ladies need not reply, but gentlemen, tell me, do I have to go?

[edwardnigma]

Nigga you played this shit all the way wrong IMO. Somebody will probably be in your girls guts because of this.

If you really didnt want to go, you should have told her, she can't go to her friends party because you promised your cousin that you guys were going to go to his party, where they got mad bottles anyway. You should of told her its a family thing and she put her friends above family, and you two can go to a party like that another time.

But you aint even include her in your shit and you dissed the fuck out of her mindframe and what she would like to do. Not a good look. Like to see how you get out of this one. If your girl a doormat she'll go for it, but if she BAD, the sharks gon bite

 

[nex gin]

Those couple get togethers are so fuckin corny. What make these girls think that we want to sit around cheesin in some strangers face acting like we enjoying ourselves.

Only time that shit be cool is if the people envolved have known each other for a long ass time, like basically grew up together and that just seems like a kick back and yall just doing what you would normally be doing on a weekend or after school or something.

Bottom line go party with your cousin. Or you gone be stuck on the couch with the rest of them niggaz lookin like some kids they brung along because they couldnt find a babysitter

It's a female thing bruh. I have dodged every one of these that my girl has ever thrown my way. I completely agree....I am not trying to be sitting around in a strangers face cheesing and trying to hold a conversation when I would rather be doing something else. It's like these women come up w/ "Play dates" for their men. FOH. I already have friends & at my age, I'm not necessarily trying to make new ones...especially if it's being forced on me.

 

[BelovedAfeni]

Sooooo my gf is having some gay ass dinner party with her friends where they all bringing their bf's and its gonna be like one of them corny dinner type things where all the dudes are pretending to have a good time. This falls on the same day as my cousins bday and he wants me to come party which I agreed to do long ago. I told my girl(like a bauce) that i aint goin to this dinner cuz I think its stupid and also because i want to go party with my cousins. Lol she just got super pissed at me and said its part of my responsibility to her to be there for her, I said, "fuck that shit" like a bauce yet again. Anyways, what do you guys think, do I have to go to this gay ass dinner date shit with her, her friends and their bf's? Or go pop bottles with the fam? Option two all day!

if u dont u in a world of drama

just make sure its worth it

she probably wants to show u off

or not look lame if the paty goes south

 

[soul rattler]

grown ass children

 

[The Lonious Monk]

If you agreed to go with your cousins before the plans were made for the party, then that's really all you had to and should have said. Shitting on something she thinks is important is usually not the way you want to go. You're going to have to do some things you don't like in support of your chick, just like I'm sure she will do some things she doesn't want to in support of you. That's part of being in a relationship. You don't have to like those things but you also don't have to make her feel like are wishes don't matter to you. That's just silly and childish.

 

[King Erauno]

you should have avoided acting "like a bauce" and just said you already had plans with family. all that extra shit was uncesessary

 

[knockoutking]

It's a female thing bruh. I have dodged every one of these that my girl has ever thrown my way. I completely agree....I am not trying to be sitting around in a strangers face cheesing and trying to hold a conversation when I would rather be doing something else. It's like these women come up w/ "Play dates" for their men. FOH. I already have friends & at my age, I'm not necessarily trying to make new ones...especially if it's being forced on me.

Wtf its like you just read my mind. I said all those things to my girl but she wasnt havin it and still tryna get me to come to this gay ass shit.

 

[knockoutking]

you should have avoided acting "like a bauce" and just said you already had plans with family. all that extra shit was uncesessary

gotta lay the law down my dude, its very necessary

Nigga you played this shit all the way wrong IMO. Somebody will probably be in your girls guts because of this.

If you really didnt want to go, you should have told her, she can't go to her friends party because you promised your cousin that you guys were going to go to his party, where they got mad bottles anyway. You should of told her its a family thing and she put her friends above family, and you two can go to a party like that another time.

But you aint even include her in your shit and you dissed the fuck out of her mindframe and what she would like to do. Not a good look. Like to see how you get out of this one. If your girl a doormat she'll go for it, but if she BAD, the sharks gon bite

Im very blunt with it my dude. I couldve done that, but all that bein nice and sincere shit does is empower a girl to start to use you as a doormat.

Co-signature goes to MrYoungGun.

As far as the thread premise, I hear you all day and I agree, phuck all that dinner shyt with some people you don't know or care to know, BUT the bolded champ ^^^^^^^....... straight disgustin' bruh. Yo ass DID choose to be in a relationship and your reasoning for being in that relationship is on some juvenile shyt. So she basically tied your hands, gave u an ultimatum and wasn't gonna let u hit no more if you two didn't become an item (officially) so you went ahead & locked it in so she wouldn't stray or keep straying on the low, smh. I got a feeling ya'll relationship ain't really that genuine and that ain't what's goin' on......... Pimpin. But do what'cha do.

Lol nah you got it the wrong way, she didnt give no ultimatum, I gave up new pussy because I cared about her enough to do so. I just worded it that way, to keep my nutsack.

 

[inlovewithe]

*woman post* Is your cousins party something she can't attend? If not, then why don't you tell her ya'll can go to the dinner then to your cousins party... If she can't got to the party then tell her you'll go to dinner but u'll have to bail out on the other events because you already made plans that day. Don't lie to her, compromise.

 

[Westie]

you should have avoided acting "like a bauce" and just said you already had plans with family. All that extra shit was uncesessary

^^^^^^^^^^^ c/s

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Yo, TC, how old are you? Judging by your reasoning for saying the things you say, you seem like one of those young dudes that thinks acting like an ass is the correct way to relate to a chick? It might be the right way to handle a strumpet, but why would you want to wife one of those to begin with?

 

[HafBayked]

thats some dumb shit....im trying to imagine myself in this position...i dont see it but just to entertain it i would have to say thats a no go....but if she makes it a world war and i just give in...ima make sure im wasted b4 we even get there....if i feel eyes on me, im callin em out...and u know the punks like to fight....smh...i just dont see that ending well

 

[6ft5]

I think if it really matters to her you should go to her function spend a bit of time there make her happy and then let her know that your ready to leave. I'm sure your cousins party is starting at a later time. A boss doesn't have to fight with his lady to get his way he learns how to get his way without having issues. Now you can keep being stubborn and push your lady away and have her tight at you or you can compromise do both things and when you get home, get some pussy......

 

[edwardnigma]

*woman post* Is your cousins party something she can't attend? If not, then why don't you tell her ya'll can go to the dinner then to your cousins party... If she can't got to the party then tell her you'll go to dinner but u'll have to bail out on the other events because you already made plans that day. Don't lie to her, compromise.

This nigga didn't invite her! LOL He dont like her, she's just steady puntang...but she with him for a reason.

 

[deeroc22]

I wouldnt go if i already had plans...but id try not be be a dick about it unless warranted... and Chemix dropping gems in this bitch!

 

[Copper]

no, dont do it, reconsider, read some literature on the subject

 

[blackrain]

Sometimes it isn't about being whipped...niggas probably don't want to hear their girls mouths on some real shit...



I'm just saying though homie, theres always a way to get your own way with a woman without her getting pissy

But fuck it pimpin, you want to put your foot down...put that shit down...

Just watch later, women never forget shit...she might try to give you grief over something you want to do at a later time

Anyone who has been in a long term relationship can atest to that