Ladies: Tell us secrets

[American Loo VII 3D]

And yet I have posted numerous dark sisters complimenting them......yes, you are reaching as to why I posted these celebs.

Can i get a yes or no: was that you in the pics Dink posted.

 

[Simma II]

And yet I have posted numerous dark sisters complimenting them......yes, you are reaching as to why I posted these celebs.

Note: I said "to describe her 'style'". I never said anything about you not posting pics of dark-skinned females complimenting their body/looks....but yeah, I may really be reaching

 

[Dupac]

why do the flaws of a females friend not exist???

i mean u can be realistic desciring anyone under the sun, but your best friend....

i

 

[TooXquisite]

Oh yeah why females hate when niggas call them bitches...but they like to label themselves as 5 Star Bitches, or bad bitches...THA SHIT DONT MAKE SENSE 2 ME SON!!!!! and it Kills me when hoes be like " O You Know Kiesha Too?, Thats My Bitch We Go Way Back" SMH...but if i call kiesha a bitch all hell will break loose

I do not refer to myself as a bitch or other women as bitches, I might say heffa but that's about it. However, I think to some they feel they have a right to use it because of their relationship to that person. Like you might make a smart comment about your mom, but you'll damned if let somebody else say something bad about her *shrugs*.

 

[TooXquisite]

why do the flaws of a females friend not exist???

i mean u can be realistic desciring anyone under the sun, but your best friend....

i

I think we all tend to look past flaws when it comes to our close friends.

 

[freshfromatl]

Fellas take note: If you get into a fight, and your girl is watching you better do one of the following:

A: Win

B: Die during the course of the fight

because if you lose, she'll never look at you the same. but if you die during the fight, she may tat your face on her arm

LMAO!!! That was funny as hell...yo bruh, your threads make for a good read while I'm sitting here at work during my down time...

--Good thread homie.

 

[texas409]

Ladies what age were you when you first gave a nigga some head???

 

[freshfromatl]

I have witnessed an ex of mine in a fight and it hurt to watch. Not because he wasnt "winning" but to see him like that makes me angry. I would want nothing but to kiss his bruises better. I wouldn't make a big deal of it. I would try to calm him without pushing it and keep his head level.

^^^^^^^^

Damn I'm impressed...I'm not familiar with your postings but I can tell from this statement that you're a very geniune woman. Impressed.

 

[Simma II]

I shouldn't have said that cause it's not what I meant to say so I edited my post.

Ok.......
Anyway, Heyyyyyyy Miss Marley

 

[TooXquisite]

Any other ladies care to answer as well ?

Money never mattered to me because I've seen people make it without it.

Nope, not as long as he doesn't complain when I watch the Eagles.

I don't mind. At least he's not out in the street. I'll kindly go read a book, do a sudoku, or listen to some music.

It comes down to realizing you're going to go through some stuff, no matter who you are with.

I've grown out of hip-hop brands, I prefer a more casual look like jeans and nice top or slacks and a collared shirt.

I hate cats. If the guy had a cat, I wouldn't dismiss him as long as he put the cat in a cage or a separate room when I'm around. But if we planned to live together, he would have to get rid of it.

Depends. it could just be an excuse. Or she could be going through some things and needs time to get her stuff together. Or a test to see if you'll still stick around.

 

[Dupac]

we know women like book smarts, but how important is street smarts.. really???

is it a turn off when your man has absolutely no street smarts...

and is it a turn on, when he knows the streets very well??

cuz females will front like they don't want thugs no more...but i suspect that no matter how old they get, that shit still turns them on

 

[Rell Mayne]

Ladies what age were you when you first gave a nigga some head???

dawwaddwawd

 

[American Loo VII 3D]

dawwaddwawd

Well, answer the man

 

[Simma II]

"You too close!"....

 

[TooXquisite]

we know women like book smarts, but how important is street smarts.. really???

is it a turn off when your man has absolutely no street smarts...

and is it a turn on, when he knows the streets very well??

cuz females will front like they don't want thugs no more...but i suspect that no matter how old they get, that shit still turns them on

I think there is a huge difference between having street smarts and being a thug. I don't want someone who is out there living that life, hustling or whatever. But I don't want someone who isn't aware of his surroundings and the stuff that happens either.

 

[freshfromatl]

At what point is a man "done for good with his wants?" Temptation will always be around......

I can't speak for all dudes...but mostly from what I've witnessed and experienced...around the maturing ages of 23-28 OR simply when he has started to piece his life together (finished school, found a good job, started to get his money right) and he's not willing to take risk (sleeping around with all types of chicks) on the success he has worked hard to build. In my case I'm 24, and I can honestly say I'm about ready to settle with that "one" woman whenever I come across the right one.

BUT I must say also...if a dude hasn't seemed to take some attemp at settling around the ages of late 20's to early 30's, dude might not settle.

Again I'm not speaking for all dudes...but mainly the successful/ respected ones that I've witness that came before me (family members, fellas at work, or other successful cats that I've meet alone my journey).

I hope this answers your question...

 

[blakfyahking]

I'm starting to believe Marley cant be a real person, this has to be an internet persona LOL

no female can possibly be that appealing in real life by seeming so humble and deep, and still somehow be single SMH

Marley got to have a serious flaw somewhere, cause some of her posts are just too good to be true

she got the IC hurting my feelings cause no females in real life are like that........if she is a female she got to have something just messed up somewhere, somehow

no way she is real LOL

 

[iluuuuvmusic]

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how come yall spend so much time tryna look good for us in the mirror then act like yall too good for comments sometimes

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[FONT=&quot]Compliments? It depends on what you say and how you say it.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Good: "You look nice." "That shirt looks good on you." "You look sexy in those jeans/that dress." "I like the way that fits you."[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Bad: "Damn baby, yo ass lookin phat in dem jeans." "Dem titties sittin right in that shirt!"[/FONT]

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Ladies: Why do yall love to dance so much? is it just the music, or the feeling that men are watching you?

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[FONT=&quot]It's fun and a good workout. Having all eyes on you is a plus. Forming a circle on the dance floor and dancing the night a way with my girls is a good time.[/FONT]

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why dont yall approach us when yall see us

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[FONT=&quot]I'm too shy for that. I will make eye contact and smile though.[/FONT]

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why yall let your hoe ass friend influence ur decisions when it comes to fucckin wit us

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[FONT=&quot]I don't.[/FONT]

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Ladies: Is it always a bad idea to approach even the most timid of women when she is with a group of females?

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[FONT=&quot]I've noticed that even shy girls act too fly when approached while surrounded by her friends.[/FONT][FONT=&quot] .[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]It's all about the way you do it, but it's probably best to approach her when she's alone, especially if she's shy. She's not going to want an audience watching while you try to talk to her.[/FONT]

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What are yall jealous of? What do two attractive women have to be jealous of? Guys dont do that. If im feelin good, lookin good and another brother walks in the place and he feels good about himself, then thats that. with women, ya'll be like, "look at this bitch...think she cute." smh

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[FONT=&quot]Again, women are in constant competition with each other.[/FONT]

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why do u assume every guy that speaks or starts a conversation is trying to holla at u?

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[FONT=&quot]I don't assume that EVERY guy is trying to holla. If he's just saying hello while passing by then I assume he's just being friendly, but if he stops to talk to me or comes and sits beside me to strike up conversation, I know there's a chance he may ask for my number. [/FONT]

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what do yall want from us (Black Men) honestly???? This isnt a simp/sucka for love post, but, ppl always talking about how the black family structure is broke. How can we fix it, what do BW HONESTLY & the key word being HONESTLY, want from us as a mate/lover/s.o

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[FONT=&quot]I want an honest, affectionate, compassionate, loving, faithful, marriage-minded family man.[/FONT]

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Someone asked this earlier and I dont know if this was answered but do females get extra brolic when they are with their friends and a guy approach? I mean I tried to talk to a girl that was with her friends and she blew me off.

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[FONT=&quot]It depends on how you approached her, but she might just be puttin on. It's best to approach her when she's alone. If you are respectful in your approach and don't say anything lame, I don't see why she would go off on you.[/FONT]

 

[iluuuuvmusic]

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Ladies: Would you look at your man different if you got beat up in front of you? I mean like he loses a fair one-on-one.

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[FONT=&quot]No as long as he put up a good fight. And it better be because he's defending me or himself and not because of him picking a fight with someone over something stupid like stepping on his shoes or accidentally bumping into him.[/FONT]
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when yall get all rude and fly 2wards a nigga[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]thats tryna bag yall ARE just tryna see wat a nigga made of rite??[/FONT][FONT=&quot]

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[FONT=&quot]Not for me. If I get rude with you, it's because I told you I wasn't interested and you kept pursuing and got disrespectful.[/FONT]
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when a nigga wink his eye at u[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]does it make u horny. [/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]No. It might make me laugh at him trying to be cute though. lol[/FONT]
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i've been told pick up lines dont werk[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]so i never used them ever becuz of fear of being laffed at[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]you know, shit like "I shud put U and I 2gether[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]wud i really be an asshole 4 trying[/FONT][FONT=&quot]

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[FONT=&quot]Pickup lines are lame. Just be your self.[/FONT]
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do yall really judge a nigga by his sneakers??[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]really??[/FONT][FONT=&quot]

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[FONT=&quot]A little bit. They can't be dirty or all beat up. I'm not really a label girl, so I'm not going to knock you if you don't have on Jordans or some other expensive brand.[/FONT]
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Ladies would y'all fuck with s baldy

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[FONT=&quot]A baldheaded man? Sure.[/FONT]
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What would make you date someone not your type?

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[FONT=&quot]I could compromise on physical characteristics and a few mental ones. He doesn't have to meet every single thing on my list of what I want in a man.[/FONT]
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how much of an importance is a man's earning potential/financial stability in terms of relationships?

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[FONT=&quot]It's important. He doesn't have to be a millionaire or anything like that. I just need him to make enough for me to be able to be a stay-at-home mom once we have children (only until they are all school-aged), provide a college education fund for each of them, and allow us to live in a nice, safe neighborhood. Whatever that amounts to financially is enough for me.[/FONT]
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Ladies: tell the truth, how important is a mans vehicle?

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[FONT=&quot]It's not. As long as he has something to get around in. It can't be one of those ridiculously decorated hoopties though.[/FONT]
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for the chicks that are main chicks[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]yall do realize that altho niggas cheat and lie to [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]yall that we do love yall rite[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]and that yall just cant give a nigga everything he wants[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]and that once he done for good with his wants[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]you are all his rite[/FONT][FONT=&quot]

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[FONT=&quot]Yeah, we realize that dudes cheat and lie. His claiming to still love us and not give a damn about her doesn't make us feel any better about the fact that he cheated though. You may still love me, but I won't feel loved.[/FONT]
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why do some women make they're new man pay for the last nigga mistakes?

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[FONT=&quot]The mistakes of the previous man may have taken a toll on her mentally and once she gets into the line of thinking that all men are going to do her wrong, it will be hard to break away from that. She will have to meet someone who shows her that he's not like the others. She might view him as guilty until he proves that he is innocent. It's not right, but sometimes that's just the way it is.[/FONT]

 

[iluuuuvmusic]

[FONT=&quot]ladies, a guy that doesnt dance, is that a turnoff?[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]If he won't even do a little two step with me, then yeah. It's not a dealbreaker though.[/FONT]

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ok another question... ladies, do u like a man that speaks multiple languages

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[FONT=&quot]That's always a plus.[/FONT]

Can the ladies answer these questions for me plz , btw nice thread T/S

- At the end of the day is money really all that important ? No. Money =/= Happiness

- if a nigga dont watch or play sports is that a turnoff ? I’m a big sports fan, but it wouldn’t turn me off if a guy wasn’t as into it as I was. As long as he doesn’t mind watching a game or two on a Saturday afternoon in the fall, he’s fine with me.

- how come yall have issues against video games or niggas who like to read comic books or manga ? or better yet do yall like those things ?? I’m not against video games as long as they don’t consume his entire day. I don’t mind comic books and don’t know what manga is.

- how come yall choose to stay w/ niggas or forgive them after they cheat ? does it ever worry u that it may (in all honesty) happen again ? Love is blind and it’ll take over your mind. Lol. No, but seriously when you are in love with someone, you just keep hoping that they won’t do it again. The worry is always there. I have a low tolerance for cheating. I am more likely to forgive my husband when I am married than I am to forgive a boyfriend, I won’t stay with a serial cheater though.

- clothing wise... what do yall prefer ? I’m not really picky. If it’s cute and looks cute on me, then I’ll wear it. I’m not a label girl so I don’t care what designer’s name is attached to the tag.

- niggas w/ cat's yay or nay & WHY ? No. I hate cats. They creep me out. Dogs > cats

- she says she need some space but what does that really mean tho ? She may just need some time to think about where the relationship is headed. She could be cheating on you and want that space to chill with the other dude too. I dunno.

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Ladies,

Do you like surprises? I love surprises.

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