ladies need not reply, but gentlemen, tell me, do I have to go?

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

lol i feel like if I dont stand firm im gonna be one of them pussy dudes who do w/e their girls says. It always starts with the compromising of shit you want to do, then before you know you dont have a nutsack any more. She worried that her friends are gonna talk shit on me for bein the only b/f to not show up, sayin it looks like I Dont care about her to not be there for her. Fuck that shit.

Well I gotta agree wit Chemix. Oh u best believe she's gonna bring this back up. Let her know again that you promised your cousin b4 she planned the party. It's family. If she can't understand that, then she'll get over it. And if u don't care about her like that to go to her party instead, then BUCK IT!! have a ball wit your cuz.

 

[knockoutking]

You don't have to be on no "i'm puttin my foot down" type of shit.

Just tell her the truth. Tell her you already made plans with family. Not just some random ass patnah but family.

And since you on yo "like a bauce" mentality, you need to explain to her that she needs to talk to you before she makes plans that she wants you to be included in. That shit is selfish if you think about it.

lol my dude I did that already and she thought I was just jokin thinkin I wouldnt leave her to go to a couples dinner by herself. She just got it into her head a bit ago when she finally realized I wasnt playin when I said I wasnt goin, hence this thread after the fight.

and its her friends idea to do this shit, not hers. Her friend thinks her bday is soooooo important that she has to get all her girls to invite their men to it by making it a couples dinner. This chick just got a new bf to and she just wants to show him off to her friends. If anyone remembers I made a thread about my girl wantin me to double date with her friend and he new man, with her friends having previously being a huge whore. Well this is that same friend and the double date has been abandoned for a dinner date.

fuckin women lol

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

lol I cant do both. The dinner is at some fancy restaurant like an hour out of town, my cousin live an hour out of town in the opposite direction, meaning its a two hour journey between the dinner and my cuzzo's party. Im not lookin to drive no where either, im lookin to get drunk and party all night. Not sit down, dressed all fancy, makin corny conversation with some dudes I dont know and their gf's. All of this is probably for some facebook photo ops to, for these girls to post and talk shit online.

......BINGO!!!!!!!!!! Posting pics. Commenting. All for show

 

[knockoutking]

I feel you pimp...

Yea her girls gonna talk shit...

And women love to show off their man because they talk about our asses all day long to their girls

But like I say, I feel ya pimp...

My pops told me to always use some pizazz on that shit...

You won't lose any nut sacks my nigga unless you give it...

Now if you care about the broad (be honest with yourself, cuz if you questioning you care about shorty) tell her you can only do a couple of hours due to prior engagements

Or to get real pimpish...have your cousin call you while you at the dinner like "Nigga, where you at?"

Just to drive the point home when you have already told her in the beginning

Let me just put it out there pimp

You're in a relationship...

See I choose not to be because of obligations like that...amongst other things...

But since you decided to be in one with her...

Play your role...you not going to be a simp nigga

You just giving your woman some support...

But when it comes time you feel that she just trying to get more out of you...

You knock that shit off in a heartbeat...

Yin and yang...

Keep the balance right my dude

lol I didnt choose to be in a relationship per say, i caught feeling and didnt want no other dudes runnin up in a chick im feelin, so I had to lock it down or else she was fair game. All these obligations are dumb as fuck, plus I cant make it to both of them. And on top of that, even if I didnt have anything to do would it be wrong for me to not go? If she has a friend bday, I could just spend my time with my cousins and friends rather than be dragged along.

 

[Kushington]

Idk if somebody posted this already, but you can go to both

the dinner party shouldnt last any longer than 10:30-11, and if the group tries to do something else past that time then you officially have to right to say fuck that i gotta go to the club, the club wont be poppin until around that time anyway

but you should go the the faggot ass dinner party only so ur girl doesnt gain the upper hand in ur relationship....but depending on when the dinner party starts, you should just stay about an hour or so, but no longer than two hrs

Everybody wins

 

[Dr.Chemix]

lol my dude I did that already and she thought I was just jokin thinkin I wouldnt leave her to go to a couples dinner by herself. She just got it into her head a bit ago when she finally realized I wasnt playin when I said I wasnt goin, hence this thread after the fight.

and its her friends idea to do this shit, not hers. Her friend thinks her bday is soooooo important that she has to get all her girls to invite their men to it by making it a couples dinner. This chick just got a new bf to and she just wants to show him off to her friends. If anyone remembers I made a thread about my girl wantin me to double date with her friend and he new man, with her friends having previously being a huge whore. Well this is that same friend and the double date has been abandoned for a dinner date.

fuckin women lol

Lmfao!! My dude, the bolded is what your girl is going to be thinking...

And she is going to fuck with you and never let it go...

One of my mamis wanted me to go with her to this get together...

So I decided to tell her a day before I wasn't going...

Woman never let that shit die...

She was pissed...

She calls me up asking her for a favor, wanted me to talk to her nephew bout some grown man shit...

Claimed she were going out with her girls, me and her nephs could chill n talk

I was running late so the broad is calling me like where you at?

Told her I was on the way..."what's it to you, you going out?"

"Well because of you, I missed going out with my girls"

I'm like how thats on me...

So I get there, talking to her nephs...she comes downstairs all quiet and waves...just real solemn...

Matter of fact, she kept walking back and forth...I knew what it was...so she goes out for a smoke and I join...

I'm playing with her toes and what not, talking to her and in a split second she yanks her toes from me

"Don't touch me" I'm thinking...here we go...

She goes off about that one date that happened about 3 or 4 weeks ago...

She's pissed...all in my ear...fighting with da doc...

Take her upstairs and we still going at it...shit drains me so I lay down as well as she and I handle business...

So best be sure that shit comes back later...

Remember, whatever you put into a woman will eventually come out later...

Women are always thinking, ALWAYS thinking...and when they got a man the subject is always that man...

My bad on the long post, I know niggas on the IC hate reading n shit, lol

 

[1of1]

Sitting down and talking is so corny to this nigga lmao.

As I'm laughing I can't really talk shit b/c I'm sure the bitches love the attitude you're carrying.

Carry on being an asshole and don't respect her feelings or desires. It'll draw her to you even more.

As a matter of fact, tell her you'll text her while she's at her bum ass dinner with conversing couples (and her) to check on her once or twice while you're freaking bitches on crowded dance floors.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

lol I didnt choose to be in a relationship per say, i caught feeling and didnt want no other dudes runnin up in a chick im feelin, so I had to lock it down or else she was fair game. All these obligations are dumb as fuck, plus I cant make it to both of them. And on top of that, even if I didnt have anything to do would it be wrong for me to not go? If she has a friend bday, I could just spend my time with my cousins and friends rather than be dragged along.

my dude...we are either players disguised as good men

or good men disguised as players...

Fuck relationships...you can lock it down without it...please trust and believe...

its all about what words fly off ya tongue...and no I don't mean by saying "I love you" as a way to lock it down...

I got three broads, no bullshit, waiting...they don't want no other...eventually they will tire but for now...back of the jersey says Chemix 01

 

[mryounggun]

lol I didnt choose to be in a relationship per say, i caught feeling and didnt want no other dudes runnin up in a chick im feelin, so I had to lock it down or else she was fair game. All these obligations are dumb as fuck, plus I cant make it to both of them. And on top of that, even if I didnt have anything to do would it be wrong for me to not go? If she has a friend bday, I could just spend my time with my cousins and friends rather than be dragged along.

Yeah, that's where you fucked up, fam.

 

[Kushington]

Edit: just read ur time/driving dilemma

if you dont live with her, then pretend to be very sick that day

Tell her you got the runs badly, nobody can argue agaisnt the runs, vomit works as well

just dont get caught up with ur peeples postin pics on fb after the party, stay outta pics like frank lucas that night

 

[knockoutking]

Lmfao!! My dude, the bolded is what your girl is going to be thinking...

And she is going to fuck with you and never let it go...

One of my mamis wanted me to go with her to this get together...

So I decided to tell her a day before I wasn't going...

Woman never let that shit die...

She was pissed...

She calls me up asking her for a favor, wanted me to talk to her nephew bout some grown man shit...

Claimed she were going out with her girls, me and her nephs could chill n talk

I was running late so the broad is calling me like where you at?

Told her I was on the way..."what's it to you, you going out?"

"Well because of you, I missed going out with my girls"

I'm like how thats on me...

So I get there, talking to her nephs...she comes downstairs all quiet and waves...just real solemn...

Matter of fact, she kept walking back and forth...I knew what it was...so she goes out for a smoke and I join...

I'm playing with her toes and what not, talking to her and in a split second she yanks her toes from me

"Don't touch me" I'm thinking...here we go...

She goes off about that one date that happened about 3 or 4 weeks ago...

She's pissed...all in my ear...fighting with da doc...

Take her upstairs and we still going at it...shit drains me so I lay down as well as she and I handle business...

So best be sure that shit comes back later...

Remember, whatever you put into a woman will eventually come out later...

Women are always thinking, ALWAYS thinking...and when they got a man the subject is always that man...

My bad on the long post, I know niggas on the IC hate reading n shit, lol

lol I know she gonna be pissed after its all done but in the end I know it wont matter for too long. We got a real tight bond so shit like this aint nothin, to me atleast.

 

[knockoutking]

Sitting down and talking is so corny to this nigga lmao.

As I'm laughing I can't really talk shit b/c I'm sure the bitches love the attitude you're carrying.

Carry on being an asshole and don't respect her feelings or desires. It'll draw her to you even more.

As a matter of fact, tell her you'll text her while she's at her bum ass dinner with conversing couples (and her) to check on her once or twice while you're freaking bitches on crowded dance floors.

lol @ the bold. They hate it but they cant get enough of it

 

[knockoutking]

my dude...we are either players disguised as good men

or good men disguised as players...

Fuck relationships...you can lock it down without it...please trust and believe...

its all about what words fly off ya tongue...and no I don't mean by saying "I love you" as a way to lock it down...

I got three broads, no bullshit, waiting...they don't want no other...eventually they will tire but for now...back of the jersey says Chemix 01

im a player whose love struck and doesnt want no other dude with my girl lol. Its very bitch ass I know, but you gotta bite the bullet some times. As for the last part, lol dont trust that shit, those girls are fuckin other dudes, you just dont know it.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

im a player whose love struck and doesnt want no other dude with my girl lol. Its very bitch ass I know, but you gotta bite the bullet some times. As for the last part, lol dont trust that shit, those girls are fuckin other dudes, you just dont know it.

Yea I kno pimp...I don't trust it...

But shit, pops schooled me...when you hold on tight to those broads thats when they wanna break free...

There are plenty niggas who text call and stalk these broads all day...

I pay them no nevermind...and they seem to attract to that...

Shit I don't even think about other dudes...shit is A1...

lol @ love struck player

ahhh nigga that pussy got ya!!!

That shit must be good my dude!!! lol!!!

 

[knockoutking]

Yea I kno pimp...I don't trust it...

But shit, pops schooled me...when you hold on tight to those broads thats when they wanna break free...

There are plenty niggas who text call and stalk these broads all day...

I pay them no nevermind...and they seem to attract to that...

Shit I don't even think about other dudes...shit is A1...

lol @ love struck player

ahhh nigga that pussy got ya!!!

That shit must be good my dude!!! lol!!!

words of wisdom from your old man.

Pimpin 101, the more you project the image of not giving a fuck about em, the more crazy they go.

Anways im glad most of yall backed me in this. I know if the ladies were in here they'd be biting my head off just like my older bro's girl just did. Respect, and thx for the advice

 

[Dr.Chemix]

words of wisdom from your old man.

Pimpin 101, the more you project the image of not giving a fuck about em, the more crazy they go.

Anways im glad most of yall backed me in this. I know if the ladies were in here they'd be biting my head off just like my older bro's girl just did. Respect, and thx for the advice

Dog they would have bashed your shit into non existence...

Sounds like you want to renew your membership pimpin...

Shit, its more fun on this side of the fence...at least we don't have corny ass bf/gf parties like its a lifetime network show...

lol, just fukkn wit you kid

 

[Just2C]

words of wisdom from your old man.

Pimpin 101, the more you project the image of not giving a fuck about em, the more crazy they go.

Anways im glad most of yall backed me in this. I know if the ladies were in here they'd be biting my head off just like my older bro's girl just did. Respect, and thx for the advice

Truth....its crazy how a female's mind works. I got a jumpoff who has a man but she mad at me because I dont text or call her, but she make sure to come thru to get smashed tho

 

[longmeat]

Sooooo my gf is having some gay ass dinner party with her friends where they all bringing their bf's and its gonna be like one of them corny dinner type things where all the dudes are pretending to have a good time. This falls on the same day as my cousins bday and he wants me to come party which I agreed to do long ago. I told my girl(like a bauce) that i aint goin to this dinner cuz I think its stupid and also because i want to go party with my cousins. Lol she just got super pissed at me and said its part of my responsibility to her to be there for her, I said, "fuck that shit" like a bauce yet again. Anyways, what do you guys think, do I have to go to this gay ass dinner date shit with her, her friends and their bf's? Or go pop bottles with the fam? Option two all day!

you shoulda box that bitch head off after that b.

I couldn't imagine a broad telling me where I can and cannot go. That shit cray

 

[MallyG]

lol I didnt choose to be in a relationship per say, i caught feeling and didnt want no other dudes runnin up in a chick im feelin, so I had to lock it down or else she was fair game. All these obligations are dumb as fuck, plus I cant make it to both of them. And on top of that, even if I didnt have anything to do would it be wrong for me to not go? If she has a friend bday, I could just spend my time with my cousins and friends rather than be dragged along.

Yeah, that's where you fucked up, fam.

Co-signature goes to MrYoungGun.

As far as the thread premise, I hear you all day and I agree, phuck all that dinner shyt with some people you don't know or care to know, BUT the bolded champ ^^^^^^^....... straight disgustin' bruh. Yo ass DID choose to be in a relationship and your reasoning for being in that relationship is on some juvenile shyt. So she basically tied your hands, gave u an ultimatum and wasn't gonna let u hit no more if you two didn't become an item (officially) so you went ahead & locked it in so she wouldn't stray or keep straying on the low, smh. I got a feeling ya'll relationship ain't really that genuine and that ain't what's goin' on......... Pimpin. But do what'cha do.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

this Dr.Chemix cat is giving some good advice