Ladies, you dont really want honesty...

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xBK Product

 

[haute]

Riiiight

Because men love hearing the truth ad process honesty with maturity

People, in general believe what they want

Not necessarily what is true

 

[UPTOWN]

oh god now yall got kat started smh

op is epic truth tho

 

[Copper]

and feelings will be/have been caught

 

[UPTOWN]

Riiiight

Because men love hearing the truth ad process honesty with maturity

People, in general believe what they want

Not necessarily what is true

this doesnt have anything to do with the topic tho lol.

does sometimes seems like women have some kind of different form of logic

 

[UPTOWN]

this is b/s. every relationship dynamic is different. just cuz that's how you have to deal with your girl doesn't mean that's how it is for every man.

kai what youre saying has truth to it but its still the age old agruement that says "just because its the truth doesnt mean its each and every scenario"

again thats outside the realm of the logic being discussed here

thats like me saying obama's the president and the you say "well not EVERYBODY voted for him"

if it all comes down it then majority rules

 

[PRIAPISM.]

*sigh*

don't generalize all women.

and there are plenty of men who can't handle the truth any better.

 

[UPTOWN]

Wtf? I thought my post was uncharacteristically tame. I deleted my initial response..lol

we know what you really wanted to say LOL

 

[blackrain]

I will say the part about just because he doesn't agree with you doesn't mean he doesn't understand you is something that needs to be emphasized...but that's people in general not just women

 

[UPTOWN]

*sigh*

don't generalize all women.

and there are plenty of men who can't handle the truth any better.

if this person is truly a man, there's only gonna be a few truths he wants to know

like for example, if a man asks a woman "is this the biggest dick you ever had??" and he is dead serious about wanting the answer and its NOT just sex talk etc. then that "man" is frowned upon and he SHOULD be

but if a woman comes up talking some "you didnt even compliment my new hair doo!! are you trying to say you dont like it or i dont look good any more??"

if a man was to answer " i actually DONT like it thats why i didnt say anything. its not that you look bad i just dont really like the whole nikki minaj thing"

the only thing that woman will hear is "i dont like it" and " nikki minaj"

all the logic in between those two things which is the basis of his honesty will fall on deaf ears. and like kai said, there are certain woman out of the 4 billion of them on this earth that wont handle it like that. but do those 2500 out of 4 billion really matter in the context of the discussion?

 

[aneed123]

*sigh*

don't generalize all women.

and there are plenty of men who can't handle the truth any better.

if this person is truly a man, there's only gonna be a few truths he wants to know

like for example, if a man asks a woman "is this the biggest dick you ever had??" and he is dead serious about wanting the answer and its NOT just sex talk etc. then that "man" is frowned upon and he SHOULD be

but if a woman comes up talking some "you didnt even compliment my new hair doo!! are you trying to say you dont like it or i dont look good any more??"

if a man was to answer " i actually DONT like it thats why i didnt say anything. its not that you look bad i just dont really like the whole nikki minaj thing"

the only thing that woman will hear is "i dont like it" and " nikki minaj"

all the logic in between those two things which is the basis of his honesty will fall on deaf ears. and like kai said, there are certain woman out of the 4 billion of them on this earth that wont handle it like that. but do those 2500 out of 4 billion really matter in the context of the discussion?

then followed by anger/sadness and the statement your so mean lol... women cant handle brutal honesty and would rather u sugar coat shit so u wont hurt their feelings.... same can be said for men but females more for the most part

 

[PRIAPISM.]

*sigh*

don't generalize all women.

and there are plenty of men who can't handle the truth any better.

if this person is truly a man, there's only gonna be a few truths he wants to know

like for example, if a man asks a woman "is this the biggest dick you ever had??" and he is dead serious about wanting the answer and its NOT just sex talk etc. then that "man" is frowned upon and he SHOULD be

but if a woman comes up talking some "you didnt even compliment my new hair doo!! are you trying to say you dont like it or i dont look good any more??"

if a man was to answer " i actually DONT like it thats why i didnt say anything. its not that you look bad i just dont really like the whole nikki minaj thing"

the only thing that woman will hear is "i dont like it" and " nikki minaj"

all the logic in between those two things which is the basis of his honesty will fall on deaf ears. and like kai said, there are certain woman out of the 4 billion of them on this earth that wont handle it like that. but do those 2500 out of 4 billion really matter in the context of the discussion?

Sounds like an immature broad that can't take constructive criticism.

if that's the only kind of women you encounter, please broaden your horizons.

if a woman relies on a man's opinion of her to gauge whether or not she "looks good any more," then she has some serious issues, confidence starts with yourself, not with what another person has to say.

I don't think it's 2500 to 4 billion though...gross exaggeration.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

any guy that needs to ask a woman if hes the biggest she had...he needs to have his feelings hurt.

and let me correct myself....there are women out there that can handle the truth.....its the women told they will die any day on their deathbed and they can only handle the truth because they cant control the outcome with crying

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

It's easy to say, hard to receive. If we(humans) only wanted one answer we shouldn't ask but sometimes even though the answer pisses us off doesn't mean we discredit it.

 

[Disciplined InSight]

This thread has proven why women are considered the weaker vessel....

 

[unRealLady1]

men lie when they don't have to. 9/10 the female already knows your cheating, she just waiting for u to confess it. we know when the man is attracted to another woman. what starts the drama is lying. I'm willing to step out the picture if he wants somethingelse. so there is no need to lie to me, I don't bust out windows because someone wants to move on. I don't loose love for the person, I'm just willing to face reality of where a relationship stands. If I'm still there, then it's because something is real about the relationship.

I had one fairytlale relationship, and that was a blind date on the internet. other than that I never had a fake relationship.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

men lie when they don't have to. 9/10 the female already knows your cheating, she just waiting for u to confess it. we know when the man is attracted to another woman. what starts the drama is lying. I'm willing to step out the picture if he wants somethingelse. so there is no need to lie to me, I don't bust out windows because someone wants to move on. I don't loose love for the person, I'm just willing to face reality of where a relationship stands. If I'm still there, then it's because something is real about the relationship.

I had one fairytlale relationship, and that was a blind date on the internet. other than that I never had a fake relationship.

its not about busting out windows....its about him being able to tell you the truth without having to suffer some sort of repercussion...whether its ignoring or arguing and holding out on the ass. after the truth is told maybe discussion how you feel and come to some sort of understanding then i am sure he wont lie or feel the need to lie...as long as he doesn't have to feel like he should have lied then you cool...as far as cheating most people wont tell the truth about it...so thats a moot point.

 

[Westie]

I do have to agree most woman don't want brutal honesty (unless they've gotten past the flowery bullshit relationships entail), but the same goes for men. You do NOT want to know the truth about soooo much from sex to past etc. Men have the MOST fragile egos.

 

[unRealLady1]

men lie when they don't have to. 9/10 the female already knows your cheating, she just waiting for u to confess it. we know when the man is attracted to another woman. what starts the drama is lying. I'm willing to step out the picture if he wants somethingelse. so there is no need to lie to me, I don't bust out windows because someone wants to move on. I don't loose love for the person, I'm just willing to face reality of where a relationship stands. If I'm still there, then it's because something is real about the relationship.

I had one fairytlale relationship, and that was a blind date on the internet. other than that I never had a fake relationship.

its not about busting out windows....its about him being able to tell you the truth without having to suffer some sort of repercussion...whether its ignoring or arguing and holding out on the ass. after the truth is told maybe discussion how you feel and come to some sort of understanding then i am sure he wont lie or feel the need to lie...as long as he doesn't have to feel like he should have lied then you cool...as far as cheating most people wont tell the truth about it...so thats a moot point.

I'm the opposite, I get mad at lies

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Men are right, women are wrong.

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