PLAYERZ ONLY: When Exchanging Numbers With a Chick...

[mryounggun]

Y'all niggas man...stop the madness...if your dumb ass starts only giving out your number you are going to get negative pussycat....get the number...wait two days or even one...text or call...but always have in mind what you want to do....

If she is a certified jump:

"Hey this is so and so from (where y'all met) how you doing (use her name)?"

She'll reply

You reply

"Lets meet up (time date place" something lite some you can ultimately get her back to the crib.

If she isn't a jump give a time place date of a restaurant...I used to use the Thai door spif sbe askesot in ATL near Atlantic station...strip...and fish market...women get impressed by that type shit...it seems classy. Like some v-day shit...have some conversation skills about yourself...be honest...if she asks you why you called her from the club when y'all didn't talk much say "I thought you were pretty, sexy or bad...whatever you niggas say....don't weasel your way into some corny shit...tell her you wanted to see what she was about or get to know her...whatever...make her feel like I'd sex happens its random never make a non hump off feel like a jump off

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If she starts asking immediately about relationships tell her to pump her breaks unless you're ready to take it there.

I wouldn't date any woman who was impressed by anything in Atlantic Station. Lol.

 

[A1000MILES]

The bowling alley in Atlantic Station nice as fuck...So are the apartments around there...

 

[mryounggun]

I was kidding. Lol. There is some nice shit in AS. Some dope ass hotels too. Shit ain't like extravagant though, by any means.

 

[mryounggun]

Nigga this thread stupid as fuck.

For a dude who supposedly has a success rate of 60 percent, u sure sound like a nigga who aint fairing well wit the ladies.

You sound like u looking for a wife lol

First off, stop tryin to be suave wit all that heres my business card, call me if u intrested game. In theory, it should work if she IS digging you but the practicality of it actually working is slim.

Women jus arent prioritizing men like that, especially if she is attractive. Women arent good at making that initial contact for whatever reason. She may have been intrested but she will quickly forget once the next nigga shows more aggression. If u diggin her, exchange numbers. Simply make small talk and say ull text her now jus so she has urs. Unless her phone is off, she should oblige and u go on ya way.( repeating this cycle of game to another chick) Simple, yet affective.

If u really diggin her, shoot her alil get home safe text and let the rest marinate. If she wake up remembering the gentlemen that u were, than chances increase to you gettin that action.

The only time ive done the whole, heres my number and walk off shit was when i wasnt caring if she called or not and she wasnt all that.

It sets a precedent..fuck I look like starting our interaction pursuing HIM?

Nah...I just can't do it. I need that dominant personality from a man.

Yeah, see this shit right here is crazy. I know that different personality types do shit differently. But my INTJ really shows with this type of shit. I got no patience for those sorts of little games. 'I can't call cuz then I'll be setting the precedent of chasing HIM and he'll think blah blah blah.'.

Shit is stupid to me. A man gives you his number and you're interested...call him. Shit seems so simple to me. So in that instance, you would just NOT call for that specific reason?

Enlighten me, Kat.

 

[Kat]

If a man I was interested in was interested in me and attempted to give me his number, I'd automatically give him mine and expect that he take charge.

It's just my personal preference.

And yes maybe it is a game, but love and keeping a man/woman is all about games whether you'd like to admit it or not.

 

[mryounggun]

If a man I was interested in was interested in me and attempted to give me his number, I'd automatically give him mine and expect that he take charge.

It's just my personal preference.

And yes maybe it is a game, but love and keeping a man/woman is all about games whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Right. But suppose you couldn't give yours for whatever reason. Just play along. Dude gave you his number and he doesn't have yours. You gonna call his ass or not?

And why do people just accept that they'll have to play games for the rest of their life? I refuse to that shit forever. As an adult, I should be able to go through life with a woman without trying to maneuver myself into power positions and shit all the time. Fuck all the games and shit. That's just me though.

 

[King Erauno]

its all a numbers game. you not gonna hook up with 100% of the chicks u get #'s from. cause women have diff issues: got a man, just not interested, just didnt want to tell you no, just broke up, etc. usually 4 out of 10 numbers will actually materialize into something

also u get their numbers..dont exchange and dont fall for the gimme your number instead trick. bitch wont call u. respond with either...smh quit playing and give it to me or...ok well nice to meet you...and keep it moving

 

[nex gin]

@Kat

Grown men don't have time or patience for such games.

A grown woman playing games like that is an automatic red flag.

 

[Tommy_Milfhitta]

@Kat

I can understand u sayin u want a man to be more aggressive. I have always been the type to get numbers and doing the follow up. Only reason I want to start giving my number out instead is to pretty much filter out the ones that will just string me along only to reach a cul-de-sac. Atleast when she hits me up I should kno that I'm in the green coz no bitch is gonna put herself out there to get in touch with u if she aint feeling u. No mixed signals, no confusion, no bullshittin around.

 

[Kat]

If a man I was interested in was interested in me and attempted to give me his number, I'd automatically give him mine and expect that he take charge.

It's just my personal preference.

And yes maybe it is a game, but love and keeping a man/woman is all about games whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Right. But suppose you couldn't give yours for whatever reason. Just play along. Dude gave you his number and he doesn't have yours. You gonna call his ass or not?

And why do people just accept that they'll have to play games for the rest of their life? I refuse to that shit forever. As an adult, I should be able to go through life with a woman without trying to maneuver myself into power positions and shit all the time. Fuck all the games and shit. That's just me though.

lol..oh you just going to force me to agree with you huh?

IF that were the case, I'd reach out initially, but I'd be quick to put the ball in his court and see what he does with it.

Love is a game. Humans and our egos are fragile, so we strategize and make moves to get what we want without upsetting the other player or losing the game altogether.

The reality is not as bad as I'm making it sound, but it's still the reality when you break it down.

 

[mryounggun]

If a man I was interested in was interested in me and attempted to give me his number, I'd automatically give him mine and expect that he take charge.

It's just my personal preference.

And yes maybe it is a game, but love and keeping a man/woman is all about games whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Right. But suppose you couldn't give yours for whatever reason. Just play along. Dude gave you his number and he doesn't have yours. You gonna call his ass or not?

And why do people just accept that they'll have to play games for the rest of their life? I refuse to that shit forever. As an adult, I should be able to go through life with a woman without trying to maneuver myself into power positions and shit all the time. Fuck all the games and shit. That's just me though.

lol..oh you just going to force me to agree with you huh?

IF that were the case, I'd reach out initially, but I'd be quick to put the ball in his court and see what he does with it.

Love is a game. Humans and our egos are fragile, so we strategize and make moves to get what we want without upsetting the other player or losing the game altogether.

The reality is not as bad as I'm making it sound, but it's still the reality when you break it down.

Lol. Na, I ain't trying to force you to agree. I was just trying to get you to stop avoiding answering the question. Good shit.

And fuck all that 'Love is a game' shit. That's only true if you allow it to happen. I refuse to play that game. I'm interested in a woman and she plays those type of games, there are 2 choices:

1. She sees that I ain't into it and don't play those games so she recognizes that she doesn't need to either and she can just be an adult and not jockey for position all the damn time like a fuckin' horse race

2. We can not deal with each other anymore.

Shit is a pet peeve of mine, in case y'all couldn't tell. Lol.

 

[mryounggun]

@Kat

I can understand u sayin u want a man to be more aggressive. I have always been the type to get numbers and doing the follow up. Only reason I want to start giving my number out instead is to pretty much filter out the ones that will just string me along only to reach a cul-de-sac. Atleast when she hits me up I should kno that I'm in the green coz no bitch is gonna put herself out there to get in touch with u if she aint feeling u. No mixed signals, no confusion, no bullshittin around.

There it is right there. Shit is simple as shit. Don't wanna fuck with a nigga...don't call. I honestly feel like I'm doing women a favor when I give my number out instead of trying to get theirs. I'm giving them a simple out. No need to have me calling and you not answering or you trying to drop hints that you ain't into a nigga. If you ain't feelin' me, tear my number up and drop that bitch in the trash. No harm, no foul.

 

[rico_ENS]

these niggas on some neo shit sleep talkin bout if she call me im the one fuck outta here b im gettin her number n callin the bitch on my time

aint no better feelin than dominating a female that was hard to get at or u had to put in game/work for ya must be fuckin wit low self esteem or ugly broads if she chasing u n putting the puss so easy....

from the open post i can tell t/s gets no cuddy

 

[evoljeanyes]

This is atlanta be straight up...Atlantic station is impressive to black women here at least it was when. Was dating heave from 04-2011

 

[CapitalB]

kat is stupid..

jus ignore that bitch..

 

[mryounggun]

these niggas on some neo shit sleep talkin bout if she call me im the one fuck outta here b im gettin her number n callin the bitch on my time

aint no better feelin than dominating a female that was hard to get at or u had to put in game/work for ya must be fuckin wit low self esteem or ugly broads if she chasing u n putting the puss so easy....

from the open post i can tell t/s gets no cuddy

Here's the thing son, and this is no diss...

Did you ever consider that just maybe there are attractive women on planet Earth who don't play the 'hard to get' game?

Shorty at the crib like, 'I see the phone ringing, but I'ma wait another 36 hours and then pick up the phone when he call. Keep him guessing!'

Shit don't sound ridiculous to you? Again, I know some people are cool with shit like that. I just see no reason to play that game.

 

[evoljeanyes]

I am saying put the ball in your court women are have expectations...if you aren't really the pussy vetting type that needs it all the time you wouldn't be on here talking about it...so, take the number and have something to say. I find myself in settings with women...I used to do this thing where I would tell them I wanted to work with them...meet them for lunch and only talk business...it worked out to where they would end up calling to just say what's up first then I could turn the conversation. You just really need to be confident, g. Have your talk game proper...not to say that giving numbers doesn't work for @mryounggun but he didn't make a thread on the internet for suggestions so I am suggesting another route for you.

 

[mryounggun]

This is atlanta be straight up...Atlantic station is impressive to black women here at least it was when. Was dating heave from 04-2011

I was kidding, fam. Relax. But real shit, AS was impressive when it first opened and was the new shit. Now, AS is like normal shit. I mean it's still nice, but no longer NICE.

 

[mryounggun]

I am saying put the ball in your court women are have expectations...if you aren't really the pussy vetting type that needs it all the time you wouldn't be on here talking about it...so, take the number and have something to say. I find myself in settings with women...I used to do this thing where I would tell them I wanted to work with them...meet them for lunch and only talk business...it worked out to where they would end up calling to just say what's up first then I could turn the conversation. You just really need to be confident, g. Have your talk game proper...not to say that giving numbers doesn't work for @mryounggun but he didn't make a thread on the internet for suggestions so I am suggesting another route for you.

Yeah, I'm realizing we never gon' see eye to eye on this shit based on the bolded. Salute, fam. *daps*

 

[xxCivicxx]

This is atlanta be straight up...Atlantic station is impressive to black women here at least it was when. Was dating heave from 04-2011

It still is, its my go to spot I live right down the street