Ladies - Paying for a man in Public?

[taeboo]

u smoke cigawetts dont u

Naw smoking is a nasty habit.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

i dont care.....

 

[Valentinez A. Kaiser]

I would think if anyone cared, it would be the man and how demoralising it may be to his ego.
But from my understanding, you've been with your man for sometime so that shit of paying shouldn't faze you cause you know what your relationship is truly about. And like you said he pays all the time so you know he ain't no bum.

Why does it make you uncomfortable....because of what people might think? And if that, what do you think they're thinking/judging you on?

 

[blackrain]

if that's your man it shouldn't do anything to your ego...

 

[bignorm73]

Kat, you are trippin.

 

[kat2180]

Kat, you are trippin.

Lmao..well damn.

I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

 

[Lorenzo de Medici]

Lmao..well damn.

I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

So you're just gonna fuckin' ignore me? After all the time I put into us? I GAVE YOU THE BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE! You know what, fuck you Kat.

 

[_God_]

Lmao..well damn.

I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

yall set the precedent, yall tried to use us, we just recently been flippin it on yall

 

[kat2180]

I'm not saying shit to a certain poster until their sig is changed to something appropriate.

 

[bignorm73]

Lmao..well damn.

I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

Unless you the 300 pound, trailer trash white redneck chick, people wont view you like that. lol.

 

[ImSoReal]

With my ex gf, she offered to pay for the 3rd date and I decline, but eventually after we got together every so often she would take me out. I had no problem with it, I mean once you get to a certain point in a relationship I don't see anything wrong with the woman taking the man out to eat. I don't care what it look slike to the public because I wont see them again anyways

Naw if I was out with family or friends I would not let my girl pay

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I have, doesn't bother me.

 

[king hassan]

Pimpin ain't easy, and it ain't hard either

 

[kat2180]

Pimpin ain't easy, and it ain't hard either

What's that supposed to mean?

 

[king hassan]

What's that supposed to mean?

SMH Kat, just SMH, stare at the socks

 

[king hassan]

speaking of which, may i say, you've outdone yourself again

LOL thanks. That's what I'm known for around here

 

[blackrain]

SMH Kat, just SMH, stare at the socks

she not respecting the real pimpin over there?

 

[king hassan]

she not respecting the real pimpin over there?

I see, dude must have her eyeballs to the curb

 

[PLASTIC RULES]

Real talk if you let a bitch pay for you in any fashion then you might as well hand in your manhood card right now.

 

[kat2180]

Real talk if you let a bitch pay for you in any fashion then you might as well hand in your manhood card right now.

Even if he pays 90% of the time?