"It wasn't the "FIRST date", it was the FOURTH....

[NYCeeCee]

No, if it's a mutual thing. I have more respect for a woman that says "I'm not settling down right now, I'm checking out my other options, but I like you and wouldn't mind testing the waters" rather than a woman who tells me she wants to settle down but you get the feeling she's fucking everybody but you.

LOL, you're rare. Some Men and women's whole relationship (or lack thereof) is based on when they had sex. A woman could've slept with the entire Philadelphia Eagles on Tues, you take her out on a first date on Wed and she doesn't sleep with you.....you think she's a saint. LOL. She was probably sore from the night before. bahahaha!!!

 

[usmarin3]

He lost by taking bitches out to eat. What's the point of even dating nowadays, all it is you tricking off on some bitch.

I hang out with chicks in social environment. I'm always with my friends at a social environment (bbq, bar, pool party,etc), what i do is invite chicks over to just hang out. It's cheaper that way and a chick is more likely to fuck in that environment because her guard is down. All that going out on dates is some 1980's bullshit.

 

[thekillingjoke]

Don't know if I said this before, but ladies here's some advice: Be honest with yourself about who you are and have the courage to be that person. if you want to fuck, then go fuck. If you want to go get drunk, get drunk. And there is nothing wrong with sucking a dick. If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I guaren-damn-tee you they are bad people. Tell them to lick the dark part of your ass and cut them out of your life. No one has it all figured out, especially the people who are acting like they do and are judging you for it. Pretending to be something you aren't because to please a bunch of judgement hypocrites is not the way to be happy. Living the life you want to live is.

 

[NYCeeCee]

He lost by taking bitches out to eat. What's the point of even dating nowadays, all it is you tricking off on some bitch.

I hang out with chicks in social environment. I'm always with my friends at a social environment (bbq, bar, pool party,etc), what i do is invite chicks over to just hang out. It's cheaper that way and a chick is more likely to fuck in that environment because her guard is down. All that going out on dates is some 1980's bullshit.

Honestly, he goes for a certain type of woman who won't be ok with just "kicking it" with 20 other people around all the time. Don't you guys (I'm not talking about YOU, just guys in general) complain about a woman having her friends around influencing her, etc. How do you really get to know someone at a cookout or a pool party?

I'm sure he likes pool, likes food, and likes to drink. He just happened to have someone else around who he's interested in..and he payed. He got it. He's single....and knowing him, the $ was nothing. The only time I see guys complaining about "tricking" is on the IC. These dudes will forego fun for themselves just to say they didn't spend a dime on a woman....then complain about chicken head hoodrats. LOL! The chicken hoodrats are usually ok with a McD's trip and a grape swisher of piff. LOL.

 

[usmarin3]

Honestly, he goes for a certain type of woman who won't be ok with just "kicking it" with 20 other people around all the time. Don't you guys (I'm not talking about YOU, just guys in general) complain about a woman having her friends around influencing her, etc. How do you really get to know someone at a cookout or a pool party?

I'm sure he likes pool, likes food, and likes to drink. He just happened to have someone else around who he's interested in..and he payed. He got it. He's single....and knowing him, the $ was nothing. The only time I see guys complaining about "tricking" is on the IC. These dudes will forego fun for themselves just to say they didn't spend a dime on a woman....then complain about chicken head hoodrats. LOL! The chicken hoodrats are usually ok with a McD's trip and a grape swisher of piff. LOL.

I'm inviting her, not her friends. Plus my guy friends aren't natural cockblockers like women are, even my female friends are cool as fuck, they aren't like most chicks either.

I get to know someone because if they can't get along with my friends then that's a problem. All the people i hang with are extremely chill as hell and funny, and i hang with them more than anyone, so if she can't fit in then maybe something is wrong with her.

I don't see the point of dating and taking women out to eat, most of the time it's a bunch of pretentious shit and people on their best behavior. I believe you see people for who they really are when they are interacting with other people in a social environment. Dating is some shit benefits women more than anything, they get to get all dressed up and go get some free shit. I like to see people in a natural setting, dating is dead imo.

 

[nex gin]

First date...& smh dude is a dipshit.

 

[NYCeeCee]

I'm inviting her, not her friends. Plus my guy friends aren't natural cockblockers like women are, even my female friends are cool as fuck, they aren't like most chicks either.

I get to know someone because if they can't get along with my friends then that's a problem. All the people i hang with are extremely chill as hell and funny, and i hang with them more than anyone, so if she can't fit in then maybe something is wrong with her.

I don't see the point of dating and taking women out to eat, most of the time it's a bunch of pretentious shit and people on their best behavior. I believe you see people for who they really are when they are interacting with other people in a social environment. Dating is some shit benefits women more than anything, they get to get all dressed up and go get some free shit. I like to see people in a natural setting, dating is dead imo.

So she just met you and not only has to get over the nervousness (yes, women get nervous on first dates) of conversing with you....now she has to meet and be comfortable around your fraternity, too? It's not about "getting along" with your friends...it's about her wanting to get to know YOU first, not your friends. I don't know how old you are or what your future goals are as far as relationships are concerned, but that's some HS/Freshman year of college crap, IMO. Why do I have to meet the "get along gang" immediately? Sounds like a panel job interview to me.

And what if you meet her on a Tues, but there's no bbq/pool party/gathering coming up any time soon? What if it's Winter? LOL! You gotta wait 4 months to go out with her?

That's too much...All because you don't want to spend a bill or two on a date? Everything costs. Whether it be time, money, whatever.

 

[allreasoned_out]

Lmao........

 

[usmarin3]

So she just met you and not only has to get over the nervousness (yes, women get nervous on first dates) of conversing with you....now she has to meet and be comfortable around your fraternity, too? It's not about "getting along" with your friends...it's about her wanting to get to know YOU first, not your friends. I don't know how old you are or what your future goals are as far as relationships are concerned, but that's some HS/Freshman year of college crap, IMO. Why do I have to meet the "get along gang" immediately? Sounds like a panel job interview to me.

And what if you meet her on a Tues, but there's no bbq/pool party/gathering coming up any time soon? What if it's Winter? LOL! You gotta wait 4 months to go out with her?

That's too much...All because you don't want to spend a bill or two on a date? Everything costs. Whether it be time, money, whatever.

What nervousness, it's not like she is on a job interview and why are you acting like my people are gonna grill her. It's just a natural hanging out thing, she can get to know me without me tricking off money on her. It ain't about no college or no freshman shit, it's about why do i have to go out my way to impress your ass in a formal setting, when i can get straight to the core of who someone is and that's in a social settings with people who are familiar with me. Most bitches don't even show who they are until weeks into dating them, because they put on a facade when you first meet them. I just chose to cut through all the bullshit, save my damn money and get to the point.

Most of my long term relationships have been like that, it's been through hanging out not none of that Harry Met Sally nonsense. Then again most of the chicks i date are real down to Earth, none of that i have to be on my best behavior come and take me out to a fancy restaurant shit. I'm not a fancy restaurant person myself, and i don't want a girl like that either. I'm not into that pretentious shit.

Save all that wining and dinning shit for those Drake type niggas, shit i learn a long time ago is it's about the person not the ambiance and all that other shit.

 

[Mr.LV]

Yeah she did not fall for the okey doke back to the drawing boards.

 

[NYCeeCee]

What nervousness, it's not like she is on a job interview and why are you acting like my people are gonna grill her. It's just a natural hanging out thing, she can get to know me without me tricking off money on her. It ain't about no college or no freshman shit, it's about why do i have to go out my way to impress your ass in a formal setting, when i can get straight to the core of who someone is and that's in a social settings with people who are familiar with me. Most bitches don't even show who they are until weeks into dating them, because they put on a facade when you first meet them. I just chose to cut through all the bullshit, save my damn money and get to the point.

Most of my long term relationships have been like that, it's been through hanging out not none of that Harry Met Sally nonsense. Then again most of the chicks i date are real down to Earth, none of that i have to be on my best behavior come and take me out to a fancy restaurant shit. I'm not a fancy restaurant person myself, and i don't want a girl like that either. I'm not into that pretentious shit.

Save all that wining and dinning shit for those Drake type niggas, shit i learn a long time ago is it's about the person not the ambiance and all that other shit.

Who said anything about going to a "fancy" restaurant. "Down to earth" women like One-on-one time, too. She's not looking to date your crew. And when you meet someone, aren't both parties trying to "impress" eachother, hence you saying in your previous post "she wants to dress up". The only reason why you're looking at it as YOU impressing HEr is b/c in most cases, you'd be the one coming out of pocket. LOL!

Kudos to the adult women who don't mind group dates on first encounters b/c dude is trying to "save" money. Not knocking them, it just couldn't be me.

 

[NYCeeCee]

And let me just add before I go. Like I said in another thread: Some people are just generous with everyone. If they "trick" on women, they're most likely "tricking" on family and friends, too. They got it, they share it. Simple.

 

[international]

that nigga dropped mad luchini that one day. Lol

i did some crap like that before (minus the spending money) chick told me we couldnt have sex the first time we hung out. So i invited her to my homies bbq then to my house later for wine.

Technically, that was two different hang out sessions, so she gave up the drawls.

some women just want you to manipulate the situation so they can respect themselves later.

real shyt!!!

 

[5th Letter]

i gotta salute the dude for trying to stretch that shit out like it was 4 dates.

That's some ill shit lol.

 

[usmarin3]

Who said anything about going to a "fancy" restaurant. "Down to earth" women like One-on-one time, too. She's not looking to date your crew. And when you meet someone, aren't both parties trying to "impress" eachother, hence you saying in your previous post "she wants to dress up". The only reason why you're looking at it as YOU impressing HEr is b/c in most cases, you'd be the one coming out of pocket. LOL!

Kudos to the adult women who don't mind group dates on first encounters b/c dude is trying to "save" money. Not knocking them, it just couldn't be me.

It isn't you, it's what work for me. I'm not gonna work hard for what i can get for free, basic niggasophy!

 

[Sep-00]

i like his math but that was a first date

 

[still-SBP]

I aint mad at him

 

[fullfledged]

prime reason i dont spend $ on a woman i wanna sleep with.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Exactly. Lately though, the games have started to annoy me.

I think its because I just dont have the time to play along anymore.

lately loo???

really???

lately my nigga

u been here for a hot minute my g

never, not once, have you NOT been peeved by the interactions you've received from a female

 

[Niggersauce]

that nigga dropped mad luchini that one day. lol

i did some crap like that before (minus the spending money) chick told me we couldnt have sex the first time we hung out. so i invited her to my homies BBQ then to my house later for wine.

technically, that was two different hang out sessions, so she gave up the drawls.

some women just want you to manipulate the situation so they can respect themselves later.

Change some to most and you have a gem my man....