Let's talk mothers and child support

[deadeye]

Does making a person do what their supposed to do honestly benefit the child

or only serves to make YOU feel better as you are holding them "accountable"?

Child support.....despite it's intention.....doesn't always benefit the child either.

This is just the price of being a parent.

If you make a kid, you're supposed to provide for them at least until they turn 18.

It's about taking responsibility for your actions.

If one party isn't living up to their end, then.....regardless of the motive.....you can't fault the other person for doing what they have to do to prevent them from shirking their responsibilities.

If either party, mother or father, didn't want that responsibility.....they should have each exercised the necessary precautions needed to avoid becoming a parent.

 

[deadeye]

Why was I @'d?

@atribecalledgabi‌

You're on the list.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Why was I @'d?

@atribecalledgabi‌

You're on the list.

Please remove me

 

[$ineedmoney$]

@Pralims

...Thats whuts up... Get that dough... Phuck what anybody else gots to say about it... Full speed ahead nikka...

 

[LPast]

@Pralims

...Thats whuts up... Get that dough... Phuck what anybody else gots to say about it... Full speed ahead nikka...

I guess this is what women are told on the flip side...

 

[TRILLip Brooks]

I guess

 

[dalyricalbandit]

props to u G and continue to put that in the lil ones account

 

[mryounggun]

So far no guy here has openly admitted to actually needing the financial support and contributions of their respective baby mommas

They just want to have her paid to....uh..."teach her a lesson".

Basically use the child as pawn to enact their personal vengeance on the mother AND the courts that "favor" women over men.

And this behavior is to be applauded and commendable(?)

Fam, what the fuck is this shit? LOL. Real shit, there is an epidemic on the IC of only thinking in extremes. Either you a broke nigga who NEEDS money from his baby moms or you a fuck nigga who is using your kid to bleed her dry.

What about the niggas who CAN take care of their kids on their own, but it would put a financial strain on them or cause them to be living check to check?

What about the niggas who CAN take care of their kids on their own, but feel like a child needs to be financially supported by BOTH parents?

That's silly. Me being financially able to take care of my child should absolve their other parent from their responsibility? Fuck outta here. Obviously you shouldn't be using your kid as a pawn and taking someone's money just for the sake of taking it. But if we have a child together and breakup, then we're BOTH gonna share the financial responsibility of that kid.

Then just say you need the help.

Because if you are taking her to CS court for any reason other than you needing the financial support of raising the child it's NOT about the child,it's about the mother

You'd make a great politician.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I'm so glad I got over my fear of swallowing.

You niggas are really going thru it.

naw not going thru it....but asking her step up.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

So, men are acting like women now and it's ok?

If, I had custody of my children I wouldn't ask their mothers for a dime. Let alone go after them for a dime. I suspect these men who have custody are in the same boat as these women. They too have come to rely on that extra paper and are in here fronting like they don't need it. If, you don't need the cash you don't sweat what some else has or doesn't have. There is no greater principal happening here because, the shoe is on the other foot.

acting like women?

how?

cause my son deserves the best effort from both parents?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

so being a good father is letting the mom off the hook now?

so becuz a nigga can pay for it all...means I should but the other person can make life directing decisions 50% if the time?

if people don't want to pay for support then you need to sign over parental rights.

if you don't want to do shit then don't do shit.

 

[Peezy_Jenkins]

just now seein this thread, with all the women collecting child support and using it on a 5 dollar meal for lil tae tay and spending the rest on her some jordan heels, its refreshing to see that a male can collect support from a baby mama

 

[DarcSkies]

I'm so glad I got over my fear of swallowing.

You niggas are really going thru it.

Niggaz be in Family Court like....

 

[MsSouthern]

So, men are acting like women now and it's ok?

If, I had custody of my children I wouldn't ask their mothers for a dime. Let alone go after them for a dime. I suspect these men who have custody are in the same boat as these women. They too have come to rely on that extra paper and are in here fronting like they don't need it. If, you don't need the cash you don't sweat what some else has or doesn't have. There is no greater principal happening here because, the shoe is on the other foot.

acting like women?

how?

cause my son deserves the best effort from both parents?

I'm confused too

No one should get a pass on not helping raise their child.

And in Texas you can still be ordered to pay support even if you relinquish your rights

 

[YC11]

There's white ppl problems and there's black people problems, this is it. Smh.

 

[S2J]

Hell even some of the chicks who are court clerks shake they heads. One even said..."it's bad enough he took her child now he wants money too." I say "yes, she made the child now she has to take care of him. you chicks say that all the time right" ofcourse i got the stank face.

^^^Ok, how did this situation even occur?

And if the court has clearly sided with you by giving you custody and making her pay chsup, what exactly r we talking about here?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Hell even some of the chicks who are court clerks shake they heads. One even said..."it's bad enough he took her child now he wants money too." I say "yes, she made the child now she has to take care of him. you chicks say that all the time right" ofcourse i got the stank face.

^^^Ok, how did this situation even occur?

And if the court has clearly sided with you by giving you custody and making her pay chsup, what exactly r we talking about here?

everyone doesn't know she's already paying. they only see you are there an one as the plaintiff and one as the defendant.

and also the shit talking in the room.

its that simple.