Poly-life or nah...

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as long as he can take care of the two of you.....an shares time

and when you want some dikk you get your dildo...or you an shorty hit it up....

yall pool your money for the bigger plan and create wealth, share the duties of raising kids and movie night.

i think everything will be cool.
 
2stepz_ahead;c-10060164 said:
why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.
 
2stepz_ahead;c-10060164 said:
why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

There's no feeling like a head between your legs.

We don't live together and when I am there, I feel like I'm taking care of 3 kids.
2stepz_ahead;c-10060169 said:
as long as he can take care of the two of you.....an shares time

and when you want some dikk you get your dildo...or you an shorty hit it up....

yall pool your money for the bigger plan and create wealth, share the duties of raising kids and movie night.

i think everything will be cool.

Yeah. I know that some houses up there are reasonably priced but may need some work. That's cool.

She and I aren't going to have sex. I'm not gay.

I truly think that it'll work. I just don't wanna take my baby away from his dad. That distance is a killer.
 
MoneyPowerRespect;d-562178 said:
Here's the deal.

I just had a baby and his dad and I are cool. He 'loves' me and I think that he's a 'nice guy', but between his health and a lack of sex, I think that we should have an open relationship.

But.....there's more.

The middle son's dad and I have been playing with the idea of being polygynous. (Polygyny is a man having up to 4 wives).

He wants to work full-time while me and the other woman have part-time jobs/go to school. He is her kid's dad, as well. I genuinely care about her, too. Like, I'll go to war over her.

The catch is that he wants us to move to Detroit. And idk if I can do that.

I'm torn by what is good for me vs what's good for the kids.

What yall think?

Who’s needs are higher on the list of hierarchy?
 
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jetlifebih;c-10060179 said:
MoneyPowerRespect;d-562178 said:
Here's the deal.

I just had a baby and his dad and I are cool. He 'loves' me and I think that he's a 'nice guy', but between his health and a lack of sex, I think that we should have an open relationship.

But.....there's more.

The middle son's dad and I have been playing with the idea of being polygynous. (Polygyny is a man having up to 4 wives).

He wants to work full-time while me and the other woman have part-time jobs/go to school. He is her kid's dad, as well. I genuinely care about her, too. Like, I'll go to war over her.

The catch is that he wants us to move to Detroit. And idk if I can do that.

I'm torn by what is good for me vs what's good for the kids.

What yall think?

Who’s needs are higher on the list of hierarchy?

The kids.

The only difference that I can spot is the relationship dynamic between the adults.
 
Would rather staple my nutsack to the side of my thigh with a nail gun.

MoneyPowerRespect;d-562178 said:
Here's the deal.

I just had a baby and his dad and I are cool. He 'loves' me and I think that he's a 'nice guy', but between his health and a lack of sex, I think that we should have an open relationship.

But.....there's more.

The middle son's dad and I have been playing with the idea of being polygynous. (Polygyny is a man having up to 4 wives).

He wants to work full-time while me and the other woman have part-time jobs/go to school. He is her kid's dad, as well. I genuinely care about her, too. Like, I'll go to war over her.

The catch is that he wants us to move to Detroit. And idk if I can do that.

I'm torn by what is good for me vs what's good for the kids.

What yall think?
 
MoneyPowerRespect;c-10060177 said:
2stepz_ahead;c-10060164 said:
why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

There's no feeling like a head between your legs.

We don't live together and when I am there, I feel like I'm taking care of 3 kids.
2stepz_ahead;c-10060169 said:
as long as he can take care of the two of you.....an shares time

and when you want some dikk you get your dildo...or you an shorty hit it up....

yall pool your money for the bigger plan and create wealth, share the duties of raising kids and movie night.

i think everything will be cool.

Yeah. I know that some houses up there are reasonably priced but may need some work. That's cool.

She and I aren't going to have sex. I'm not gay.

I truly think that it'll work. I just don't wanna take my baby away from his dad. That distance is a killer.

Leave YA'll baby (not only your child) with his father and take your ass to Detroit. Now if the father doesn't want full custody of yall child then you have something to talk about.

If he cool with full custody of yall child I don't see what's stopping you from moving.
 
Broddie;c-10060173 said:
2stepz_ahead;c-10060164 said:
why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.

I actually want him to get another woman, but he doesn't think that she'll go for it.

Besides, who gets jealous over a nigga who plays the game all the time???
 
D. Morgan;c-10060191 said:
MoneyPowerRespect;c-10060177 said:
2stepz_ahead;c-10060164 said:
why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

There's no feeling like a head between your legs.

We don't live together and when I am there, I feel like I'm taking care of 3 kids.
2stepz_ahead;c-10060169 said:
as long as he can take care of the two of you.....an shares time

and when you want some dikk you get your dildo...or you an shorty hit it up....

yall pool your money for the bigger plan and create wealth, share the duties of raising kids and movie night.

i think everything will be cool.

Yeah. I know that some houses up there are reasonably priced but may need some work. That's cool.

She and I aren't going to have sex. I'm not gay.

I truly think that it'll work. I just don't wanna take my baby away from his dad. That distance is a killer.

Leave YA'll baby (not only your child) with his father and take your ass to Detroit. Now if the father doesn't want full custody of yall child then you have something to talk about.

If he cool with full custody of yall child I don't see what's stopping you from moving.

I'm scared that he won't have the help.

This man has lost jobs because of his health and I don't wanna seem like I'm putting a kid on him just so I can do me.
 
i ro ny;c-10060201 said:
The middle son's dad must be fuckin the shit outta yall.

Nah..we've been involved with each other for almost 15 years. I got pregnant during year 10. We haven't had sex in over 2 years. I just know that he can deal with me and the kids (4 boys and a girl).
 
So, the relationship you have with your current dude is pretty much dead, as it seems you’ve moved on mentally, just not physically yet. You haven’t made your move yet because you feel sorry for him.

I don’t know about the poly thing. Just seems like a bad idea to just up and move to Detroit. It don’t even seem like he in a position to handle 4 wives, and plus he’s going to have to take care of y’alls babies too. Just seems like a bad move. There’s going to be some struggle, and it’s cold up there in the D
 

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