Conscious__Nkechi
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He pays all the time and I feel the want to come out of pocket for a man I am into and so I do.
Last 3rd date I went on, I paid after he went out for the first 2. The 4th consisted of me getting mad groceries and whipping up a 9 dish meal, dessert, his favorite drinks etc.
It's nice to do for a man. It shouldn't have to be one sided all the time. It is a partnership and that's how I treat it as.
Last 3rd date I went on, I paid after he went out for the first 2. The 4th consisted of me getting mad groceries and whipping up a 9 dish meal, dessert, his favorite drinks etc.
It's nice to do for a man. It shouldn't have to be one sided all the time. It is a partnership and that's how I treat it as.
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CashMeOutKing
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#love when my girls pay.... #pimphandVeryStrong what type of chicks always lookin for handouts and free meals and not willing to give back...i would'nt consider my self in a relationship if it was nothing giving back...
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PLASTIC RULES
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kat2180;2860827 said:
A man should pay 100% of the time if he's out with his girl.
That doesn't mean she can't spend $ on him in other ways tho.
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I dont have a problem with chicks paying for shit. I have a problem with chicks driving dudes around all the time. When my wife is driving I feel weird. Hell I feel weird being in the passenger seat of anyone's car, really!
But my wife pays for shit when we are at the department stores. That is mostly because she gets a discount on her credit cards that I dont get.
But my wife pays for shit when we are at the department stores. That is mostly because she gets a discount on her credit cards that I dont get.
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Focal Point
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if you're happy with it... i'm happy with it... shit can I get pampered at dinner time... and please pull my damn chair out ladies
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Iheart~Cali
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I paid for our first date when I started dating my bf. He was shocked and felt uncomfortable.
I don't mind paying occasionally to switch it up, but the man should be prepared to pay no matter what.
I don't mind paying occasionally to switch it up, but the man should be prepared to pay no matter what.
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death187sin
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Iheart~Cali;2868208 said:
Hey babes.. Where U been at all my life? lmaooo
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Iheart~Cali
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Benihana is effin delicious.
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blakfyahking
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Conscious__Nkechi;2860999 said:
kat2180;2861061 said:
word Marley.............
cooking up a 9-dish meal is a sign cuzzo got to run them cheeks that night LOL
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Nthngis4vr
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caddo man;2866611 said:
you sound like my husband. lol. I hate driving him around. This might be stupid but I feel some kinda way about it.
on topic: I never really paid that much attention to this... we have a joint account so we both are paying for everything. it's just a matter of who takes their card out first. Most times it's him because i have to dig thru my purse. lol..
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death187sin
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kai_valya;2868282 said:
All they getting from me these days is noodle cups and C&C sodas.. lol
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Actually i think men have more of the problem when a woman pays for the meal in public. There to worried about what the next male or female is thinking
I been with my man for awhile so we dont do the whole u pay for all of this anymore because its not needed when we both have money and have nothing to prove. but there was a few times I would pay for dinner because what we did before he had paid for. But he would hate if I said ill pay for your appetizer just pick which one you want. or he wouldnt like people seeing me take my money out to pay. Its def a ego thing with men.
I been with my man for awhile so we dont do the whole u pay for all of this anymore because its not needed when we both have money and have nothing to prove. but there was a few times I would pay for dinner because what we did before he had paid for. But he would hate if I said ill pay for your appetizer just pick which one you want. or he wouldnt like people seeing me take my money out to pay. Its def a ego thing with men.
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Coby Vibes
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I dont know why people stress this. shit has to get paid for. the value of the money is the same whether you are male or female. people get too emotional over dumb shit.
ego is a helluva thing
ego is a helluva thing
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atribecalledgabi
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i've never done it with someone i was just dating/talking to, but i wouldn't mind it either. once you get in a relationship that shit stops mattering if it even did at all.
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Oneblackrose2hi
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...I have no prob paying for my guy but I'd prolly give him the money before hand...as long as I'm doing it cause I want to and not cause I have to....that's the only time it would be uncomfortable...
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