Ladies, define a man that's "too nice"

[Calii Comfort]

women always bitch and moan about having that nice great loving man but turn them down every day and end up getting with some complete dick head

 

[Well Got Dam]

I'm a pretty nice dude. Open doors for bitches might send a bitch flowers on my old school shit.............................. But let a bitch talk back to me any ol way, you getting some size 11 1/2

up yo ass.

 

[willhustle]

Some of the responses in this thread is just absolutely fucking absurd. At the rate male & female relationships are going I might as well just grow old and alone by myself.

 

[phantom0900]

I wanna know what y'all ladies gotta say about what young money souf has said. It don't apply to all ladies but a lot of y'all like drama and look for reasons to be unhappy. Not to detract from the topic but the bitter niggas is bitching to much and I'd like to see some more constructive dialogue.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Just letting me talk to him any old way. Put me in my place damnit. Shit.

why would you want to talk to him any ole kinda way? thats an issue you have to deal with

and why do you need someone to put you in your place? obviously daddy didnt do a good enough job or daddy wasnt around

why cant you limit yourself in what you say...you do the shit at work....why not do it with the person your with

so if tells you to shut the fuck up...thats attractive?

 

[Iheart~Cali]

I wanna know what y'all ladies gotta say about what young money souf has said. It don't apply to all ladies but a lot of y'all like drama and look for reasons to be unhappy. Not to detract from the topic but the bitter niggas is bitching to much and I'd like to see some more constructive dialogue.

I have nothing to say because I stopped reading his posts ages ago for the reason in the bolded. I can't take those types of men seriously.

Du, Pt, and I think Shuff had some constructive dialogue in here somewhere...

 

[R.D.]

lol...alot of nice guys in here obviously getting their feelings hurt by Cali

Stop bitching and switch ya style up

I dont hold doors for bitches or anybody for that matter
I rather hand out insults then compliments
shit, im just ya regular next door asshole...get like me fellas

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Lol. Nothing wrong with a nice guy. Nice is good. Too nice is not good.
And you're just mean. That doesn't work either.

 

[R.D.]

Lol. Nothing wrong with a nice guy. Nice is good. Too nice is not good.
And you're just mean. That doesn't work either.

lmaooo and yall like it
face it, Asshole is every girls type

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Umm insulting me on a regular basis.....Letting the door slam in my face?? Yes I'm just itching to date a prize such as yourself lol..absolutely not. I notice that door shit too. Even with strangers it pisses me off.

 

[R.D.]

Umm insulting me on a regular basis.....Letting the door slam in my face?? Yes I'm just itching to date a prize such as yourself lol..absolutely not. I notice that door shit too. Even with strangers it pisses me off.

The idea of dating a asshole dosent sound good but when a gorgeous specimen such as myself is standing there decorated in assholeness, IRRESISTIBLE
as far as the door thing, its not just towards woman, i just dont be tryna hold the door, i be moving. And i absolutely hate when dudes hold the door for me, idk why but it pisses me off.

 

[ptnutz]

well i gotta respectfully disagree with the bolded....women know what a good man looks like....they just dont want him until they want him...and they dont want anyone else having him...thats why a married man is really attractive to a chick(no homo) because hes making someone happy and he was good enough to commit..now some chick wants to prove that he aint shit by sleeping with him....its just to prove a point so when the married lady brags about how good he is to her the slut can either throw it in her face or she doesnt have to feel like shes missing out on something since she has a no good nigga too

Sadly, I have to agree a little with the bolded. But there is a difference between a good man and a "nice" man. I believe I am a great man, but I don't take a whole lot of s#!t from anyone, including my wife. I'm not a thug, or a hard ass ni99a, but if I believe you are out of place, I will tell you; wife, boss, preacher, whatever. I do it in a tactful, respectable manner, but I will tell you.

But I do have to agree that many women are immature drama queens that feed on drama themselves. Look at all the T.V. programs that women love; soaps, The Game, Tyler Perry shows, etc. They are all sex and drama, unecessary, damn near unbelievable drama. That's why women gravitate to the thug, not because he is a "real man", its because of all the drama, baggage, and bulls#!t that comes along with him. The drama is exciting and allows them to play martyr to anyone who wants to hear it.

When they finally do grow up and realize there is so much more to life than drama and trolling for sympathy, they usually have been ruined by all the no good ni99as they have been with. So to some a dude with no backbone is "too nice" and to others a dude like me who doesn't give them a lot to complain about, (faithful, loves my kids, good cook, takes care of his business at home and away from it), is "too nice".

 

[Iheart~Cali]

The idea of dating a asshole dosent sound good but when a gorgeous specimen such as myself is standing there decorated in assholeness, IRRESISTIBLE

as far as the door thing, its not just towards woman, i just dont be tryna hold the door, i be moving. And i absolutely hate when dudes hold the door for me, idk why but it pisses me off.

Assholeness ain't gorgeous doll.

And I want you to go out tomorrow and hold the door for some old lady... see how ya feel.

 

[R.D.]

Assholeness ain't gorgeous doll.
And I want you to go out tomorrow and hold the door for some old lady... see how ya feel.

appreciated the help, but fuck no
aint got time to hold the door for no old fucker, her hands were made for pulling, and thats what the fuck she better make em do....pull that mufuckn door oper her cot damn self

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Smh.....sad, just sad.

 

[R.D.]

Smh.....sad, just sad.

i love you too babe

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i love you too babe

so what would you do if you was going to pick your mom up at the mall and as she came out behind some dude he let the door slam in her face

 

[R.D.]

so what would you do if you was going to pick your mom up at the mall and as she came out behind some dude he let the door slam in her face

ask her, did you not see the door swinging back smh