Is Your S/O The Person You Envisioned Yourself Being With...?

[A1000MILES]

Wait we talkin about appearance-wise ?

Then pretty much yes, my chick is bad.

Smh at having to set low expectations.

Not just appearance, but the total package...Like, I never pictured myself bein with a girl who didn't cook...But my current one can't...She's also allergic/averse to hella shit, so it interferes with what I can share with her food wise...

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

Looks...kinda sorta. He is darkskinned (yeah, I'm colorstruck, fuck off) but he's a little short compared to my exes.

Personality - absolutely. Perfect mix of intelligent & chill and we come from almost identical upbringings so we relate a lot. I don't believe in soulmates but I never thought I'd meet someone who went through almost all of the same things I have...

Age - he's the youngest guy I've ever dated (3 yrs older). Always saw myself with an older man...but he's an old spirit

 

[Cinco]

Usually dated older career focused, dainty, light skin yella long hair chics

Now I'm w a party girl, spark plug, wear Jordans, who teaches dance and art classes

Guess u never know

 

[7figz]

Wait we talkin about appearance-wise ?

Then pretty much yes, my chick is bad.

Smh at having to set low expectations.

Not just appearance, but the total package...Like, I never pictured myself bein with a girl who didn't cook...But my current one can't...She's also allergic/averse to hella shit, so it interferes with what I can share with her food wise...

Ight now I see what you sayin', we all want a chick that could cook.

There's those expectations of shit that's mandatory and then the desirable shit. My chick ain't 100% on either. I'm sure she'll say the same shit. Fuck it tho, as long as it's no deal-breakers.

 

[damobb2deep]

my last ex was... we still cool as friends though..

Oh...So would she be your standard from now on...?

for a wifey that i can last with... yea i can say that..

 

[A1000MILES]

Usually dated older career focused, dainty, light skin yella long hair chics

Now I'm w a party girl, spark plug, wear Jordans, who teaches dance and art classes

Guess u never know

Mine loves sneakers too...Like, she really make me feel lame sometimes cause I usta be into sneakers but Ion care bout that shit no mo, lol...Back to back last month she copped the six rings, the gamma blues, and the Teyanna Taylor addidas...And she don't never wear most of em...

 

[damobb2deep]

i cant do real young chicks... smh my minimum is they gotta be @ least 22.. (im 25) but i prefer chicks my age or older...

 

[Cinco]

Usually dated older career focused, dainty, light skin yella long hair chics

Now I'm w a party girl, spark plug, wear Jordans, who teaches dance and art classes

Guess u never know

Mine loves sneakers too...Like, she really make me feel lame sometimes cause I usta be into sneakers but Ion care bout that shit no mo, lol...Back to back last month she copped the six rings, the gamma blues, and the Teyanna Taylor addidas...And she don't never wear most of em...

Man they can always find them too in those little sizes

 

[damobb2deep]

Usually dated older career focused, dainty, light skin yella long hair chics

Now I'm w a party girl, spark plug, wear Jordans, who teaches dance and art classes

Guess u never know

Mine loves sneakers too...Like, she really make me feel lame sometimes cause I usta be into sneakers but Ion care bout that shit no mo, lol...Back to back last month she copped the six rings, the gamma blues, and the Teyanna Taylor addidas...And she don't never wear most of em...

some females shop because they use it as a "positive stereotype" jus like men like 2 fuck damn near anything cuz its a "positive stereotype"

 

[A1000MILES]

She does comfort shop...Bad day, new outfit...I told her in the future she gotta check that shit, lol...

 

[damobb2deep]

She does comfort shop...Bad day, new outfit...I told her in the future she gotta check that shit, lol...

my ex gets mad @ me when i call her a shopaholic..

i tell her " when you have 2 make excuses on why you should go shopping or brag about how much a 'deal' somthing you bought is you shop 2 much"

 

[bignorm]

no.

 

[KnowReasonForPeace]

i never thought i'd be with another scorpio because i'm an asshole and set in my ways but we still together 8 years later.i caught her when she was 18 so i guess i kinda molded her into the type of woman i wanted in some ways.sex made things easier to talk about and deal with too.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

when I met her, she stayed in heels, wore skirts that showed off her sexy thick thighs, and would wear lipstick all the time, she got real sexy lips, and did the make up with her eyes that made her look real seductive...through dating her, i thought she was a grown sexy mature afrocentric woman

times change b..... ...they change

so basically u fell for the okie doke...

 

[Well Got Dam]

in past 5 years went from an african, to japanese to caucasian girl i click with all types of women

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Personality wise- yes.

He's a nice guy, tbh. Our communication is a million times better, too.

Everything else- no. We pretty much grew up completely different, so we different views on certain things. But always seem to see eye to eye on the important things.

 

[AZTG]

Yea my girl is who i envisioned. Personality wise, intelligence, principles, and she is a freak. Looks wise? She looks great, im attracted to her, but after years of being together i wouldnt mind a change in looks.

 

[CHICAGO_BREED]

Hell No. Looks- B+, Behavior- D, Age- A, but what got was when we where in the army when she let me hit I tried to play her and was like, "aite after today we not kicking no more, so dont talk to me when we get back," and this bitch said "OK" like no fucks even given. So a week go by i see her laughing and shit chilling. I thought i put Prime Beef on her ass and was expecting her to beg a nigga to be with her, hell fuck no. But anyway she use to cook full coarse meals for a nigga on a hot plate. I wasnt use to that shit, in chicago them hoes get you a italian beef and call it a day. She use to wash a nigga clothes. I guess that southern hospitality got me.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i never thought i'd be with my wife.

i was just trying to smash her rude and ignorant ass to show her she aint shit

an she showed me she was the shit.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

shorty is a 10. Smart as hell book wise and of course she got the street smarts on lock. Sexy as hell, with the body on curve. Yep, she is what the doc envisioned.