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BrazilianHairMoney
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smh Men going gay and saying its because women aint shit, nope they just giving up the butthole, and like to wiggle their ass like bitches. Women are in the same shape as the men.
StoneColdMikey
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It just seems like you can't even speak your mind or speak the truth without people talking bad about you. You can't be a leader anymore
zombie;6495859 said:men are losing our gender identity. I mean what does it mean to be a man? too many men don't know.
men used to get validation of our manhood through what we possessed or did that women could not do or have. Alot of that came with special responsibilities. today alot of that is lost and so are the men
This misguided mindset has ruined many lives...
I dont really follow you Lol You're wording is confusing...
but I do know that there's a lot of dudes who are so nonchalant that they dont make a stand for shyt. Apathy is killin our society. Everybody afraid to 'catch feelings'. And as the saying goes: 'Stand for somethin or you'll fall for anything."
I.e nggas who know better but side w/ gay rights... I.e. The word nigga. Anytime another black man tells me 'we need to stop sayin ngga' I look around like, wow, i truly am the last of a dyin breed.
but I do know that there's a lot of dudes who are so nonchalant that they dont make a stand for shyt. Apathy is killin our society. Everybody afraid to 'catch feelings'. And as the saying goes: 'Stand for somethin or you'll fall for anything."
I.e nggas who know better but side w/ gay rights... I.e. The word nigga. Anytime another black man tells me 'we need to stop sayin ngga' I look around like, wow, i truly am the last of a dyin breed.
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blackrain;6496375 said:zombie;6495859 said:men are losing our gender identity. I mean what does it mean to be a man? too many men don't know.
men used to get validation of our manhood through what we possessed or did that women could not do or have. Alot of that came with special responsibilities. today alot of that is lost and so are the men
This misguided mindset has ruined many lives...
exactly that's why men today have to find validation of our manhood through other things besides our possessions.
in the past females were one of those possessions
BrazilianHairMoney
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its all really simple and easy, but the human race have made it complicated. Love Respect, Self Dignity and Pride, is really things human nature create on it's own. However people over think and intellectually try to define MAN and WOMAN, so then down the road the youth looses the simplest technique of just knowing how to be a MAN or a WOMAN..
A real MAN open doors, and provide for his family
A real Woman can clean and cook.
All these type of taboo's disguised what a real man and woman is.... REAL.
Men felt like their obligation got over complicated thru society expectations. At the end of the day, we are not here to please society or friends, we are here to please ourselves. & if you want someone in your life you have to pick them for yourselves and not by others statues and images of who you should have. This is why most people never experienced LOVE because they don't how to choose according to their feelings, they choose according to SOCIETY expectation, and end up miserable.. I thought I had the perfect Husband or WIFE BUT.... then they find out they went by society guidelines of perfect Husband or wife, and not their own. .. A perfect person for you is one who make you feel perfect. Fuck other peoples thoughts.
A real MAN open doors, and provide for his family
A real Woman can clean and cook.
All these type of taboo's disguised what a real man and woman is.... REAL.
Men felt like their obligation got over complicated thru society expectations. At the end of the day, we are not here to please society or friends, we are here to please ourselves. & if you want someone in your life you have to pick them for yourselves and not by others statues and images of who you should have. This is why most people never experienced LOVE because they don't how to choose according to their feelings, they choose according to SOCIETY expectation, and end up miserable.. I thought I had the perfect Husband or WIFE BUT.... then they find out they went by society guidelines of perfect Husband or wife, and not their own. .. A perfect person for you is one who make you feel perfect. Fuck other peoples thoughts.
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The Lonious Monk
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zombie;6496153 said:it's not that society is becoming anti male but the importance placed on the role of being a man is fading away. so young men are lost with no desire to grow up.
Now this I agree with especially in regards to the black community. These dudes are growing up without fathers in the households and with mothers constantly boasting about how they don't need a man for anything. It's easy to understand why they might not see any value in trying to grow up and become a good man.
BrazilianHairMoney
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its not only because they grow up without fathers, it's because society expectation makes some men inferior. To be a good man you have to be perfect".. so since society gave men and women unreal expectations of what being good and REAL, some people cop out and don't be shit, because they think they got to overdo it to be considered, GOOD and REAL. Then look at the people society idolize some of them are false perception and people start to define good as FAKE. You see the typical suppose to be good person acting phony 24/7, some get the perception, I'mma keep it real and be a GREESE BALL 24/7
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desertrain10
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zombie;6495859 said:men are losing our gender identity. I mean what does it mean to be a man? too many men don't
know.
men used to get validation of our manhood through what we possessed or did that women could not do or have. Alot of that came with special responsibilities. today alot of that is lost and so are the men
yep
Slowly but surely the economy is making traditional gender roles obsolete
More and more women are now the breadwinners...and people are subsequently confused
The Lonious Monk
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BrazilianHairMoney;6496466 said:its not only because they grow up without fathers, it's because society expectation makes some men inferior. To be a good man you have to be perfect".. so since society gave men and women unreal expectations of what being good and REAL, some people cop out and don't be shit, because they think they got to overdo it to be considered, GOOD and REAL. Then look at the people society idolize some of them are false perception and people start to define good as FAKE. You see the typical suppose to be good person acting phony 24/7, some get the perception, I'mma keep it real and be a GREESE BALL 24/7
I don't if I agree with that. I have never known a perfect man, but I've known lots of good men. It's not about perfection. It's about having a good representation of what a man is, and nowadays people are so influenced by bullshit they see in media (social and traditional) that they don't really have a good idea of what a real man is. That would not be a problem if people had strong male presences in their lives, but a lot of people don't.
BrazilianHairMoney
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The Lonious Monk;6496524 said:BrazilianHairMoney;6496466 said:its not only because they grow up without fathers, it's because society expectation makes some men inferior. To be a good man you have to be perfect".. so since society gave men and women unreal expectations of what being good and REAL, some people cop out and don't be shit, because they think they got to overdo it to be considered, GOOD and REAL. Then look at the people society idolize some of them are false perception and people start to define good as FAKE. You see the typical suppose to be good person acting phony 24/7, some get the perception, I'mma keep it real and be a GREESE BALL 24/7
I don't if I agree with that. I have never known a perfect man, but I've known lots of good men. It's not about perfection. It's about having a good representation of what a man is, and nowadays people are so influenced by bullshit they see in media (social and traditional) that they don't really have a good idea of what a real man is. That would not be a problem if people had strong male presences in their lives, but a lot of people don't.
thats what I was saying, that society define good men as perfect, so alot of men get intimidated by the role society has given man, and drop out the race, because they feel they can't meet the expectation of perfection.
Ajackson17
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I'm glad for all this overhaul of gender roles being changed and switched up.
EmperorRises;6496540 said:I'm glad for all this overhaul of gender roles being changed and switched up.
change is not always for the good and having childish young men and masculine women might not be the best move.
Nah, society is becoming more ridiculous, is what's happening.
Many men simply don't want to do things that are illogical / rooted purely in principle or tradition, and not in practicality or satisfaction.
Going to school are two prime examples of institutions that aren't as beneficial or as promising as they used to be. Men are adapting, which is smart, tbh. If it's not going to benefit us, almost definitely, then why do it?
Many men simply don't want to do things that are illogical / rooted purely in principle or tradition, and not in practicality or satisfaction.
Going to school are two prime examples of institutions that aren't as beneficial or as promising as they used to be. Men are adapting, which is smart, tbh. If it's not going to benefit us, almost definitely, then why do it?
powerman 5000
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Nah, men are still around and always will be. It's just that there's certain shit that has happened that got smart men to start thinking outside the box. Every time I hear a dude renounce marriage, I smile a little on the inside. The part that they don't tell you is that it's not what it once was. So why go into it with out dated beliefs and expectations. Here in 2013 you can have the puss and the disposable income in your own space and achieve elevated levels of happiness. Some with chicks. Nothing wrong with a dude going put in his 8 hours at work, grab a burger, smash a chick, get her out the door and be on the ps4 by 10:30. As apposed to what? Getting married? Nah, leave that to the gays.
Ajackson17
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zombie;6496580 said:EmperorRises;6496540 said:I'm glad for all this overhaul of gender roles being changed and switched up.
change is not always for the good and having childish young men and masculine women might not be the best move.
I agree with the childish women and women being aggressive. I think we need all need to be more responsible and support one another and be a jack of trades. Just my opinion.
BrazilianHairMoney
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yeah thats another thing, men have redefined gay upon themselves. Nowadays its gay for a man to fall inlove, but straight for him to believe its all about his niggas.. I never grasp that concept.. so thats straight having more love for other men than woman?
so now a man with emotions is considered gay, so alot of men are try to act emotionless and non-caring about women. When men become like this women become the same way. So everyones hiding or lying about their feelings, and wasting time proving to their friends.. in reality women and men always had/have things in common. it's real crazy to believe that women and men are so different. The only thing that is different is our sex genders, but we are built to complete the opposite sex desires.. so I don't understand the war.
so now a man with emotions is considered gay, so alot of men are try to act emotionless and non-caring about women. When men become like this women become the same way. So everyones hiding or lying about their feelings, and wasting time proving to their friends.. in reality women and men always had/have things in common. it's real crazy to believe that women and men are so different. The only thing that is different is our sex genders, but we are built to complete the opposite sex desires.. so I don't understand the war.
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7figz;6495832 said:pralims;6495727 said:7figz;6495618 said:Not planning to get married. Impacts my career choices because I have more freedom. Got friends that feel like they gotta stay at the same job because they have a family and can't really don't want to uproot shit.
I could give or take family.
your homies should take a gamble at some point....otherwise they gonna snap when they older an have that mid life crisis shit
I try to tell em but they on some "job security" shit. I see it differently but I'm not married w/ kids.
Sad way to live, but they can't really afford to take any major risks if they've got a wife and kids.
