Is this the problem with black nerds?

[longmeat]

Read the whole thread and this ^^ is the realest answer I've seen thus far.

99.9% of this miscommunication between blackwomen and blackmen could be avoided if they stop putting the cameras and microphones in these retarded negro's faces....Realtalk!!!!

Fellas, it's good, attractive blackwomen out here and I know this because I see them every, single day...matter of fact...I work wit this one chick who is a certified 9-10 and she's single right now and looking for a good dude (I already got a wifey BTW). All shawty want is a christian-dude wit his head on straight and working towards accomplishing goals in life. Once again, niggas it's good women out here just stop listenin to these bird-brains they keep given the platform to, because they ain't doing nothing but misrepresenting the real chicks out here. Like one poster said earlier, when these chicks start talking, just walk in the opposite direction because if you engage in a convo wit them, you gonna take a L off top.

naw my nigga. the problem is givin any of these hoes a platform to speak. whether it's these bird ass bitches that get on the net complaining or these so called "good women" who can't find a man. the last thing any nigga need to do is pay any god damn attention to what a bitch says. That shits and automatic L. Like I said, I'm 27 years old and I've taken 2 L's in my life. the 1st was 10 when I listened to mom dukes, and the second was at 23 when I listened to one of gfs.

 

[longmeat]

cause some young chick in alabama tried to kill her mom over some lil thug ass dude

you dont see any chix riding for a man who wanna do right by them

not every man want to be a thug,playa,etc...

they have all these kids with these fools but they want us to take up the slack for what he left behind

son those same bird ass bitches is gonna make dumb mistakes no matter who the fuck they with. those the type bitches that anyone that fuck with em ends up dead. those the type bitches that before you meet em you working on your phd in molecular biology, 2 years later you paying child support and working at wal-mart as a door greater. like i keep saying mayne, these dumb ass bitches is gonna self destruct either way, so just keep duckin em, and keep ignorin whatever non sense come the fuck outta they mouth. In other words, NEVER give these hoes a platform to speak on.

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

true true i feel ya Long

 

[Madam Speaker]

lmao...

Anyway im as nerdy as they come, and thats never stopped me from getting girls...

exactly..some niggas are just fuckin lame as all hell.

And if that same rat do shoot at that same nerd after highschool when a nigga paid and what not.

Shes gonna

a. Trick off ya money and/or money on the books( cuz her baby daddy prolly locked up)

b. Continue fuckin her baby daddy when he get off lock and/or another nigga round the way

c. Plus she need money for her litter

Wash , rinse, and repeat

Fact of the matter is she always looked at u like a trick..ya just a trick w. money now. And if it aint the hs rat it'll be some other hoe. I see this time and time again..smh.

 

[isayas]

That's what she likes.

 

[white people like me]

It's funny she tries to justify these women going after awful men.

 

[jackthemack]

Damn this kinda made my soul burn slow. But fuck it, I do ok whilst still being the biggest geek I know. You gotta know how to attract their mind and not just their body.

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I laugh at shit like this, of course you are going to say that's what you want, but the majority of females don't practice what they preach. "I want a nice educated man," how many times as this been said, all the while fucking a thug nigga.

Remember, women say one thing, think another, and do the total opposite............................

 

[Bwoahmizzee]

I aint reading all that shit

sorry bro

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I aint reading all that shit

sorry bro

You should bro. See the hypocrisy for yourself. I learned as a young boy to just let women talk, cuz very soon they'll contradict themselves...................

 

[Cleveland7venty6]

whats nerdy about being smart?

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

whats nerdy about being smart?

For those that exercise no intelligence and pick up nothing other than a textbook, anything different is "nerdy"..........

 

[American Loo VII 3D]

i read what she said, and i believe alot of women would agree with her.

but its unfair for her to tell the nerdy guys to "get their money right and be patient"

because realistically, by the time this happens, the "dime" pieces have passed their peak (age 18-30)

so the nerdy guy loses again................

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

i read what she said, and i believe alot of women would agree with her.

but its unfair for her to tell the nerdy guys to "get their money right and be patient"

because realistically, by the time this happens, the "dime" pieces have passed their peak (age 18-30)

so the nerdy guy loses again................

Not exactly bro. Most "nerdy" guys eventually learn that those hoes aren't worth their time and they begin to expand their options. They find a woman/women that understand them or are willing to go through the process with them. Sometimes, all a man has to do is know where to find dimes like them and speak the right language........................

 

[loch121]

this is the problem with niggas. Worrying about shit like that when you should be trying to come up. Niggas fighting each other over a piece of pussy, that's some lame nigga shit. A piece of pussy ain't nothing, it's expendable. Get money and the bitches come running

It was just a joke ppl.Calm down

 

[American Loo VII 3D]

Not exactly bro. Most "nerdy" guys eventually learn that those hoes aren't worth their time and they begin to expand their options. They find a woman/women that understand them or are willing to go through the process with them. Sometimes, all a man has to do is know where to find dimes like them and speak the right language........................

yeah i totally agree with that.

what i was saying is, if a nerd was to follow her advice (which was to leave the "dimes" alone until your are paid, with a nice car, house etc) he may very well be in his 30s, and the women he wants would likely past their peak

unless, of course, he dates young dimes, but aside from sex he may not get anything real out of it.

 

[John_Blazini]

I have better things to do then read all that shit................................

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

It was just a joke ppl.Calm down

Although you may have been joking, you'd be surprised how many dudes have that very mentality. Men gotta learn to up their standards and quit accepting leftovers....................

 

[Maalik]

it's like this ...every man and woman deserves a chance no matter how they look ,cause theres so many black women out here making excuses to continue fucking with these thugs and having bastard kids.

the so called nerds be the fortune 500 niggaz making that bread then when these brawds are fucked up and used up,they want to finally give a good man a chance i think it's a slap in the face of all good men who end up getting left over garbage.

why would any woman want to give a good man to useless years of her life but will give a thug or playa the best of her years

the thugs and playas get the women with the phattest asses and cute faces etc....

the good niggaz get the beach wells and backtracking hoes who will treat him bad cause of what tyrone did to her throughout the relationship.

i dont understand women

I understand where ole' girl was getting at with her argument but...I must admit...halfway through she lost credibility with me. You cant expect someone to respect your opinion on a matter & you using swag & lameness to guage someone's value as a mate. Sounds childish...especially when considering that shes most likely in her 20s. In High School, most relationships are superficial & shallow but...thats High School, you shouldnt expect too much from 14-17 year olds. The problem stems from young adulthood / college / 18 - 25 age range. Alot of these sistas deem certain men as lame just because they dont fit into the stereotypical box of what a black man is. It has nothin to do with a brother's appeal. I've seen dudes who were handsome (no homo, very comfortable in my sexuality) but, since they lacked the characteristics that sistas wanted, they were left out while.....I seen big ole gargutuan, amos & andy lookin ass niggas swimming in dimes because they had *swag*. So its not about attraction at all. As stated above...if you do anything to stand out from what a black man is supposed to be...you're considered weird. If you like computers & plan on being the next Steve Jobs....good luck with Keisha. If you like Science & eventually end up becoming the next Ron McNair....good luck with Lisa Raye. Our sistas arent very bright when it comes to choosing an ideal mate & it shows when looking towards our statistics. As the woman stated....if she doesnt deem these men worthy of her attention in her younger years....and chooses to roll with the status symbol / popular choice (High School QB, Thugs, Point Guard)...she shouldnt be upset...hell, BW in general shouldnt get upset when BM become successful & choose to date out of race, especially when considering the fact that yall didnt want them.

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I understand where ole' girl was getting at with her argument but...I must admit...halfway through she lost credibility with me. You cant expect someone to respect your opinion on a matter & you using swag & lameness to guage someone's value as a mate. Sounds childish...especially when considering that shes most likely in her 20s. In High School, most relationships are superficial & shallow but...thats High School, you shouldnt expect too much from 14-17 year olds. The problem stems from young adulthood / college / 18 - 25 age range. Alot of these sistas deem certain men as lame just because they dont fit into the stereotypical box of what a black man is. It has nothin to do with a brother's appeal. I've seen dudes who were handsome (no homo, very comfortable in my sexuality) but, since they lacked the characteristics that sistas wanted, they were left out while.....I seen big ole gargutuan, amos & andy lookin ass niggas swimming in dimes because they had *swag*. So its not about attraction at all. As stated above...if you do anything to stand out from what a black man is supposed to be...you're considered weird. If you like computers & plan on being the next Steve Jobs....good luck with Keisha. If you like Science & eventually end up becoming the next Ron McNair....good luck with Lisa Raye. Our sistas arent very bright when it comes to choosing an ideal mate & it shows when looking towards our statistics. As the woman stated....if she doesnt deem these men worthy of her attention in her younger years....and chooses to roll with the status symbol / popular choice (High School QB, Thugs, Point Guard)...she shouldnt be upset...hell, BW in general shouldnt get upset when BM become successful & choose to date out of race, especially when considering the fact that yall didnt want them.

Wisdom..................................