Ladies: it would seem to me that the guy thats nervous when approaching you..

[elzo69]

my neighbor allows her thugged out boyfriend to sit in the crib all day and play xbox. Every once in a while they'll get into an intense arguement and I'll sit back listen to the whole spectacle. Shit like that only validates my animosity towards the sisters. I know that doesn't have anything to do with your thread. Just though I'd add that.

In response to your thread you have to remember that women do not think with logic. It is solely based on how you make them feel. If your nervous in your approach she will feel uncomfortable. I agreed 100% with you but I remembered the very nature of women and knew that it would never work.

My nicca ur AVI IS GOAT. " WE are growing stronger"

 

[haute]

Or the guy who's going to rape/torture her before killing her and eating her sexual organs.

He could be nervous too.

that reminds me

I can't find my rape whistle or mase :-/

its scary how unobvious it is to some, obviously.

I mean to me its no different from when a girl is nervous about hanging out with a dude

you're nervous because your genuinely attracted and want things to go well

I'm not sure why a girl wouldn't be able to relate that feeling to a guy :shrugs

 

[fiat_money]

that reminds me

I can't find my rape whistle or mase :-/

As long as you still have a Rape-aXe, you should be okay.

 

[MsSouthern]

confidence is sexy

insecurity is not

 

[BeardedFreak]

Completely disagree with the T/S.

Nervous, stammering ass niggas don't mean their sincere...just means their nervous cowards who lack confidence....just because you are nervous doesn't mean you are sincere in what you saying...just means you are nervous about saying it....BECAUSE YOU A COWARD!

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

My nicca ur AVI IS GOAT. " WE are growing stronger"

.............

 

[DarcSkies]

Bitches are mostly dumb. And the smart ones only use the intelligence to be conniving.

Lost cause my friend.

But I always told my homegirl that shit anyway. U should always trust the guy who doesnt know what to say or is shy. Cuz a man who is always saying the right thing and know exactly what to say to your ass is likely just a dude with a lot of experience playing dumb ass broads.

 

[desertrain10]

c/s even the most charismatic mofos gets nervous... it's natural. however some men are better at hiding it than others so its kind of hard to tell, especially if i'm nervous myself

 

[Maalik]

Bitches are mostly dumb. And the smart ones only use the intelligence to be conniving.

Lost cause my friend.

But I always told my homegirl that shit anyway. U should always trust the guy who doesnt know what to say or is shy. Cuz a man who is always saying the right thing and know exactly what to say to your ass is likely just a dude with a lot of experience playing dumb ass broads.

C/S.........

 

[Aztec_Kang]

these women don't give a damn about sincerity. they want guys that other girls want and they want pipe.

close thread.

maybe in some bizarro world sincerity would matter.

 

[haute]

Completely disagree with the T/S.

Nervous, stammering ass niggas don't mean their sincere...just means their nervous cowards who lack confidence....just because you are nervous doesn't mean you are sincere in what you saying...just means you are nervous about saying it....BECAUSE YOU A COWARD!

The hell?

Showing genuine emotion is cowardly? Word?

 

[desertrain10]

confidence is sexy

insecurity is not

^

yes

and this is how so many of us get caught up

i dated a shy guy who would get mad nervous whenever we were alone and it became alil frustrating.

we went out a couple of times but it never got physical. he moved tho...

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

these women don't give a damn about sincerity. they want guys that other girls want and they want pipe.

close thread.

maybe in some bizarro world sincerity would matter.

couldnt have said it better. women don't give a fuck about sincerity. We have been conditioned to believe that the sincere guy ultimately gets the gurl. In reality the bad guys really win.

 

[Iheart~Cali]

is actually the guy that is most likely to be sincere.

very few of us are born knowing how to seduce the opposite sex. its a learned trait.

seems like the guy that confidentaly swaggers across the room, knows exactly what to say to everything...that guys had alot of practice seducing women. so he's probably a player.

on the other hand, the dude that is a bit nervous probably isnt the dude that hollers at chicks on the regular, so he probably sees something in you that made him say "dammit...work up some nerve and talk to her!"

just an observation cuz alotta chicks stay getting their heartbroke yet want a nigga with swag

I'm gonna agree with you because I don't want a guy that's visibly nervous coming up to me. However I assumed alot of guys get apprehensive but just don't show it. Maybe I'm wrong..unno.

 

[CrownChakra]

Leaders have confidence and women want leaders that will lead them to the bedroom. If you are stammering and nervous and shit girls will pick that shit up right away because they are naturally intuitive and whether its true or not they will think your not very good with women which is a turn off. Niggas need to stop putting pussy on the pedestal and start approaching women on a daily basis like they are just any other broad because it is a skill that is going to get better only if you practice. That nervous feeling is easy to get over, its like taking a cold shower. You just get used to it.

 

[BeardedFreak]

The hell?

Showing genuine emotion is cowardly? Word?

Yes,

Being a coward, is a genuine emotion...to a scary ass nigga

We are talking about approaching women...what the fuck is there to be nervous about?...and even if a weak ass nigga is nervous, does that make what he says to the chick genuine...HELL NO...it just makes him a nervous, scary, ass coward nigga...PERIOD!

 

[haute]

Yes,

Being a coward, is a genuine emotion...to a scary ass nigga

We are talking about approaching women...what the fuck is there to be nervous about?...and even if a weak ass nigga is nervous, does that make what he says to the chick genuine...HELL NO...it just makes him a nervous, scary, ass coward nigga...PERIOD!

Or it just makes him a dude who doesn't feel the need act tough/"full of swag" to impress a bitch with daddy issues

 

[BeardedFreak]

Or it just makes him a dude who doesn't feel the need act tough/"full of swag" to impress a bitch with daddy issues

it doesn't automatically make him anything...

The point is, the T/S is saying that just because a weak ass nigga is nervous, he's genuine...and that is COMPLETE BULLSHIT

 

[haute]

it doesn't automatically make him anything...

The point is, the T/S is saying that just because a weak ass nigga is nervous, he's genuine...and that is COMPLETE BULLSHIT

That's not the T/S point

Your missing it, people who need to type in caps usually do

His point isn't that every nervous dude is genuine, his point is that just because a dude isn't overly braggadocios with his shit doesn't mean he should be brushed off, dude could just be having a nervous moment, which happens to everyone regardless of gender

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

Bitches are mostly dumb. And the smart ones only use the intelligence to be conniving.

Lost cause my friend.

But I always told my homegirl that shit anyway. U should always trust the guy who doesnt know what to say or is shy. Cuz a man who is always saying the right thing and know exactly what to say to your ass is likely just a dude with a lot of experience playing dumb ass broads.

they dont realize that shit until it's too late bruh.it takes a man to actually shit on they feelings,knock up with kids,and abuse they asses in order to appreciate someone who's good for them.Women arent that smart when it comes to MEN they go for the wrong men all the time.Even EVE let a damn serpent mess up everything for everybody in the world by eating a apple so you know women fail.I dont see why as men we allow women to easily take over us.Just because they have a pussy doesnt mean we gotta deal with they BS or allow them to destroy us