Married...Open Relationship with Major Kinks

[BelovedAfeni]

prepare for the worst case scenarioes...
cause it looks like yall heading downhill....imho.

 

[damnkp]

you fucked up at "I Do"

 

[yeah i rap so don't]

bitch u dumb as hell.

u dont even deserve advice. Just stay married to that nigga cuz obviously you and he know he's the best u can do.

Stop making decisions with ya pussy u dumb ass rat.

This was the only answer needed for this dumb ass bitch

 

[fullfledged]

Most people can't handle an open relationship but in reality its probably for the better.

 

[BeesKneesQ]

So you agreed to an open relationship under one condition which was that he could not see this one chick, and he still sees her? Sounds to me like he got you to agree to an open relationship as an excuse to still see her. You might share that man.....

good luck with that though...

 

[Just2C]

wow shawty you must have no self esteem or self respect

 

[DOPEdweebz]

This is a mess. And having an open marriage s not something you just that shouldn't be a "wasn't my first choice but...." If you're not 100% into it, it will cause major problems, even if history girl wasn't in the picture. Since this situation is not working for you, you gotta let him know. If he loved you enough to marry you, maybe he will let that lifestyle go. If he doesn't want to, well then you two just don't need to be together.

Fuck all that I heart cali in this thread.. I wanna have an open relationship between her legs.. anyways.. ya he won. Must be doing something right..

 

[kingblaze84]

So...he can fuck any girl he wants except one, and he's still fucking that one? Let me ask you, are YOU allowed to have sex with other men in this "open relationship"?

I may be biased but I have little faith in marriage as it is, so an open marriage nowadays isn't far-fetched although IMO it defeats the purpose of marriage. Bottom line, you didn't ask to be respected as a wife should be, and he doesn't have the smallest ounce of respect for you if he won't listen to ONE rule you put in place. You're doing yourself a disservice. Pick up and leave now before the last shred of self esteem you have for yourself is gone.

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[TheNightKing]

I agree with the sentiment "why get married if you're going to sleep with other people?". Just stay single or have a boyfriend/girlfriend open relationship. Marriage has always been about monogamy, at least in the Christian sense (forsaking all others??). If you're getting married for the legal benefits, it's really just a business contract and where's the meaning and love behind that. To me open relationships are selfish, but to each his own. I don't have any ill feelings towards those that decide to go that route.

 

[JJ 1975]

I don't see how an open marriage can work. Just don't get married.

 

[BlackThor356]

leave it to the women of the IC to attack the open marriage, smh

Is it JUST women of the IC "attacking" open marriage? Or society in general? No one "attacked" anything in this thread. The t/s obviously has low self esteem....not b/c she agreed to an open marriage (which I, personally, would never do), but b/c she's wondering what she should do with someone who has repeatedly walked over and disresepcted her in their short 7 months of marriage. Why is what she should do even a question? What would you do if someone trated you like sh*t?

how bout i jus saw this.....it seemed like mssouthern was kinda focusing more on open marriage then what shorty is going through, but its all good

 

[CMac]

Open marriages are just a whack excuse and pathetic attempt to try and make a EPIC fail of a marriage workout. Women need to stop okaying going into a situation like that from the start knowing that shit is extremely hard for women and niggas who even ask their's wives to do a open relationship shouldn't have gotten married in the 1st place.