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Tbh I was 19 fckin 16yr olds and up so was a lot of other niggas y'all can play the upstanding citizen role if u want but imma keep it 100. Kids are FCKIN they always have been there's girls in middle school busting they pussy open hell I was 15 when I lost my v card my home girl was 12 kids out here lookin mature now it's a lot of 17yr olds looking like they legal cause there bodies have matured. This is a subject people like to ignore and swipe under the rug cause they know when they was that age they was doing it to. Now that I'm older and look back on it I can say "ya that ain't right" but rewind time and at that age we didn't give no fcks boys wanted pussy and this girls wanted dick plain and simple. Plus if she's 17 and OK with dating and fckin a 25 yr old its pretty safe to say she been fckin older niggas #FACTS
yeah you're not tight
*right cuz ion know wtf tight mean and nigga go to the ghetto and see how many young thots fckin gtfoh with that "the world is a good place shit" ain't nobody ever say what happens in america is right but it happens and its jst the truth live with it
Well yea
We know it happens, at least I witnessed it growing up
I went to school with guys who got locked up for santutory rape
Obviously it doesn't mean everyone endorses it, or that we should just "live with it"
A 16, 17 yr old is barely out of puberty ... They cant even fully grasp the consequences of their actions yet
My niece will turn 16 next yr, I know if me or her father or her 3 uncles find out about any 20+ yr old lame ass nigga tryna hit it's gonna be some problems
So if he waits 2 years will those 24 months really make a difference??? So your uncles will risk an assault charge and your niece will still fuck with dude
My point was the mindset of a 16, 17 is totally different than than that of someone in their mid twenties ... A 16 yr olds brain isn't yet even full developed ... Again they are barely out of puberty ... The power dynamics in such a relationship would be extremely skewed
As far as my niece goes
I hate to admit 2 of her uncles are police officers
They catch wind of a grown man stiffing around her, an ass whipping is the least of his worries
age of consent is 17 in some states so it still comes down to your uncles choosing to break the law if they attack the guy. The brain development argument is kind of weak because at 16-17 your brain is developed enough to make decisions about your body. You can join the military at 17 so a 17 year old choosing to fuck a 25 year old should legally be her decision it may not be the best decision but still it's her decision.
I think people are selling the intelligence and mental development of 17 years olds short they are not that fucking dumb. the power dynamic thing is also a weak argument because there are plenty of relationships among people of the same age where one person is basically in charge.
1.I've always disagreed that we should be sending teens to fight wars
2.Though it wouldnt surprise me that her uncles would physically attack the guy, because they are very protective of their family even to their own detriment, as I already stated that would be the least of someone's worries
U obviously don't understand how consent laws work
Most "legal age of consent" laws for minors have an additional clause that gives an maximum age difference. It is usually no more than a 3 year difference in age.
In other words, in many states, a 16 year old cannot legally have sex with a 25 year old (or anyone over 19)
3. While I do feel as though consent laws need to be reexamined and reformed ... For instance I hate how we indiscriminately label people sex offenders.... I actually like the max age difference clause... I would rather we label 16 as the age of consent and extend the max age difference to 5+yrs
4. Laws aside, I just can't get down with people over the age of 21 dating teen girls if there's more than a 5 yr age difference
While u may disagree, the balance of power in such a relationship more times than not would be entirely unequal (the older person having some advantage by virtue of being older and more experienced), and lead to teens being exploited/pressured into doing something they dont necessarily want to do, would later regret doing
Most people who do engage in sex, relationships with people significantly younger AND still in their teens will readily admit they do so because it's easier to control, manipulate the younger party
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This may sound arbitrary to you but having life experience makes a difference ... Like everyone now at 27 I'm a better decision maker than I was when I was 16, 17... I'm a better decision maker than I was 2 years ago
And it's a fact, the parts our brain responsible for things judgment calls, critical thinking, cost/benefit analysis, etc is still developing until our early to mid twenties