ladies with kids... what should i expect???

[bignorm73]

Get your niggas on the horn.

Cuz that shit is bout to change.

I went thru this twice recently.

Im a two time loser. lol.

You need to make this thread asking the dudes with kids.

Just like a women forgets how they like in the delivery room afterwards,

they forget how they are during pregnancy. Its pretty much hell. And they dont realize it.

There is a reason so many men cheat while they woman pregnant. Word to Tiki Barber.

 

[1of1]

F*ck all that. What you need to be worrying about is how you're gonna manage to buy diapers and similac with mod earnings.

 

[lighthearted25]

yeah those hormones r a bitch and i think mine was worse than some. i cursed out my baby's father numerous times over little things. i asked him to go to the store and get me some apple cinnamon cheerios and this nigga came back with apple jacks so that was an automatic lash out right there. i was crazy around my family too, but it was just the hormones. i was bak to normal afterwards and im sure your woman will be too. its natural.

 

[Mastery]

Its normal dude lol I went through this shit when my ex-wife was pregnant with my son. You are just going to have to deal with it. After she has the baby, she should be her old normal self again. I remember one time she woke me up at like 3am 'cause she had cravings for certain foods lol She wanted some strawberry yogurt (with a bag of granola to put into it), french fries, a salad, chocolate shake, and a soda from McDonalds :td I actually got up to get all that shit but forgot the granola... Nigga!!! This broad starts breaking down and crying uncontrollably, shit was bad man lol I'm sitting there looking at her like "over some granola"? She wouldnt stop either so I took my ass back to the store to get the granola lol Have fun and pay attention because I promise you that you will have a new found respect for pregant women after you go through this whole pregnancy and birth with your fiance. The shit they go through before, during, and after child birth... Nigga!!!

 

[MsSouthern]

sounds pretty normal to me

I wasn't mean at all but cried about all kinds of stuff from those Maxwell house commercials where the military brother comes home to me forgetting peanut butter at the store. I craved things like popcicles , hot sauce and chips, and lemonade. If we didn't have all of those things in the kitchen at all times... guess what I cried. I couldn't watch sappy movies either because they were too much for me. I'd sometimes tear up when I'd hug someone goodbye.

It will pass eventually but you need to understand that things will NEVER be the same. I'm not saying that it's a bad thing either.

Congrats to the both of you !

And don't give her any grief is she wants an epidural either !!!!!

 

[Mastery]

I wasn't mean at all but cried about all kinds of stuff from those Maxwell house commercials where the military brother comes home to me forgetting peanut butter at the store. I craved things like popcicles , hot sauce and chips, and lemonade. If we didn't have all of those things in the kitchen at all times... guess what I cried. I couldn't watch sappy movies either because they were too much for me. I'd sometimes tear up when I'd hug someone goodbye.

Sounds about right :tu lol

And don't give her any grief is she wants an epidural either !!!!!

Yeah, when my son's mother gave birth, she chose to go natural... She didnt want ANY drugs for the pain lol A soldier no doubt haha

 

[G Mack]

best of luck to you my nig.......its a cold world

 

[JDNotorious]

Head for the hills man, that shit aint gonna be the same after the bambino get here. bitches (no offense) change after that kid get here. it's like you aint a priority anymore.

 

[Dupac]

so ur saying... if she "accidentally" falls down some steps....God will....understand....??

 

[J-GUTTA]

Let me put a positive spin on this Du my BM had the same issues and like WallH had me going to Dunkin Donuts nightly for fresh Blueberry Muffins and Hot Coco and asked to have the Blueberry Muffin heated up in the microwave too. I was so stressed out during the 1st pregnancy that I lost 30lbs.

 

[freshb651]

congratulations on the kid

 

[MICHAEL-V.I.]

well... IC....and i know this is gonna get outta hand pretty soon, but just to throw it out there.. the old lady is pregnant....

and already the elevated hormone levels are taking their toll....

for the past 2 years... m lady has been my absolute best friend, and even now she still is, ....we're planing a wedding in june,...trying to hustle an old man to let us rent us a house for $600, and possible trading in my car this year all on top of planing for a kid,...

and with everything that's going on..i need those moments where i can lay back wth a few drinks, crack a few jokes about life and shit.... and just laugh shit off...but with her pregnancy hormones....it's like i almost lost my best friend.....shit that i KNOW she woulda found funny, she just stares at me and looks liek a complete different person....this shit is finally starting to hit me... 've seen other pregnant women and their hormones before..and that shit was normally funny to me.. but now it's not so funny...it's real.....

i have no one to laugh with...cuz she takes everything to heart now....it's like she's super duper sensitive..and that cut buddy who laughed at everything with me is lying dormant...

is this how the whole pregnancy is going to be? will my old friend ever resurface?

You on the right path BODY-MORE Souljah

 

[MsSouthern]

so ur saying... if she "accidentally" falls down some steps....God will....understand....??

I hope your girl kicks your ass for that comment !!!!

 

[MsSouthern]

Yeah, when my son's mother gave birth, she chose to go natural... She didnt want ANY drugs for the pain lol A soldier no doubt haha

I wanted to go natural .... but just couldn't do it. Props to any woman who can take that kind of pain without anything to ease it !

 

[blackrain]

I wanted to go natural .... but just couldn't do it. Props to any woman who can take that kind of pain without anything to ease it !

my mom did it for me and both my brothers...mainly cuz my father wouldn't have that shit any other way....congrats on the baby Du...may you be a better father than Sharif had..

 

[blakfyahking]

SMH @ Du not even marrying shorty 1st

I'm so disappointed in you son

so it begins

 

[J-GUTTA]

Yo Du have you started getting some of your girls symptoms? Maaannnn I couldn't stay awake for sh!t B. I fell asleep so easily, I was over my parents house and fell asleep on their area rug in the living room, fell asleep at the show, car was in the shop and was getting a ride home fell asleep.....shit was stupid.

 

[marie addams]

congrats du! I have no advice to offer aside from every woman being different so..just be patient with her

 

[UPTOWN]

its actually just one big inside joke when you look back on it .... you have to be able to go from polar opposites in short periods of time

you cant be a push over ... but at the same time .... you cant be to insensitive ... its a pretty hard balancing act .... but if you dont feed into it whole heartedly you can keep the balance. youre gonna have to fake it alot until the very end of the pregnancy. when my sons mom was preggo ... i used to hate the fuck out of showing .......

whats the word for it??? compassion ... like when you show that you really care about something that you really dont??

yeah what ever word you use for that. LOL

and its not that you really dont care its just that you have to hide the fact that its getting on your nerves and that the shit is getting out of hand LOL

but like jay said ... its only temporary ... unless youre a complete push over about it ...then she'll keep it going afterwards too

oh yeah ... and prepare to not get no ass for a loooooong ass time ... make an alias and ill make sure the ppm is poppin for you over there in ill pix

congrats on your child ... and it better be a boy ... other wise if i were you id scold my woman for bringing another woman into the household where ill be outnumbered

EVERYTHING NEEDS BALANCE!!!

 

[UPTOWN]

sorry for the titangraph