OPEN RELATIONSHIP/OPEN MARRIAGE(For Men Only) - Could It Work?

[CP203]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

It's only cheating if you don't know about it.

Not true

People cheat and their s/o are aware.

It all about what you can and cannot live with

Me personally .... Not ok with my man fucking another chick ....ever

That's not cheating. That's being plain disrespectful. When you cheat you hide it because you care about something with the person you're cheating on. Their feelings, your relationship, something. That why you hide it. When you you just being disrespectful you have nothing to lose or don't care what you stand to lose.

You think it's fair for a man to have to fuck one woman for the rest of his life? Women can buy toys to get off in different ways, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs, all sorts of kinky shit, and a man has to slide into the same pussy that he fucked 3 yrs ago and will be fucking the next 3 years. Shits depressing when you think about it. Women are so selfish that they won't allow their man to be happy outside of them.

bingo that's all It comes down to the ole you should be satisfied with just me non sense

 

[2stepz_ahead]

problem is too many people want to ether someone

 

[MsSouthern]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

It's only cheating if you don't know about it.

Not true

People cheat and their s/o are aware.

It all about what you can and cannot live with

Me personally .... Not ok with my man fucking another chick ....ever

That's not cheating. That's being plain disrespectful. When you cheat you hide it because you care about something with the person you're cheating on. Their feelings, your relationship, something. That why you hide it. When you you just being disrespectful you have nothing to lose or don't care what you stand to lose.

You think it's fair for a man to have to fuck one woman for the rest of his life? Women can buy toys to get off in different ways, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs, all sorts of kinky shit, and a man has to slide into the same pussy that he fucked 3 yrs ago and will be fucking the next 3 years. Shits depressing when you think about it. Women are so selfish that they won't allow their man to be happy outside of them.

I think it's fair for MY man to only be with ME for the rest of his life

That's why we are in a relationship.

If we were just fucking then that's different.... I just wouldnt want to know about any other chick

 

[YC11]

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Both.

It's a one way hall pass.

She's allowing ME to do this only. Not her.

Sounds like a trap SMMFH

We shall see.

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Basically... I told her that there's no WAY I could completely commit UNLESS I found a girl that was a virgin to commit to. Also that, it didn't make sense for me to commit to her in a way that I know I could when she's been in previous relationships, few it may be.

.

Could you explain your justification for this?

It's because I fell for one.

I know the type of unspoiled love that was set aside JUST for me and me only. Her parents opposed strongly and came after me... it was a race/cultural issue.

Now I lost the capacity to love. Hence, I have nothing to lose.

Plus I've got options and I am in a good situation. Keep it at that. She knows this. I don't mean to brag.

She simply knows I fell for a girl before and that I don't need one now. I can happily live my life from relationship to relationship unless I find somebody like that again.

THAT is where I win, and she can't. Because I already lost something.

And also, women like tortured miserable soul who's not impressed by most pussy... I fit the bill for her. Women I tell ya.

 

[CP203]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

It's only cheating if you don't know about it.

Not true

People cheat and their s/o are aware.

It all about what you can and cannot live with

Me personally .... Not ok with my man fucking another chick ....ever

That's not cheating. That's being plain disrespectful. When you cheat you hide it because you care about something with the person you're cheating on. Their feelings, your relationship, something. That why you hide it. When you you just being disrespectful you have nothing to lose or don't care what you stand to lose.

You think it's fair for a man to have to fuck one woman for the rest of his life? Women can buy toys to get off in different ways, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs, all sorts of kinky shit, and a man has to slide into the same pussy that he fucked 3 yrs ago and will be fucking the next 3 years. Shits depressing when you think about it. Women are so selfish that they won't allow their man to be happy outside of them.

I think it's fair for MY man to only be with ME for the rest of his life

That's why we are in a relationship.

If we were just fucking then that's different.... I just wouldnt want to know about any other chick

See a person is not a possession, that's the problem with a lot of relationships people see their partner as a possession

 

[not_osirus_jenkins]

And to answer the thread no it can't work UNLESS niggas are OK with their lady getting fucked by another nigga on some cuckold shit SMMFH LOLOLOLOLOL. But that's the problem at hand tho. Longer term it don't work, niggas have a lot of pride fam.

Nigga how you know? We young enough to have fun but know that there is a time when we gonna have to be like you normal boring fuckers. Yall niggas miserable as fuck. Dreaming about another nigga girl getting fucked by another nigga. Yall niggas are fucking disgusting herbs, and wouldn't get bitches without money.

 

[jono]

No. Humans are territorial and selfish by nature, this concept that people are okay sharing sex partners is based on something that occurs in the animal kingdom not any tests on actual human beings.

Some women would be cool with you dipping in the other pools but its inevitable that its coming back around. Its the life until you gotta deal with it. I guarantee all these niggas who spend time with other bitches they girl gotta nigga in the cut waiting for him to leave.

Niggas gonna be sick about that. They always are. When you not sure the kids are yours, when that pussy a little looser than usual, she always tired and theres fresh chicken grease on the stove but you aint get no chicken, feelings gonna be crushed. Watch.

 

[CP203]

And to answer the thread no it can't work UNLESS niggas are OK with their lady getting fucked by another nigga on some cuckold shit SMMFH LOLOLOLOLOL. But that's the problem at hand tho. Longer term it don't work, niggas have a lot of pride fam.

I don't think you know what cuckolding is

 

[not_osirus_jenkins]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

It's only cheating if you don't know about it.

Not true

People cheat and their s/o are aware.

It all about what you can and cannot live with

Me personally .... Not ok with my man fucking another chick ....ever

That's not cheating. That's being plain disrespectful. When you cheat you hide it because you care about something with the person you're cheating on. Their feelings, your relationship, something. That why you hide it. When you you just being disrespectful you have nothing to lose or don't care what you stand to lose.

You think it's fair for a man to have to fuck one woman for the rest of his life? Women can buy toys to get off in different ways, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs, all sorts of kinky shit, and a man has to slide into the same pussy that he fucked 3 yrs ago and will be fucking the next 3 years. Shits depressing when you think about it. Women are so selfish that they won't allow their man to be happy outside of them.

I think it's fair for MY man to only be with ME for the rest of his life

That's why we are in a relationship.

If we were just fucking then that's different.... I just wouldnt want to know about any other chick

But you didnt answer the question. Do you think it's fair for you to have all kinds of toys to pleasure yourself and get sexually gratification outside of fucking your husband?

 

[nawledge_god]

They Work.

 

[manofmorehouse]

I think if u can check your ego and u can get to a point where u believe sex isn't the determining factor in a relationship, u can do it. I've been in a modified open relationship where I could fuck other girls and my girl fucked girls but she couldn't fuck any niggas. Shit is refreshing to have things out on the table like that. We loved each other but still wanted to explore other people. I don't know how I would have reacted if she wanted to fuck other guys. I guess my question is, how big a role does sex play in loving someone. If u still got the pussy and was able to smash other bitches, could u deal with another nigga beating yo wife's cheeks up. I'd say most niggas ain't built for the reciprocal part of that life

 

[AZTG]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

It's only cheating if you don't know about it.

Not true

People cheat and their s/o are aware.

It all about what you can and cannot live with

Me personally .... Not ok with my man fucking another chick ....ever

That's not cheating. That's being plain disrespectful. When you cheat you hide it because you care about something with the person you're cheating on. Their feelings, your relationship, something. That why you hide it. When you you just being disrespectful you have nothing to lose or don't care what you stand to lose.

You think it's fair for a man to have to fuck one woman for the rest of his life? Women can buy toys to get off in different ways, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs, all sorts of kinky shit, and a man has to slide into the same pussy that he fucked 3 yrs ago and will be fucking the next 3 years. Shits depressing when you think about it. Women are so selfish that they won't allow their man to be happy outside of them.

Damn bruh im bout to call my bitch and end it after reading this

 

[MsSouthern]

@CP203

He is not my possession .... He is free to leave this relationship at any time. If he wants to fuck other women ... Then it's over between us .

@not_osirus_jenkins

There are toys out there for men. And Men get off using toys on women too. It's not the same thing

 

[YC11]

I think if u can check your ego and u can get to a point where u believe sex isn't the determining factor in a relationship, u can do it. I've been in a modified open relationship where I could fuck other girls and my girl fucked girls but she couldn't fuck any niggas. Shit is refreshing to have things out on the table like that. We loved each other but still wanted to explore other people. I don't know how I would have reacted if she wanted to fuck other guys. I guess my question is, how big a role does sex play in loving someone. If u still got the pussy and was able to smash other bitches, could u deal with another nigga beating yo wife's cheeks up. I'd say most niggas ain't built for the reciprocal part of that life

Guys CAN get away with this on ONE WAY shit... IF, and ONLY IF that dude got options.

I don't want to brag but I got options... and future.

If she fucks other dudes, that means I let it be known she's gonna become used up and won't be able to find another one like me.(we already had this talk...)

From MY side... I'm doing her a favor by staying with her... BUT only on that agreement. If she wants me all her life.

I can win in this ONLY because I don't love her. I WILL become jealous and angry if she goes and fucks another guy, but I can drop her like nothing if that happened.

Truthfully speaking, this is doable for me because I believe and I know I can find someone better than her... I don't think she can do the same without me.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

It's only cheating if you don't know about it.

Not true

People cheat and their s/o are aware.

It all about what you can and cannot live with

Me personally .... Not ok with my man fucking another chick ....ever

That's not cheating. That's being plain disrespectful. When you cheat you hide it because you care about something with the person you're cheating on. Their feelings, your relationship, something. That why you hide it. When you you just being disrespectful you have nothing to lose or don't care what you stand to lose.

You think it's fair for a man to have to fuck one woman for the rest of his life? Women can buy toys to get off in different ways, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs, all sorts of kinky shit, and a man has to slide into the same pussy that he fucked 3 yrs ago and will be fucking the next 3 years. Shits depressing when you think about it. Women are so selfish that they won't allow their man to be happy outside of them.

very true

niggas aint got toy options. even watching porn we gotta do 85% of the work

but

heres a test for this

next time you on a guys trip or any trip without her....call and tell her how much fun you having...laughing and shit talkin bout these niggas wild....but let me call you back.

watch how the next conversation goes...

 

[YC11]

@CP203

He is not my possession .... He is free to leave this relationship at any time. If he wants to fuck other women ... Then it's over between us .

For you it's unthinkable, BECAUSE you are ready to let him go if he does this. So a man wouldn't be able to do this to you.

Some girls will allow this if it means keeping the man of her dreams and she is convinced she won't be able to find another one like him again...(perfect men with nothing to complain about)

 

[2stepz_ahead]

chicks with toys be like

why cant you twirl inside em, rotate the base in the opposite direction, play with the ass and tickle their clit at the same time.

 

[AfrikQueen]

You are not ready for a relationship let alone a marriage. Psychologist Dr. Naim Akbar describes manhood in three phases: maleness, boy-hood, and manhood. Maleness means you have a penis. Boy-hood is when you believe that everybody, especially women are designed to serve you (the male hoe phase). Manhood is when you establish legacy, marriage; nation building. You are still in the boy-hood phase. How old are you? Because if you are in your 30s you need to re-evaluate your life.

No woman is gonna stay with a man while he is being a hoe, without getting her some side dick as well. Are you ok with her seeing other people? It's only fair. It appears your girl said ok as a means to not actually loose you. Even though I don't know you all personally, I have seen such in my practice many times; such relationships never last long. It seems like you just need to go out and experience new things, so you can get over your hoe phase.

How's your sex life with your girlfriend?

Because if you are just boyfriend and girlfriend and thinking about other people already... thats a sign of trouble... as most people sex lives decline after marriage.

 

[Ubuntu1]

basically giving permission to cheat ...

I'll pass

By definition 'cheating' involves breaking mutually agreed upon rules.

 

[not_osirus_jenkins]

@CP203

He is not my possession .... He is free to leave this relationship at any time. If he wants to fuck other women ... Then it's over between us .

@not_osirus_jenkins

There are toys out there for men. And Men get off using toys on women too. It's not the same thing

Lmao the idea of holding a dildo and ramming a woman with it is not my idea of a turn on. To me she'd rather have that rubber in her than the real thing, which makes you the dictionary definition of a tool. Nah. Not like womens toys. You could basically say a bitch is getting new dick if she got a dildo that isn't shaped exactly like her mans penis. What reason does she have to cheat if she could give herself different dick everyday for a month straight? Its rare a woman cheats for physical purposes. It's rare a man cheats for anything other than physical purposes. I do like to watch women playing together with toys. It's beautiful.