Is this the problem with black nerds?

[allreasoned_out]

The rest:

Anyone reading this blog knows I despise the thug/hoodlum population. I have never dated a thug. I have never been interested in a thug. I have never given a thug the time of day. I’m attracted to productive good-looking black men who are doing something with their lives. You don’t have to be a nerd to fit into that category. You don’t have to be college educated to fit into that category. The only requirement is that you have your shit together!

Ultimately I think this is another self-esteem issue…but with black men. Think about it…Black men have the advantage (over black women) right now in terms of dating/relationships/marriage. I imagine it must be a kick in the ego for any black man to be rejected by a black woman. I’m sure it affects the way they look at themselves if it continues to happen over and over again. Black women internalize low self-esteem (most of the time). Black men on the other hand lash out with bitter hatred at those they feel did them wrong. I can’t really say I sympathize with them. Like I said before black men have the advantage with the dating game. Why not step your game up? Why not transform yourself in order to pull a woman? When I say transform I mean put your best foot forward and become the total package (brains, looks, charisma, and money).

***Note--You can be smart and not be nerdy.

http://blackconsciousthought.blogspot.com/2010/03/never-satisfied-why-nerdy-black-men.html

 

[Rozetta5tone]

I just skimmed through that bullshit.....she doesnt offer any proof other than opinion and speculation to justify her claim so.......

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[allreasoned_out]

I think she is wrong in a number of ways. For one, is it really true that white male nerds only get women once they have achieved something? I think they get a lot more attention from white women before they achieve anything than black male nerds get from black women before they achieve anything.

 

[Miles HIGH]

So, t/s, and I ain't tryna roast, are you a Black nerd?

 

[Rozetta5tone]

I think she is wrong on a number of ways. For one, is it really true that white male nerds only get women once they have achieved something? I think they get a lot more attention from white women before they achieve anything than black male nerds get from black women before they achieve anything.

I think a black nerd would get a white woman before a white nerd could get a white woman but neither nerd really stands a chance against an average black woman.

 

[The_African]

She lacks the capacity to recognize individuals as individuals, from what I've read (I skimmed through most of it). I can think of countless White 'nerds' who fit the description she assigns to Black 'nerds'. I've also never understood why any man would resent Black women or women in general for who they choose to date (and I've heard several non-'nerdy' men do so) but insecurity is a part of being human and most of us lash out against those who cause us to feel that way.

People are just people, they're not 'nerds', 'thugs', 'alpha men/women' etc. Nobody has any real control over being shy, nerdy, introverted/extroverted etc., the only thing that matters is being compassionate and kind, or at the very least, not being cruel. There are many kinds of women that I'm not physically or romantically attracted to but as long as they have good hearts, I respect them. This was a pretty degrading and thoughtless blog.

 

[darkrain]

Let me say this..............

 

[Alpha_Ambition]

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[Heart Of A Hustler]

Quit geiving hos especially black women a platform to speak they just be making shit up to fit their arguement

 

[politicalthug202]

I agree with her. I went to all white school the popular white guys dated the hot white chicks. the nerdy guys got play from other nerdy chicks. I don't understand why this shit should be any different for black people. niggaz act like steve erkel and carlton banks and get mad when a chick who like nicki minaj dont want to talk to them. white dudes who act like skreech accept the fact that they are nerds and they wont be fucking chicks who like angelina joe lee until they make six figures.

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

I read about 2 paragraphs when I realize that this is just another excuse for black women to justify dating no good men. How can you possibly correlate being nerdy with being physically unattractive? I seen hundreds........yes hundreds of black women w/ ugly pirate lookin ass niggaz.
Truth is......... if you not giving off the perception that you've slept with over a hundred women then more than likely the average bitch ain't fuckin with you. This is what it all boils down to, the money, cars, and clothes is only added leverage.

You say they checkin for confidence for lack of a better word. Well I found a better one and its called experience.
Bitches like experiecned niggaz.

Because if your confident your obvioulsy "experienced" in with women.

 

[Ibex]

Bottom line you can be handsome fly ass nigga like me or be a pocket protecting nigga like BEAM.......either way the ladies are not sticking around unless you have some money or a mean pipe game.

 

[loch121]

I think this was a good post.Bottomline no woman who is jazzy and sexy wants a lame ass nigga.I think there is a middle ground between nerd and thug.In high school I wasn't the type to be dating the head cheerleader or the wack chicks.I was in the middle with the nice pretty chicks but.I had some grade A bitches on my dick but,didn't know it at the time.I later went back and hit some of them when we met later.I never been the type to sweat bitches.I was always on my music shit.I don't consider myself to be a super thug but,I know the streets.I also gotta nerdy side,that likes to read and study deep shit too.I done had all kinda chicks from strippers to average chicks.I guess I'm pretty cool seeing that getting a bad chick is not a problem.i beat down so many chicks by my 20's I got tired and got a girl.there are tactics to getting women that have nothing to do with looks or money.it's called confidence and game.You just need the right tools.It's nothing to get a woman.if you can't do that.You ain't gone be able to do much of anything.One of the 1st rules to getting a chick is not giving a fuck.Chicks also are turned on by a nigga who attracts other women.I done beat chicks down just by bringin another chick around.GAME
Loch week 59 Drake Over Freestyle http://youtube.com/lochofmceo

 

[Shawn Finesse]

I think this was a good post.Bottomline no woman who is jazzy and sexy wants a lame ass nigga.I think there is a middle ground between nerd and thug.In high school I wasn't the type to be dating the head cheerleader or the wack chicks.I was in the middle with the nice pretty chicks but.I had some grade A bitches on my dick but,didn't know it at the time.I later went back and hit some of them when we met later.I never been the type to sweat bitches.I was always on my music shit.I don't consider myself to be a super thug but,I know the streets.I also gotta nerdy side,that likes to read and study deep shit too.I done had all kinda chicks from strippers to average chicks.I guess I'm pretty cool seeing that getting a bad chick is not a problem.i beat down so many chicks by my 20's I got tired and got a girl.there are tactics to getting women that have nothing to do with looks or money.it's called confidence and game.You just need the right tools.It's nothing to get a woman.if you can't do that.You ain't gone be able to do much of anything.One of the 1st rules to getting a chick is not giving a fuck.Chicks also are turned on by a nigga who attracts other women.I don't beat chicks down just by bringin another chick around.GAME
Loch week 59 Drake Over Freestyle http://youtube.com/lochofmceo

blah blah blah fucckin blah

 

[loch121]

blah blah blah fucckin blah

Wusup?what does that mean?

 

[The_African]

I liked my post.

 

[jay83]

I was kinda reading it until she started back tracking to Highschool talking about she dated the Football Captain. After that she just came off as a former groupie justifying her ways. eh.

I wouldnt mind dating a black female nerd. Not too many of those around. But some black dudes do be complaining though.

 

[Rell Mayne]

Whoa...Nigga i aint readin all that shit....

 

[Miles HIGH]

Can someone school on what a black nerd is.

Coz I know dudes who play videos games all day and watch anime but be fuckin dymes

Apparently, it's this guy...

 

[peagle05]

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