's in my top 5.

Whats in ur top 5

Honesty.

How he'll do with my family.

How he spends his money.

His goals.

His mouth.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Wait how sick is he?

How many kids u got by how many dudes

Detroit?

Man yo life sound awful g

3x3...9, 4, 3mo

THAT nigga moved up there.

I actually want him to move back, tbh. It'd be better for everyone.

Not awful.

Just not what I envisioned.

Believe me..it could be a LOT worse.

Y he sick

He has really bad IBS.

He's been going through it for 2 years and just now getting his meds and stuff.

 

[AggieLean.]

Wait how sick is he?

How many kids u got by how many dudes

Detroit?

Man yo life sound awful g

3x3...9, 4, 3mo

THAT nigga moved up there.

I actually want him to move back, tbh. It'd be better for everyone.

Not awful.

Just not what I envisioned.

Believe me..it could be a LOT worse.

What does this mean?

3 kids by 3 niggas...I think.

Gave you they ages too

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Wait how sick is he?

How many kids u got by how many dudes

Detroit?

Man yo life sound awful g

3x3...9, 4, 3mo

THAT nigga moved up there.

I actually want him to move back, tbh. It'd be better for everyone.

Not awful.

Just not what I envisioned.

Believe me..it could be a LOT worse.

What does this mean?

3 kids

3 men

 

[Broddie]

why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.

I actually want him to get another woman, but he doesn't think that she'll go for it.

Besides, who gets jealous over a nigga who plays the game all the time???

The fact that he feels that way plays a part in you not finding him attractive anymore subconsciously I'm sure. Now I see why you labeled him a "nice guy". He's at a point in life where he's always afraid to try. Wouldn't be surprised if people pleasing is a priority to him in life and it never should be.

He needs to work on himself cause it sounds like he's got self confidence/self love issues. If he doesn't nip it in the bud that will affect his love life and everything else for the rest of his days. No matter what until that is done every woman he encounters will want to be ghost and as far away from him as possible after a while just like you right now.

I don't believe that some men want to be monogamous.

I'd respect a man more for telling me what he is and isn't built for.

And he's not built for poly-life.

I wouldn't call it 'people-pleasing' but some of our problems stem from the fact that he doesn't want to have an argument. For me, that's an issue.

That's what happens when men become too passive. Women love conflict. That's why I stopped biting my tongue ages ago. No fucks left to give.

 

[AP21]

where you live MPR?

im sure you can get some dick in a glass w/o all this shit you trying to bring into the situation

 

[playmaker88]

I don't get why you had a kid and all of a sudden he doesn't want to have sex with you. You find that kind of odd did you gain weight or something no diss

Sex isn't high on his list.

It's in my top 5.

Whats in ur top 5

Honesty.

How he'll do with my family.

How he spends his money.

His goals.

His mouth.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.

I actually want him to get another woman, but he doesn't think that she'll go for it.

Besides, who gets jealous over a nigga who plays the game all the time???

The fact that he feels that way plays a part in you not finding him attractive anymore subconsciously I'm sure. Now I see why you labeled him a "nice guy". He's at a point in life where he's always afraid to try. Wouldn't be surprised if people pleasing is a priority to him in life and it never should be.

He needs to work on himself cause it sounds like he's got self confidence/self love issues. If he doesn't nip it in the bud that will affect his love life and everything else for the rest of his days. No matter what until that is done every woman he encounters will want to be ghost and as far away from him as possible after a while just like you right now.

I don't believe that some men want to be monogamous.

I'd respect a man more for telling me what he is and isn't built for.

And he's not built for poly-life.

I wouldn't call it 'people-pleasing' but some of our problems stem from the fact that he doesn't want to have an argument. For me, that's an issue.

That's what happens when men become too passive. Women love conflict. That's why I stopped biting my tongue ages ago. No fucks left to give.

By not speaking up and telling me details that could prevent things from happening, you are creating a problem.

I.e., I wanted to order a pizza because I had some coupons.

I called, placed the order, and fell asleep. I would periodically wake up to see if the pizza came. Each time, he would go to the living room.

After an HOUR AND A HALF, he tells me 'idk why you ordered from there. They always messing up our orders'. He followed up with 'I kept asking my bro if it had came and him and his gf said the same thing..they always messing up orders'.

How would I have known that they mess up orders if he hadn't spoke up?

Whyyyy would you even let me order from them if that was the case??

The shit pmo because it was for MY SON. Smmfh

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

where you live MPR?

im sure you can get some dick in a glass w/o all this shit you trying to bring into the situation

Nashville.

And dick isn't the problem.

It's the relationship as a whole.

Side pieces really don't exist in my world.

I want open and honesty.

You want another woman? Cool.

I'm going on a date? Fine.

I don't have the time or energy to be deleting text messages and using my friends as alibis.

We gon be one big happy family in this bitch.