Ladies: Why You Can’t Find/Keep a Good Man

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BossBoo;5216609 said:
relationship ends when the arguin stops because one or both parties stopped givin a fuck.. stopped tryin.. which is why i said arguments are relationships tryin to work itself out...

but i suspect uv never been in a serious relationship so this will go over ur head as well..

It depends on both peoples personality tho... Im laid back and Im not arguing period... u got some chicks who get their rocks off from arguing as well... relationships end when one party gets to the point they dont care.... when a man says I done its a wrap
 
The reason why most relationships and most marriages dont work is because,they are socially

construced concepts by religion. Monogamy on the male end especially is not natural.

The only reason relationships lasted so long in the past was that woman could not work and even back in

those days alot of men cheated. Men and especially woman have been given this media driven view about what a relationship is and its not something thats probable.

if we get away from monogamous relationships as the default and standard,then male

and female relations get better. The truth 99% of people are really just not compatible with each other

and people are forcing themselves to go against nature for socieatal factors
 
well this was a load of sexist bull. I stopped reading after the first couple of sentences, but the drawing told me what to expect.
 
I didnt read op or any of the posts after it...all I know is survival of the fittest determines who gets a good relationship and who doesnt...the best bitch gets the best man...period

A self aware chick is more likely to end up with her ideal mate and the bitch still trying to find herself ends up being entertainment on my facebook feed..the way i see it, if she wants a good man, she must 1st know how to identify and appreciate a good man and once that is accomplished, she needs to refine herself to get that good man..main reason I dont bash women is bcuz I know they arent hard to find once you know what to look for..these hoes have been groomed to think a good man comes in an instant package and when a man doesnt fit the good man package, he gets tossed aside and labeled a lame..but a good man isnt an instant reward..a good man is the reward for being a conscious, self aware bitch intune with her life and the choices made to make positive progress in her life...main reason successful hoes have relationship problems; they are more concerned with social and financial status than they are with character quality and individual drive...it's a world full of black kings that have been given the "man in the iron mask" treatment by the world as a whole bcuz of their potential and genetic dominance..the last thing any race wants to see is the black male operating at full power..cant shit stop it so they use methods similar to "death of 1000 needles" to suppress and control that power...the black king has been forced to bleed to death without experiencing any pain..therefore making the dominance and detention of the black king that much more effective..when a woman says she cant find a good man, I tune her out bcuz she is the result of the "death of 1000 needles"...she has been groomed to overlook true black kings
 
.IRS.;5219248 said:
It was a good post Cortez, bust it up a little so it reaches a larger audience.

Tbh..if a nigga cant take out a few moments to read it, it aint meant for them to grasp it b

 
Tell them to be nice to men, lose some weight, and cater to ya man.

Most smart men are not gonna take you out to a dinner or a movie anymore.
 
most women dont want nice men.they want the men who will call them bitch one minute and give them the dick the next.they will lie to make themselves look good but in reality most just want some guy they feel she can Change.
 
ImTheKangRoundHere;5219407 said:
most women dont want nice men.they want the men who will call them bitch one minute and give them the dick the next.they will lie to make themselves look good but in reality most just want some guy they feel she can Change.

Yeah, I was talking about the single black woman. They need to be respectful towards men.
 


BossBoo;5216515 said:
arguments is a form of communication..

communication is healthy in relationships..

jus sayin..

depends on what you mean by arguing...if you simply mean discussing some shit ok...but if the majority of the time there's a disagreement it ends up with one or both people mad, yelling, or having to go calm themselves down then that's a problem...you can communicate without arguments but sadly alot of people don't
 
Nike Cortez;5219150 said:
I didnt read op or any of the posts after it...all I know is survival of the fittest determines who gets a good relationship and who doesnt...the best bitch gets the best man...period

A self aware chick is more likely to end up with her ideal mate and the bitch still trying to find herself ends up being entertainment on my facebook feed..the way i see it, if she wants a good man, she must 1st know how to identify and appreciate a good man and once that is accomplished, she needs to refine herself to get that good man..main reason I dont bash women is bcuz I know they arent hard to find once you know what to look for..these hoes have been groomed to think a good man comes in an instant package and when a man doesnt fit the good man package, he gets tossed aside and labeled a lame..but a good man isnt an instant reward..a good man is the reward for being a conscious, self aware bitch intune with her life and the choices made to make positive progress in her life...main reason successful hoes have relationship problems; they are more concerned with social and financial status than they are with character quality and individual drive...it's a world full of black kings that have been given the "man in the iron mask" treatment by the world as a whole bcuz of their potential and genetic dominance..the last thing any race wants to see is the black male operating at full power..cant shit stop it so they use methods similar to "death of 1000 needles" to suppress and control that power...the black king has been forced to bleed to death without experiencing any pain..therefore making the dominance and detention of the black king that much more effective..when a woman says she cant find a good man, I tune her out bcuz she is the result of the "death of 1000 needles"...she has been groomed to overlook true black kings

So true. This society is going to the dogs.
 
aneed123;5218394 said:
BossBoo;5216609 said:
relationship ends when the arguin stops because one or both parties stopped givin a fuck.. stopped tryin.. which is why i said arguments are relationships tryin to work itself out...

but i suspect uv never been in a serious relationship so this will go over ur head as well..

It depends on both peoples personality tho... Im laid back and Im not arguing period... u got some chicks who get their rocks off from arguing as well... relationships end when one party gets to the point they dont care.... when a man says I done its a wrap

but thats what i said my g. hahaha

 
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blackrain;5220313 said:
BossBoo;5216515 said:
arguments is a form of communication..

communication is healthy in relationships..

jus sayin..

depends on what you mean by arguing...if you simply mean discussing some shit ok...but if the majority of the time there's a disagreement it ends up with one or both people mad, yelling, or having to go calm themselves down then that's a problem...you can communicate without arguments but sadly alot of people don't

i swear.. ur like my arch nemesis or somethin. hahaha i can always count on ur counter. lol & smh

now i do agree.. u can AND SHOULD communicate without arguing.. but that doesn't negate the fact arguing IS COMMUNICATION.. mad.. yellin or not.. when the two walks away from the argument they take somethin away from that argument.. now even if a person wont admit there wrongs.. a real person will realize their errors and will work to improve.. which is why i say its unhealthy to have the same argument twice..

but u cant sit here and say that if two people didnt give a fuck or didnt want the relationship to work there would be arguments.. because there wouldnt... they would jus say fuck it and move on.. success is a process in anything u do.. including relationships.. so while ur working towards that successful relationship snags and bumps on the road will happen and an argument is only natural..

like i told Katt.. green grass needs rain.. to sit here and act as if ur gonna be with someone for an extended period.. and marriage ur not gonna get into an argument.. NOW.. once the argument is over everyone knows where they stand and what lines not to cross.. could it have been done without arguing?? of course.. but so what.. its still communication none the less and thats all i was sayin..
 

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