Is Your S/O The Person You Envisioned Yourself Being With...?

[700]

Fuck no, but she fucked wit me when I was down bad while all my other how's bucked on me

I appreciate that

 

[700]

Hoes

 

[blacktux]

By the way she loves me, yes

By the way she looks, FUCK NO

But as a man thats likely, honestly we do have some unrealisitc expectations when it comes to a womans appearance.

 

[Kat]

I figured I'd end up with an older guy since I've always dated older guys, save a couple.

Behavior wise, he's a little more tame than the person I envisoned myself being with but I'm getting him to where I want him.

Looks wise, I was envisioning like 6'5ish, but he's my height and I find him really attractive so that's cool.

What got me was his personality and his overall demeanor. He's fair in his thinking, really intelligent, a smart ass like me, really funny yet chill..we just click.

 

[blacktux]

What got me hooked (and keeps me around) though is the cooking, that woman put her ankles in the pot.

She just learned my grandmas egg nog on new years too, got her like 100 points.

 

[damobb2deep]

my last ex was... we still cool as friends though..

 

[A1000MILES]

my last ex was... we still cool as friends though..

Oh...So would she be your standard from now on...?

 

[mryounggun]

I never really had a picture in my head of who I'd end up being with. Looks ain't really that SUPER to me when it comes to a long-term relationship. I mean it is, but far from the most important thing.

 

[Trollio]

Man get this ricki lake shit the fuck outta here

 

[7figz]

I ain't envision shit, figured I'd be a bachelor for life. Still ain't married but thought I'd be livin that single life.

 

[Kat]

By the way she loves me, yes

By the way she looks, FUCK NO

But as a man thats likely, honestly we do have some unrealisitc expectations when it comes to a womans appearance.

Especially when you start to factor in your own appearance.

Not you specifically, but men in general.

 

[A1000MILES]

Light shots...

 

[Kat]

lol..I've never even seen him. No specific shots intended.

We see it ALL the time.

 

[7figz]

Wait we talkin about appearance-wise ?

Then pretty much yes, my chick is bad.

Smh at having to set low expectations.

 

[A1000MILES]

I think with ery girl I ever dated...I was dating up...Looks wise...I ain't a ugly nigga but sometimes it surprises me the girls I date in comparison to the way I look...Some disagree though...Me and my cousin was drinkin one day, and he called one of my exes ugly, I wanted to box that nigga...Lol, and it hurt worse cause I knew that currently she's let herself go so it's not een like I can defend her in the present..:

 

[Kat]

Realistic expectations is not equivalent to low expectations.

 

[A1000MILES]

Or, lemme rephrase...Ery actual girlfriend...Not casual dates...

 

[MsSouthern]

Yep he is the one

Doesn't matter what I envisioned myself with before we met ....I love everything about him

 

[Kat]

Yep he is the one

Doesn't matter what I envisioned myself with before we met ....I love everything about him

Way to make me feel shitty with an awesome response @MsSouthern!

 

[blacktux]

Realistic expectations is not equivalent to low expectations.

Some people brag before they think.

A dude could see himself with a beautiful chocolate chick with dreads and end up with a beautiful light skinned chick with a perm.

Just because you didnt expect it doesnt mean you arent happy with it.