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ThePayPalPimp.;519949 said:
Lying in a relationship? Is that when a woman know something but not tell her man? Is it man not knowing something to tell his woman?

Is knowing something labeled bad or not knowing something?

My GAWD bruh! I had to reread that a couple of times to understand it. S@@@ reads as if Ceasar from Planet Of The Apes typed this. Lol.

Aa for lyin...ehh. It depends on the situation. Yeah you're not suppose to, and should be truthful. BUT, not everyone can handle the truth...no Jack Nicholson. Sometimes the truth hurts more than the lie. If you wanna avoid unnecessary drama, then sometimes you gotta lie to keep the peace.

 
There is a difference in straight up lies and withholding truths.

Being completely honest can cross over into selfishness. I don't need to know everything, nor does he.

Just my opinion.
 
Kat;7280786 said:
There is a difference in straight up lies and withholding truths.

Being completely honest can cross over into selfishness. I don't need to know everything, nor does he.

Just my opinion.

I agree with Kat on this one. Not everything needs to be known between each other. But if I ask a reasonable question answer me. ,9 out 10 I already know the answer I just want to know if you are going to lie to me or not.

 
So niggas co-signing liars??

What's an example of a reason to lie ? Or who is it ok to lie to?? I'd be tight if I was lied to, i was tight when my pops told me that Santa wasn't real cause my grandma said he was and Thats not that serious
 
Sometimes you should lie, as a man, I gotta protect my lady mentally as well as physically. If I know she just spent $150 on her hair and I don't like it, but it's still ok just not my preference, but she's questioning the quality. I'm not goin to be like, nah babe, that's ass. Or if she ask me how the food taste, that shit might have been a little salty tonight, but usually she get busy, fuck it, she cooked it for a nigga, and she didn't have to. I'm goin to tell her it was straight and eat all of it right in front of her. Sometimes for the woman's sake you can defeat a lot of problems if you preserve her psyche. I'm never going to lie about bigger, more important issues, like outside kids or, did I fuck so and so back in the G or whatever, but smaller, get through the day issues, i'll use discretion. If she need to know that she shouldn't use that seasoning again, i'll tell her, if her hair stylist is a becoming a habitual line stepper, i'll let her know that too. But bumps in the road, i'll help her get past them, we'll live to fight another day.
 
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_Lefty;7282716 said:
Sometimes you should lie, as a man, I gotta protect my lady mentally as well as physically. If I know she just spent $150 on her hair and I don't like it, but it's still ok just not my preference, but she's questioning the quality. I'm not goin to be like, nah babe, that's ass. Or if she ask me how the food taste, that shit might have been a little salty tonight, but usually she get busy, fuck it, she cooked it for a nigga, and she didn't have to. I'm goin to tell her it was straight and eat all of it right in front of her. Sometimes for the woman's sake you can defeat a lot of problems if you preserve her psyche. I'm never going to lie about bigger, more important issues, like outside kids or, did I fuck so and so back in the G or whatever, but smaller, get through the day issues, i'll use discretion. If she need to know that she shouldn't use that seasoning again, i'll tell her, if her hair stylist is a becoming a habitual line stepper, i'll let her know that too. But bumps in the road, i'll help her get past them, we'll live to fight another day.

This man gets it.
 
So basically you scared to say its good babe but a little to much salt?

I don't see the harm in saying that, my issue is when I ask my so something, I don't wanna find out down the road that it was the opposite, that shit dont help me at all it only hurts...

tell me you got pregnant with somebody else baby when you piss on the first response not after I done took family portaits and got attached, tell me my favorite tie is ugly so I know not to wear it around you on an occasion that may be important to you

if I know the answer to the question I won't ask you, but if I don't know the answer to the question whether bad or good I wanna hear the truth,

All that saving face shit is understandable but does more harm than good potentially, especially little lies....remember how upset your parents were when they asked you a question just to see if you gon tell the truth and as soon as you lied they called out out and was upset??? I don't think you want your so to look at you the same way like this nigga will lie over whether or not its raining or sunny
 
CoogiKen;7283168 said:
So basically you scared to say its good babe but a little to much salt?

I don't see the harm in saying that, my issue is when I ask my so something, I don't wanna find out down the road that it was the opposite, that shit dont help me at all it only hurts...

tell me you got pregnant with somebody else baby when you piss on the first response not after I done took family portaits and got attached, tell me my favorite tie is ugly so I know not to wear it around you on an occasion that may be important to you

if I know the answer to the question I won't ask you, but if I don't know the answer to the question whether bad or good I wanna hear the truth,

All that saving face shit is understandable but does more harm than good potentially, especially little lies....remember how upset your parents were when they asked you a question just to see if you gon tell the truth and as soon as you lied they called out out and was upset??? I don't think you want your so to look at you the same way like this nigga will lie over whether or not its raining or sunny

@CoogiKen‌

Na, i'm not afraid of saying anything. I learned early in my relationship keepin it real 100% of the time ain't practical, and trust me when I say this, 100% truths will breed more bad vibes than the little lies to keep shit flowin smooth would. I will always choose my woman's self esteem, and feelings of adequacy over ugly, acute truths like too much salt, or the fact that I didn't really enjoy a certain hairstyle even though it was slick. My girl can cook her ass off, if she fuck up one night, why wouldn't I let her live? I might not be sayin it maliciously, but still... Why would I bring her any negativity unless it's something chronic that needs to be checked? I been doin this with this girl for too long to not know what i'm doin. You have to know where to strike the balance, unhealthy lies shouldn't be told, but you too busy fightin a damn truth battle tryin to keep it real, meanwhile, she messagin a nigga on facebook who give her more positive attention than you.
 

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