Ladies: Why You Can’t Find/Keep a Good Man

[CapitalB]

what valid points?

single parenting.. it not only fucks up men.. but women as well..

u dont hear as much of an outcry for lack of good mem/women in other races and cultures..

and single parenting i believe have alot to do with it.. its not a coincidence..

 

[Knock_Twice]

lol circular logic AND fatherless nigga mentality.

How is this a fatherless mentality..though lol

because if you ever saw a functional, healthy relationship in your household you wouldn't be relying on a woman to teach you how to treat her. you'd have already learned from example.

And what's a functional healthy relationship?..so just becuz a dad and mom are together under one roof it's healthy lol..yeah ok...folks kill me with this...That family portrait picture that hangs on the wall above the fire place with everyone smiling in it doesn't mean that the relationship is healthy lol..

Skyler caught feelings

Did she? Looks like she's turning the table on this finger pointing thread to me.

No she's not...

 

[Knock_Twice]

skyler disrespecting guys for not having a stable household doesnt make you look at better than you claim you are.it shows how much class you have as a woman and it aint much.catching feelings over the truth is a woman's trait and it shows all over your fonts lol

nah.. i can say that i dont totally agree with her.. but she makes valid points. *shrugs*

What points has she made though lol....

So everyone who comes from a "healthy relationship" 2 parent home should know how to treat a woman?? lol..

How is that even valid...

What defines a healthy relationship is what needs to be defined eh?

you grow up seeing your dad open doors for your mother every single place they went...

so when you start dating, you just gone let the female open her own door?

.We men learn from you ladies anyway on how to treat you



Read that statement clearly..and match what you just posted to that and see if that has any correlation

Dude you can open the door for every lady in the world bring flowers on her job or whatnot..but if she aint treating herself in a correct manner..do you think the average dude will still continue to open the doors or even attempt to do other things for her trifling ass...

Women actions causes Men re-actions lol...

 

[UnderMiSensi]

 

[CapitalB]

no REAL Men actions causes women's action..

who's in control here??

jus sayin..

 

[A1000MILES]

It's like there's quick sand in the middle of the club...And y'all niggas could dance anywhere you want...But instead of chillin by the bar or some shit...Y'all get yo drinks and walk directly to the middle of the floor...

 

[Knock_Twice]

@AP

So you're telling me..you meet a slut at a club..you know she's a slut..curses loud out in public..uses incorrect English..got trains ran on her...don't take care of her kids...you telling me...you are going to treat her the same as you would a woman

who is working..cleans, cooks..educated...uses proper English..dresses appropriate at events..goes to church lol..

says yes ma'am to your mother and no sir to your father..So both of these women you are involve with will get the same treatment from you???

How does being fatherless even correlate with this lol..What about orphans...It's called having common sense...or just looking at the woman in it self.. lol

 

[LUClEN]

Its easy to piggy back someone else's work when you cant do it yourself

 

[Kat]

Knock how old are you? Just asking.

 

[CapitalB]

no REAL Men actions causes women's action..

who's in control here??

jus sayin..

it's that good ol' shift of accountability...take responsibility for your actions.

nobody's actions should control your reaction past childhood. by the time you're an adolescent you should have a good enough grasp on your actions that you should be able to make rational, sound decisions in pretty much every situation.

you want to be respected like a man, act like one. women are led by emotion and can be irrational, how you gone let an irrational adult control you? smh, and you call us tall children

i do call women tall children by the way..

but like u said.. if a male is allowing a female to dictate how he acts or "re-acts" he is a boy..

and not takin responsibilty for one's action is good indication that one needs to grow up.. dont blame the bitch..

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

skyler disrespecting guys for not having a stable household doesnt make you look at better than you claim you are.it shows how much class you have as a woman and it aint much.catching feelings over the truth is a woman's trait and it shows all over your fonts lol

lol so i'm not classy for pointing out that your stunted mentality stems from you never witnessing a stable relationship....riiiight.

you're the one who's feeling disrespected because clearly that's your truth. i just said you had a fatherless nigga mentality, turns out you really are a fatherless nigga, LMAO i didn't even know a damn thing about your upbringing but it shows through your terrible outlook on relationships.

who's catching feelings again? def. not me.

*calls up daddy to tell him i appreciate him*

how you responded shows the person that you are.

 

[Knock_Twice]

lol circular logic AND fatherless nigga mentality.

How is this a fatherless mentality..though lol

because if you ever saw a functional, healthy relationship in your household you wouldn't be relying on a woman to teach you how to treat her. you'd have already learned from example.

And what's a functional healthy relationship?..so just becuz a dad and mom are together under one roof it's healthy lol..yeah ok...folks kill me with this...That family portrait picture that hangs on the wall above the fire place with everyone smiling in it doesn't mean that the relationship is healthy lol..

if you ever saw one, you wouldn't have to ask that question.

you single parent household having ass niggas are revealing yourselves one by one...lol bitter ass niggas.

i agree with your post, but not your one size fits all approach as Im from a single parent household, but it just takes common sense to know how to conduct yourself in a relationship...dont do things that you dont like done to you..

you dont like her talking to other guys? how bout you dont "keep your options open" and talk to other girls..

You dont like her disrespecting you? How bout not disrepecting her?

You dont like him staying out all night? You dont stay out all night..

You dont like him with female friends? Chunk deuces to your male friends...

People like the idea of companionship but not the work that comes with being in a relationship...

I agree, i'm not saying ALL men and women from single parent households are emotionally stunted and don't understand how a real relationship works, but lets act like that shit doesn't correlate and affects the black community disproportionately.

all of what you said contributes to a healthy relationship. you hear that @Knock_Twice ? I didn't feel like typing that shit out but this guy gets the gist of it.

I see that shit Lol...

again I aint buying it though..I don't feel like countering that bullshit.....

all what he typed..and lets say that couple gets into 4 arguments in 5 days..is it still a healthy relationship even after all he posted?? lol

see i can pick that shit apart lol...but I'll agree to disagree..

 

[Knock_Twice]

@AP

So you're telling me..you meet a slut at a club..you know she's a slut..curses loud out in public..uses incorrect English..got trains ran on her...don't take care of her kids...you telling me...you are going to treat her the same as you would a woman

who is working..cleans, cooks..educated...uses proper English..dresses appropriate at events..goes to church lol..

says yes ma'am to your mother and no sir to your father..So both of these women you are involve with will get the same treatment from you???

How does being fatherless even correlate with this lol..What about orphans...It's called having common sense...or just looking at the woman in it self.. lol

you're making this too easy today...lol

who looks for love in the club? (no usher)

ok..the slut is at church...walmart...your job...at the fair..nga does it matter lol where the slut it at.. lol

where she's at doesn't have any barring on my post...we comparing both women back grounds and what @Kang stated about Dudes learning from women on how to treat a woman..is what I'm trying to point out..and I'm asking if both women would get the same treatment...

I can't wait to hear this nga answer..

 

[CapitalB]

arguments is a form of communication..

communication is healthy in relationships..

jus sayin..

 

[CapitalB]

havin the same argument more the once not healthy tho..

 

[Kat]

arguments is a form of communication..

communication is healthy in relationships..

jus sayin..

I feel like our best progress comes out of arguments to be honest.

 

[CapitalB]

arguments is a form of communication..

communication is healthy in relationships..

jus sayin..

I feel like our best progress comes out of arguments to be honest.

green grass needs rain right!!?

 

[LUClEN]

havin the same argument more the once not healthy tho..

Unless new premises are being introduced

 

[Knock_Twice]

arguments is a form of communication..

communication is healthy in relationships..

jus sayin..

So why does arguments lead to break-ups..then lol

whats so healthy about a break-up

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

skyler disrespecting guys for not having a stable household doesnt make you look at better than you claim you are.it shows how much class you have as a woman and it aint much.catching feelings over the truth is a woman's trait and it shows all over your fonts lol

lol so i'm not classy for pointing out that your stunted mentality stems from you never witnessing a stable relationship....riiiight.

you're the one who's feeling disrespected because clearly that's your truth. i just said you had a fatherless nigga mentality, turns out you really are a fatherless nigga, LMAO i didn't even know a damn thing about your upbringing but it shows through your terrible outlook on relationships.

who's catching feelings again? def. not me.

*calls up daddy to tell him i appreciate him*

how you responded shows the person that you are.

this thread and your piss poor outlook on women and relationships shows what kind of upbringing you came from.

see how that goes both ways?

women fucked it up for themselves not I