Its not you,,, okay maybe it is

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yall grew apart i guess.
don't drag it out though. don't waste anymore of her time...or yours for that matter. just break it off so both of you can move on
 
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Meh you could just be going through that 'i'm bored as shit' phase

Or

You may have realized she's not the one

Either way, don't be a dirt bag
 
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Chillin&Postin;1152213 said:
For the life of me i jus cant figure out whats Goin on.

Aftet about 3 years im jus not feelin my girl no more. She still look the same and yhe sex got better the longer the we stayed together but i dont care no more.

I be lookin at women that aint even as fine as her thinkin bout smashin.

Im startin to think nature does favor polygamy.

and nature doesn't favor a lot of the shit you do on a daily basis.....so don't blame nature

maybe yall should try to spice things up if you haven't tried already
 
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BootyButterPi;1152256 said:
u better stay with your girl. if u dont smash on the regular, some geek ass dude is dying to.

pi

dude no. fuck that ol..if i'm not on it somebody else is gonna be bs....DUH! thats the point.
If you stay with her you're just gonna end up resenting her and it will end uglier than it would have if you were just straight up. Dont be greedy. if you really wanna do your own thing then DO IT
 
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BootyButterPi;1152256 said:
u better stay with your girl. if u dont smash on the regular, some geek ass dude is dying to.

pi

So true. for every fine chick there issomeone tired of her.

Aka one person's trash is another's treasure.
 
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marie addams;1152236 said:
yall grew apart i guess.
don't drag it out though. don't waste anymore of her time...or yours for that matter. just break it off so both of you can move on

Grew apart... Maybe.

Mentality we are on different waves i have come to realize. But i feel that shouldnt make her a bad person because she is not as interested in the same issues ams i am.
Everyone grows at different rates and u cant force it
 
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Honestly, yall need to talk it out and see what ya'll truly want because if ya'll let it build, one of you will be tempted to do something ya'll may regret. Try to work it out if you feel its worth it, but if not, dont waste each other time or ya'll will end up resenting each other like marie addams said . Talk to your lady and let her know how you feeling.
 
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I'll admit my viewpoint on my girlfriend don't make any sense. That nigga get on my nerves and I'll go days without calling or seeing her because I just feel like we're on different plateaus. But I'd be mad as fuck if she started messing with somebody else and I expect her to stay put until I make my mind up on what I want to do
 
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marie addams;1152310 said:
dude no. fuck that ol..if i'm not on it somebody else is gonna be bs....DUH! thats the point.
If you stay with her you're just gonna end up resenting her and it will end uglier than it would have if you were just straight up. Dont be greedy. if you really wanna do your own thing then DO IT

people can change and a relationship can always grow.

just sayin.
 
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Ive never broke up wit a female before...so i dunno what to tell you.

I usually just give them reasons to break up wit me. So they dont come back
 
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Every man is going to go through this phase when you get married in the 3-5 year mark. Its not in a mans nature to be with one person..its hard work. Make sure you are ready to put in that hard work before you make that decision fellas.

But yo to t/s...all i can suggest is trying some new shit and seeing if she starts to get into it and show sexual positivity. If its that important to you and you feel like you aren't receiving out of the relationship what you put into it....cut her loose.

The earlier you let her go the earlier you can start something new and hopefully more promising. You can never replace time, so don't waste it.
 
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D-Marco;1156564 said:
Ive never broke up wit a female before...so i dunno what to tell you.

I usually just give them reasons to break up wit me. So they dont come back

I used to do that. More like startin arguements over petty shiit till she can not be so clingy and easy to leave. But i realized that is very immature E and stopped doin it. But now that im in a relationship with someone who does her best to make me happy,,,, i kinda feel like an asshole wanting to tell her
" i appreciate all that your doin... But its not enough. I really jus wanna phucc the cashier at publix and the waitress that served us at cheesecake factory and the chick at etc... Really its not you,,, im jus tired of having sex with the same women the past 2 years... Please understand and oh yeah, you gonna bake that chicken or fry it??? Cuz im hungry bae"

thats some real asshole-ish shit imo but on the other hand,,, aint it jus nature???
 
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Chillin&Postin;1156726 said:
I used to do that. More like startin arguements over petty shiit till she can not be so clingy and easy to leave. But i realized that is very immature E and stopped doin it. But now that im in a relationship with someone who does her best to make me happy,,,, i kinda feel like an asshole wanting to tell her
" i appreciate all that your doin... But its not enough. I really jus wanna phucc the cashier at publix and the waitress that served us at cheesecake factory and the chick at etc... Really its not you,,, im jus tired of having sex with the same women the past 2 years... Please understand and oh yeah, you gonna bake that chicken or fry it??? Cuz im hungry bae"

thats some real asshole-ish shit imo but on the other hand,,, aint it jus nature???

I feel you. Your probably just goin through that phase we all go thru. But with me, whenever me an my ex "broke up" I would be beatin down everything, that way I know if it was a phase or what I really wanted.

I suggest instead of breaking up wit someone you've been wit for 2 yrs, just tell her you want to take a break cuz u "need space"(whatever that means) Because your always gonna want to fuck other chicks homie.
 
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